FabSwingers.com forum: Paying for meets/event's?

By *b couple OP Couple
over a year ago

southampton

Jus wondering where people stand on this one, as it's getting mixed reviews.

We host a gangbang from time to time but we normally use a hotel or rent a friends place for the evening, and because we also through 2/3 bottles of drink and supply condoms and lube we charge a small entry fee literally only to cover the cost of everything. Never ever making profit and if by chance we do make profit it all goes towards the next hotel or venue.

We have regulars who see nothing wrong with the small entry but then you get other's who accuse us of prostitution which we bloody ain't!

Is there anything wrong with that?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Depends how much you charge, and whether the charges are fair for all. £10 - £20 per person is usually fine. £60 charged to single guys only will probably be considered unfair.

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By *b couple OP Couple
over a year ago

southampton

£60! Bloody hell no, it's normally £20

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By *b couple OP Couple
over a year ago

southampton

That also includes couples not just single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"£60! Bloody hell no, it's normally £20

Count me in to your next party at the price

Most are normally £50 and up !!

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By *inkylouiseWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

And you just got ya bmw lol

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By *b couple OP Couple
over a year ago

southampton

I did part x my old car. And iv been saving and working my arse off for it! It's been 3 years of saving lol

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By *b couple OP Couple
over a year ago

southampton

£50 and up? That's ridiculous unless you are renting a mansion there's no reason for that kind of money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dress it up any way you like. Making money out of sex is prostitution.

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By *b couple OP Couple
over a year ago

southampton

"dress it up any way you like. Making money out of sex is prostitution. "

What part of we don't make any profit did fail to read???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe wrong (sorry if so ) but thought it was against fab rules to advertise parties with a fee

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We have been to loads of parties (in excess of 20) and have never paid.

To be fair, they have been in peoples homes, or in hotels after socials, and not in a location booked just for the occasion, so there are no accommodation costs.

We would happily pay towards genuine costs, but then it depends on how many are attending, and how much the real costs for the party are... in an hotel, 10 people attending, £10 a head seems fair, but any more than that, well, we wouldn't go.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Add the cost of the room to 2-3 bottles of drink (£15-30 depending if it's wine or spirits), condoms (free at the GUM clinic), lube (£5) and nibbles (£5-10) - and divide by the attendees.

If the room is less than £100 (pretty reasonable) then the total outlay should be no more than £150.

So if 10 attend? £15 a head. More? It'll be cheaper.

It's simple maths if it's a 'not for profit' venture.

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By *b couple OP Couple
over a year ago

southampton

"Add the cost of the room to 2-3 bottles of drink (£15-30 depending if it's wine or spirits), condoms (free at the GUM clinic), lube (£5) and nibbles (£5-10) - and divide by the attendees.

If the room is less than £100 (pretty reasonable) then the total outlay should be no more than £150.

So if 10 attend? £15 a head. More? It'll be cheaper.

It's simple maths if it's a 'not for profit' venture.

Pretty spot on but there's never more then 8 people once.

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By *b couple OP Couple
over a year ago

southampton

"Add the cost of the room to 2-3 bottles of drink (£15-30 depending if it's wine or spirits), condoms (free at the GUM clinic), lube (£5) and nibbles (£5-10) - and divide by the attendees.

If the room is less than £100 (pretty reasonable) then the total outlay should be no more than £150.

So if 10 attend? £15 a head. More? It'll be cheaper.

It's simple maths if it's a 'not for profit' venture.

Pretty spot on but there's never more then 8 people once.

Forgot to say it's always spirit's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what the OP has suggested is fair. £20 for a decent venue with all facilities and some drinks and nibbles is reasonable. If people don't then let them go to a club.

The trouble with pricing is trying to gauge how many will actually turn up. Fantasists And time wasters who don't turn up can quickly mean that the organiser has gone from having a fun time breaking even to being seriously out of pocket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have often wondered , when organizing a normal meet . Could you ask for a deposit , refundable only if they turn up.

work out how much it costs a woman,

Hair , nails, tights stockings, lipstick as color of nails doesn't go with what's she has, waxing , perfume The cost is endless

I think it's fair to charge .

Perhaps these guys don't have hot sexy women at home and don't know how much it costs .

As to guys it costsusmoney to get ready, shoes, new shirt ( can't wear the same one twice) hair cut , have you seen the price of razors

So perhaps guys could charge to turn up at gang bangs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dress it up any way you like. Making money out of sex is prostitution. "

So clubs, are they just prostituting those who attend?

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By *b couple OP Couple
over a year ago

southampton

"I think what the OP has suggested is fair. £20 for a decent venue with all facilities and some drinks and nibbles is reasonable. If people don't then let them go to a club.

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By *b couple OP Couple
over a year ago

southampton

"Maybe wrong (sorry if so ) but thought it was against fab rules to advertise parties with a fee "

I wasn't aware of that, but we don't "advertise" on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe wrong (sorry if so ) but thought it was against fab rules to advertise parties with a fee

I wasn't aware of that, but we don't "advertise" on here lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dress it up any way you like. Making money out of sex is prostitution. "

Don't worry I doubt you would be invited to any of these parties anyhow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

£10-20 is very reasonable as condoms/wipes etc cost money.so I cant see what the fuss is about, prostitution is forcing some one to have sex for money who has to agree due to no choice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get the whole "covering costs" thing to be honest, if I wanted to be gang banged and didn't want it in my home, I'd pay for what it cost. If I want a meal in a fancy restaurant, I don't ask all the other diners to chip in for my meal..

We don't charge our friends for our parties and there can be considerable costs, in the same way as we wouldn't ask people to chip in for a vanilla party...We do it because we enjoy it and we get something out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dress it up any way you like. Making money out of sex is prostitution.

What part of we don't make any profit did fail to read???

I didn't fail. 'Any profit we do make'? As I said - dress it up any way you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"£10-20 is very reasonable as condoms/wipes etc cost money.so I cant see what the fuss is about, prostitution is forcing some one to have sex for money who has to agree due to no choice!"

Prostitution is forcing someone? I have a good friend who is a prostitute. No one forces her to do anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get the whole "covering costs" thing to be honest, if I wanted to be gang banged and didn't want it in my home, I'd pay for what it cost. If I want a meal in a fancy restaurant, I don't ask all the other diners to chip in for my meal..

I think everyone should chip in to cover the costs. If I invited guys to a hotel for an afternoon, we should all share the cost of the room. Split equally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some couples are doing meets every night and charge £50 a bj, that must be prostitution, also they keep changing their profile name and starting new ones,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gues women get in free there op lol and no I would never pay.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

If we are doing filmed bukkakes we charge £20 a guy as this help pays towards the room/venue and model fees.

Gang bangs we would charge £30-£40 as you have less guys so it usually doubles, by the time we put on refreshments etc we usually have to dip into our own pockets too.

Just having a camera there makes it legal as charge non filmed parties are classed as prostitution where as if cameras are involved its a legal shoot.

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By *irthyMan
over a year ago

outside banbury

When there is an outlay for a venue or room for a GB then it is only right that the attendees contribute - £ 10 or £ 20 is acceptable in my eyes deending on nkbers and where it is. With regards to a bottle - then its the decent thing to bring one. Parties in private houses are different - a bottle and maybe something for the hostess is in order. All sets a nice tone and hopefully a relaced and enjoyable evening. It is not in any way paying for sex !!!! Oooh and always take condoms yourself too !!!

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

I'm sure if everyone in the restaurant was eating your meal you might consider charging them? If your going to compare it the lady in the gangbang would be the restaurant .. No one eats for free.

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

"dress it up any way you like. Making money out of sex is prostitution.

What part of we don't make any profit did fail to read???

I didn't fail. 'Any profit we do make'? As I said - dress it up any way you like"

Any profit made goes towards the next one.. Nice bit of editing there ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we are doing filmed bukkakes we charge £20 a guy as this help pays towards the room/venue and model fees.

Gang bangs we would charge £30-£40 as you have less guys so it usually doubles, by the time we put on refreshments etc we usually have to dip into our own pockets too.

Just having a camera there makes it legal as charge non filmed parties are classed as prostitution where as if cameras are involved its a legal shoot."

I am guessing the guys are not there to be film stars they are there for a happy ending. !! a spade is still a spade by anyone her name !! It's not swinging so has no place on this site !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure if everyone in the restaurant was eating your meal you might consider charging them? If your going to compare it the lady in the gangbang would be the restaurant .. No one eats for free. "

Perhaps I chose an inadequate analogy...If I wanted to be gang banged, then that would be something I would arrange to meet my own needs and would not expect the people who were coming to meet my needs to contribute towards it no matter what the cost...If I couldn't afford it, I wouldn't do it

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By *unkysoulWoman
over a year ago

Mitcham, Surrey

Even when I'm going to a private party where there is no charge I will take along gifts for the hosts. Say a good bottle of champagne or flowers, chocolates...if I really like them all 3. No change out of £50!

Even if it wasn't swinging...that's how I'd turn up at my friends when they invite me for dinner or BBQ....

I think showing your appreciation is simply good etiquette.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we are doing filmed bukkakes we charge £20 a guy as this help pays towards the room/venue and model fees.

Gang bangs we would charge £30-£40 as you have less guys so it usually doubles, by the time we put on refreshments etc we usually have to dip into our own pockets too.

Just having a camera there makes it legal as charge non filmed parties are classed as prostitution where as if cameras are involved its a legal shoot.

I am guessing the guys are not there to be film stars they are there for a happy ending. !! a spade is still a spade by anyone her name !! It's not swinging so has no place on this site !!!"

What IS swinging then?

And they didn't say they do it via this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if your mrs wants gangbanged than why should you not cover the costs the guys are just helping you out ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah or why not cover the cost for it themselves as they want it the hosts?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have often wondered , when organizing a normal meet . Could you ask for a deposit , refundable only if they turn up.

work out how much it costs a woman,

Hair , nails, tights stockings, lipstick as color of nails doesn't go with what's she has, waxing , perfume The cost is endless

I think it's fair to charge .

Perhaps these guys don't have hot sexy women at home and don't know how much it costs .

As to guys it costsusmoney to get ready, shoes, new shirt ( can't wear the same one twice) hair cut , have you seen the price of razors

So perhaps guys could charge to turn up at gang bangs "

I don't spend money on those things to get ready for a meet, I buy the lingerie and the makeup and whatever because I want to. Even if I never had sex again I'd still pay for those things. It's a sunk cost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we are doing filmed bukkakes we charge £20 a guy as this help pays towards the room/venue and model fees.

Gang bangs we would charge £30-£40 as you have less guys so it usually doubles, by the time we put on refreshments etc we usually have to dip into our own pockets too.

Just having a camera there makes it legal as charge non filmed parties are classed as prostitution where as if cameras are involved its a legal shoot.

I am guessing the guys are not there to be film stars they are there for a happy ending. !! a spade is still a spade by anyone her name !! It's not swinging so has no place on this site !!!

What IS swinging then?

And they didn't say they do it via this site. "

If you have to ask !! Nice profile btw very sus !!

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"I have often wondered , when organizing a normal meet . Could you ask for a deposit , refundable only if they turn up.

work out how much it costs a woman,

Hair , nails, tights stockings, lipstick as color of nails doesn't go with what's she has, waxing , perfume The cost is endless

I think it's fair to charge .

Perhaps these guys don't have hot sexy women at home and don't know how much it costs .

As to guys it costsusmoney to get ready, shoes, new shirt ( can't wear the same one twice) hair cut , have you seen the price of razors

So perhaps guys could charge to turn up at gang bangs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i hold a party i dont charge people for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many people are turning up? £20 a head, even 10 people is £200 and even with the cost of a hotel room it seems to leave a lot for those 2 or 3 bottles and condoms and lube

I agree with what others have said, you want to be gangbanged why charge others for fulfilling what you want?

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

"As to guys it costsusmoney to get ready, shoes, new shirt ( can't wear the same one twice) hair cut , have you seen the price of razors

So perhaps guys could charge to turn up at gang bangs "

Oi you smelly git

what no aftershave, anti-deodorant, hair products, moisturiser etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The charging thing is all very suspect and should not be a part of this site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the private message person a club maybe the place for such events to take place? You can even take your own wine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we are doing filmed bukkakes we charge £20 a guy as this help pays towards the room/venue and model fees.

Gang bangs we would charge £30-£40 as you have less guys so it usually doubles, by the time we put on refreshments etc we usually have to dip into our own pockets too.

Just having a camera there makes it legal as charge non filmed parties are classed as prostitution where as if cameras are involved its a legal shoot.

I am guessing the guys are not there to be film stars they are there for a happy ending. !! a spade is still a spade by anyone her name !! It's not swinging so has no place on this site !!!

What IS swinging then?

And they didn't say they do it via this site.

If you have to ask !! Nice profile btw very sus !!"

My profile is 'sus'? What does that mean?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"If we are doing filmed bukkakes we charge £20 a guy as this help pays towards the room/venue and model fees.

Gang bangs we would charge £30-£40 as you have less guys so it usually doubles, by the time we put on refreshments etc we usually have to dip into our own pockets too.

Just having a camera there makes it legal as charge non filmed parties are classed as prostitution where as if cameras are involved its a legal shoot.

I am guessing the guys are not there to be film stars they are there for a happy ending. !! a spade is still a spade by anyone her name !! It's not swinging so has no place on this site !!!

What IS swinging then?

And they didn't say they do it via this site.

If you have to ask !! Nice profile btw very sus !!

My profile is 'sus'? What does that mean?"

Lol, Scarletstars is the least 'sus' person on here.

Honestly, this is the problem with this site sometimes. The OP chooses to arrange parties for others and gets accused of prostitution. People agree or disagree with others and are suddenly 'sus'. Use the site, don't use the site, but don't accuse others of being things they are not.

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Lets just see who can shout the loudest...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

SHOUT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been to meets before and asked to contribute to the cost no problem. £10-20 is about right to help pay for venue (I don't drink as I drive).

But I have been invited to parties where I'm asked to contribute £60 and up typically followed by a breakdown of cost the venue is very nice and exclusive, food and drink, condoms and lube etc.

There are pay parties and events held in clubs advertised as swinging events on here that break the rules yes

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"If we are doing filmed bukkakes we charge £20 a guy as this help pays towards the room/venue and model fees.

Gang bangs we would charge £30-£40 as you have less guys so it usually doubles, by the time we put on refreshments etc we usually have to dip into our own pockets too.

Just having a camera there makes it legal as charge non filmed parties are classed as prostitution where as if cameras are involved its a legal shoot."

This is what I love about laws around sex, pay a woman for sex = prostitution, add a camera it's porn. Have sex with someone at the age of consent = everything is fine, take a picture of it, child pornography!

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By *dam and slutCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"If we are doing filmed bukkakes we charge £20 a guy as this help pays towards the room/venue and model fees.

Gang bangs we would charge £30-£40 as you have less guys so it usually doubles, by the time we put on refreshments etc we usually have to dip into our own pockets too.

Just having a camera there makes it legal as charge non filmed parties are classed as prostitution where as if cameras are involved its a legal shoot.

I am guessing the guys are not there to be film stars they are there for a happy ending. !! a spade is still a spade by anyone her name !! It's not swinging so has no place on this site !!!

What IS swinging then?

And they didn't say they do it via this site.

If you have to ask !! Nice profile btw very sus !!

My profile is 'sus'? What does that mean?"

Sus?....dob't know why but my mind went to suspenders

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

I'm sure if everyone in the restaurant was eating your meal you might consider charging them? If your going to compare it the lady in the gangbang would be the restaurant .. No one eats for free.

I tend to agree with this statement. We would be the same. I wouldn't expect to charge people.

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By *outhern ComfortCouple
over a year ago

bournemouth

If it's done right I would have no problem paying and wouldn't care if someone made a profit.

I would gladly pay to attend a party at a nice clean place with facilities to use. I've been to some parties where the accommodation was like a student flat. Not my bag unfortunately

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

I'm sure if everyone in the restaurant was eating your meal you might consider charging them? If your going to compare it the lady in the gangbang would be the restaurant .. No one eats for free.

I tend to agree with this statement. We would be the same. I wouldn't expect to charge people.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

If me and the Mrs were time meeting another couple in a hotel. We would split it 50/50, so I think as long as it costs the OP the same amount as it costs the other people attending that fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the fact theirs a charge for lube says it all if a woman cant get her hole wet shes obviously doing it for the money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the fact theirs a charge for lube says it all if a woman cant get her hole wet shes obviously doing it for the money

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Bit harsh!

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

"Jus wondering where people stand on this one, as it's getting mixed reviews.

We have regulars who see nothing wrong with the small entry but then you get other's who accuse us of prostitution which we bloody ain't!

Is there anything wrong with that?

Surely if you advertised it as an Organised event and not as a private meeting then you would be advertising just lick the clubs that run such events especially if you keep the prices moderate...

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By *b couple OP Couple
over a year ago

southampton

"the fact theirs a charge for lube says it all if a woman cant get her hole wet shes obviously doing it for the money

Or she enjoys anal! Your comment is just stupidly naive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dress it up any way you like. Making money out of sex is prostitution.

So clubs, are they just prostituting those who attend?"

Sex is not guaranteed so no. As I put it the other day, they are commercialising the scene. Clubs have to make money. There have been many debates about this. They do make their money by using women as bait to get men in who they charge more. In a loose sense they are pimps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe wrong (sorry if so ) but thought it was against fab rules to advertise parties with a fee "

This

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"If we are doing filmed bukkakes we charge £20 a guy as this help pays towards the room/venue and model fees.

Gang bangs we would charge £30-£40 as you have less guys so it usually doubles, by the time we put on refreshments etc we usually have to dip into our own pockets too.

Just having a camera there makes it legal as charge non filmed parties are classed as prostitution where as if cameras are involved its a legal shoot.

I am guessing the guys are not there to be film stars they are there for a happy ending. !! a spade is still a spade by anyone her name !! It's not swinging so has no place on this site !!!"

You are mistaking your own behaviour for other peoples we think, as i stated when i have film shots like Bukkakes & Gang-bangs we might charge a small fee towards the venue & model fee's but as we have never organised a party like this on a swinging site we don't know what you mean.

When its a filmed shoot we need photo ID/model releases etc as yes the people are film stars of a kind, these sort of filmed or non filmed parties shouldn't be on here on Fab full stop as no it's not swinging...now can you grasp what people are saying lol.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"If we are doing filmed bukkakes we charge £20 a guy as this help pays towards the room/venue and model fees.

Gang bangs we would charge £30-£40 as you have less guys so it usually doubles, by the time we put on refreshments etc we usually have to dip into our own pockets too.

Just having a camera there makes it legal as charge non filmed parties are classed as prostitution where as if cameras are involved its a legal shoot.

I am guessing the guys are not there to be film stars they are there for a happy ending. !! a spade is still a spade by anyone her name !! It's not swinging so has no place on this site !!!"

Pot kettle black also comes to mind as you have no objections in taking money for organised parties...as you say a spades a spade etc.

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By *arbarella PartiesWoman
over a year ago

oxford

"Even when I'm going to a private party where there is no charge I will take along gifts for the hosts. Say a good bottle of champagne or flowers, chocolates...if I really like them all 3. No change out of £50!

Even if it wasn't swinging...that's how I'd turn up at my friends when they invite me for dinner or BBQ....

I think showing your appreciation is simply good etiquette.

xxx"

This is an answer I fully agree with!!

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By *arbarella PartiesWoman
over a year ago

oxford

I host small parties for ladies only and always ask the girls to split the cost of the accommodation between whoever turns up.

Hotel suites and apartments don't often come cheap. The cost is always detailed before hand so there's no surprise. Any other extras I lay on or the girls bring with them.

I can't see a problem at all with asking for said contribution especially as its a very small price to pay for what have so far been evenings full of lovely memories and smiling faces x

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Use the site, don't use the site, but don't accuse others of being things they are not."

I tend to agree with this attitude too.

Personally we would worry about a party that involved money, or 8 people drinking 3 bottles of spirits, and Travelodge do hotel rooms for £19. It has never even crossed our minds to charge people for drinks/condoms when they come to ours.

So OP charge what you like, and use it as a filter, just like we do.

Mr ddc

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over a year ago

any sex that involves cash is in my opinion prostitution or a private brothel but its your fantacy so why charge if you cant afford to arrange a gang bang then either save up or attend one thats arranged through someone else although the op says they never advertise on forum i always feel the whole point of these threads is to bring it to peoples attention that the wife is a hooker in the hope to receive the hundreds of pms that i can imaging the op already has received from guys inquiring when their next illegal activities are but thats just my opinion

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By *b couple OP Couple
over a year ago

southampton

"I gues women get in free there op lol and no I would never pay."

Nope, as we completely disagree with that rule. Women, couples and single men all pay the same price.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"any sex that involves cash is in my opinion prostitution or a private brothel but its your fantacy so why charge if you cant afford to arrange a gang bang then either save up or attend one thats arranged through someone else although the op says they never advertise on forum i always feel the whole point of these threads is to bring it to peoples attention that the wife is a hooker in the hope to receive the hundreds of pms that i can imaging the op already has received from guys inquiring when their next illegal activities are but thats just my opinion

you sound like the type of guy that would never buy a drink or a meal for anyone, do you measure the milage between meets and if its longer charge the other person because you are travelling longer than they are?

honestly you are such a bore...

i bet you go..spit on it,,stick it in..take it out again and dont even say goodbye...because it might cost you something on some level, that might be constituted as giving..

i wonder if you match orgasm to orgasm??

i cant do it anymore so you cant carry on either..

a party at someones house, you take something, going to a club or organised event, you bring something to contribute..

just because its bits of paper and ink, you think its 'wrong'..ridiculous nonsense...

clubs and parties hopefully are non pressured environments, no one is expected to do anything..something may be on offer, doesn't mean you have to partake...

going to a dance club, you pay an entrance fee, doesnt mean to say you have to dance on the dance floor though..right?

sounds reasonable to me op, im glad you take the initiative and buy condoms for those who 'forget' although i must say id bring my own, and bring my own drink even if it was to share (no expectation related to, i gave you a drink, so you can shag me either) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if it wasn't swinging...that's how I'd turn up at my friends when they invite me for dinner or BBQ....

I think showing your appreciation is simply good etiquette.

xxx"

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over a year ago

People are talking about several different scenarios here.

A private party...i would expect to take a bottle at least. But wouldn't expect to be 'charged'.

Meeting in a hotel....I guess it depends on whether its a gang bang or meeting a couple for example. I have been to several gbs, even helped organise a couple. Whether in a hotel room or a private house, I have never been charged, if i was I wouldn't go. It depends on who it is being done for? If it is for the pleasure of the fem/couple, I don't see why there should be payment. If its an organised event at a club, that may be a different matter. Hiring of a room and facilities perhaps you could ask to cover costs. It would still make me uneasy to be honest. Just my opinion. As for condom's I always carry my own anyway.

Meeting a couple in a hotel....i have done this and have offered to share costs, although declined, because I felt it was the right thing to do. And would be happy to do so again.

There is always a line to be crossed when sex and money are mentioned in the same sentence, especially in the swinging community.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So gangbangs are just for the pleasure of the woman. So the woman/ couple organising should foot the entire the bill. The guys aren't getting any pleasure from attending, they are doing it from the goodness of their hearts.

Bless them.

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over a year ago

For all the times I have been invited to a meet or I have invited someone to join me then no money has changed hands.

In my mind you do not charge your guests.

On the other hand, all parties I have asked to come to have been paid for.

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over a year ago

"So gangbangs are just for the pleasure of the woman. So the woman/ couple organising should foot the entire the bill. The guys aren't getting any pleasure from attending, they are doing it from the goodness of their hearts.

Bless them.

So you'd organise a gb just for the pleasure of men?

Just turning your statement on its head.

Of course all parties hopefully get pleasure. Hopefully.

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over a year ago

honestly you are such a bore...

i bet you go..spit on it,,stick it in..take it out again and dont even say goodbye...because it might cost you something on some level, that might be constituted as giving..

i wonder if you match orgasm to orgasm??

i cant do it anymore so you cant carry on either..

a party at someones house, you take something, going to a club or organised event, you bring something to contribute..

just because its bits of paper and ink, you think its 'wrong'..ridiculous nonsense...

clubs and parties hopefully are non pressured environments, no one is expected to do anything..something may be on offer, doesn't mean you have to partake...

going to a dance club, you pay an entrance fee, doesnt mean to say you have to dance on the dance floor though..right?

iv never read anything so stupid in my life or tried to i only got halfway through before i got bored you obviously feel strongly about charging for sex so maybe i stepped on your toes or touched a nerve but whats buying a drink or a meal got to do with prostitution or paying for sex ? your rambling on about parties and clubs which is nothing to do with the ops question if you arrange a meet on here do you say theirs a charge ? of coarse you dont so why does inviting ten guys make any difference it costs the same whether you invite one guy or ten

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over a year ago

Bless them.

So you'd organise a gb just for the pleasure of men?

Just turning your statement on its head.

Of course all parties hopefully get pleasure. Hopefully. "

Exactly my point. So ALL people attending should pay towards it.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Money and sex don't mix, no matter how well intentioned the organisers are.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

honestly you are such a bore...

i bet you go..spit on it,,stick it in..take it out again and dont even say goodbye...because it might cost you something on some level, that might be constituted as giving..

i wonder if you match orgasm to orgasm??

i cant do it anymore so you cant carry on either..

a party at someones house, you take something, going to a club or organised event, you bring something to contribute..

just because its bits of paper and ink, you think its 'wrong'..ridiculous nonsense...

clubs and parties hopefully are non pressured environments, no one is expected to do anything..something may be on offer, doesn't mean you have to partake...

going to a dance club, you pay an entrance fee, doesnt mean to say you have to dance on the dance floor though..right?

bless x

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By *b couple OP Couple
over a year ago

southampton

"Use the site, don't use the site, but don't accuse others of being things they are not.

I tend to agree with this attitude too.

So OP charge what you like, and use it as a filter, just like we do.

Mr ddc

Travel lodge? you having a laugh right? The hotel we use are aware of what's happening as they allow such things. And that is not £19 a night! I bloody wished lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op do you have top self drinks like Johhny walker blue?

Do you have great food?

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Mr ddc

Travel lodge? you having a laugh right? The hotel we use are aware of what's happening as they allow such things. And that is not £19 a night! I bloody wished lol"

Nooooo,

This is me having a laugh

This is me when being asked to pay £20-35 towards 'model fees'

That's why I said you should charge what you like and use it like a filter, like we do: we're out!

(That's me doing Duncan Ballentyne)

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

Bless them.

So you'd organise a gb just for the pleasure of men?

Just turning your statement on its head.

Of course all parties hopefully get pleasure. Hopefully.

Exactly my point. So ALL people attending should pay towards it. "
. I agree entirely with this statement . What type of person expect to turn up at a gang bang and pay nothing . ?.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

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How can sharing costs be considered to be prositution. ?. Others would consider it to be totally selfish to attend such an event and to make no contribution towards the costs..

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over a year ago

Sharing the costs 50/50 or between 10 people including organizers not a problem. Organizers not paying and getting a free ride (excuse the pun) or making a profit? Probably wouldn't be for us unless knew that each party got better and better due to them investing that profit

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