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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im just wondering if anybody knows how I can improve my chances? I'm not a bad guy, I do want to chat as well as the obvious, I feel like something is putting people off? Any help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cock pic will be what's putting women off my lovely.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"im just wondering if anybody knows how I can improve my chances? I'm not a bad guy, I do want to chat as well as the obvious, I feel like something is putting people off? Any help!"

Make whiney forum posts because it's so attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All you really need is patience lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile is not that great tbh. Bit vague and the one cock pic is bit boring. I would pass. Look at successful peoples profile and learn. There are also a billion threads by other guys asking the same thing.

Good luck

Mrs Nico

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Think of your profile as being there to sell yourself - and that includes the text.

You haven't written much for prospective meets to think about, have you?

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

But on serious note...

You say you want to chat but what about? There's nothing on your profile that suggests you want to talk.

You have no pictures.

Remember there's roughly ten men perceive woman on the site. You have to stand out ...you don't, at all .

There is nothing special about you, you've made no effort on your profile.

So ...why should anybody want to talk to you?

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

You've a face pic as your avatar yet say your job involves confidentiality, contradictory op. Other than that your profile is just another single male profile

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough


"You've a face pic as your avatar yet say your job involves confidentiality, contradictory op. Other than that your profile is just another single male profile "

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"You've a face pic as your avatar yet say your job involves confidentiality, contradictory op. Other than that your profile is just another single male profile "

Completely agree, also the "looking for someone to teach me" line is always off putting to me as, while everyone as to start somewhere I'm sorry but it may sound harsh and selfish but I'm here to enjoy myself and to further explore my sexuality, I'm not her to play teacher to anyone

Finally your 22 and the fact is that will be the same age as some of the ladies/couples own children and it's a line most (that's most not all) don't like to cross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've a face pic as your avatar yet say your job involves confidentiality, contradictory op. Other than that your profile is just another single male profile "
I know what you mean by that but still each profile is different lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's small enough to not be distinguishable I feel.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"It's small enough to not be distinguishable I feel. "

You need to use quote to indicate which message you are replying to....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's small enough to not be distinguishable I feel. "

Which pic are you referring to?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's small enough to not be distinguishable I feel.

You need to use quote to indicate which message you are replying to...."

Sorry I'm new to this haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's small enough to not be distinguishable I feel.

Which pic are you referring to?! "

Haha! Yeah you're right !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try having some photos for the ladies to look at so they can make a choice.

Get involved in the forums. Good luck I hope it goes well for you.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Try having some photos for the ladies to look at so they can make a choice.

Get involved in the forums. Good luck I hope it goes well for you. "

That's a nice answer to his question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grow a pair of tits

Be aware that single guys massively outnumber the ladies and couples on here and also, many women browse in stealth mode, so you won't know that they've looked at you.

The key word here is patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try having some photos for the ladies to look at so they can make a choice.

Get involved in the forums. Good luck I hope it goes well for you.

That's a nice answer to his question "

Thanks I'm a firm believer in treat others how you wish to be treated. He is only after how to improve his chance so good luck to him.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It's small enough to not be distinguishable I feel.

Which pic are you referring to?! "

His cock one?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I would add some interests - what are you good at? What do you do in your spare time? Have a topic in your profile that will hook a potential interested person to chat to you....it's unlikely anyone will ask you stuff if there's nothing there in the first place.

Take me, for example, I'm totally fucking CONVINCED I'm a reincarnation of Emperor Vespasian.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you considered an SEO agency or PR consultant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try standing in a boxing ring?

On a serious note, post intelligently in the forums and people will notice you. That's not say it will lead to anything. The trick is to turn the views into meets. That's a whole different ball game!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, write a different and interesting profile. Noone is going to go out of their way to "ask" you for more information.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im just wondering if anybody knows how I can improve my chances? I'm not a bad guy, I do want to chat as well as the obvious, I feel like something is putting people off? Any help!"

More public pictures and a proper profile

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

3 days later and changed nothing, shocker

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By *ack LondonMan
over a year ago

London


"im just wondering if anybody knows how I can improve my chances? I'm not a bad guy, I do want to chat as well as the obvious, I feel like something is putting people off? Any help!"

Cunt rules! Get over it. The men here, some obviously are true dick-heads. Play nice.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Well with the strange business of showing his face clearly enough on his profile pic, yet claiming he needs to keep face hidden(!), I don't think improvements seem likely anytime soon...

I'm not sure advice was really what he's after (as with so many of these threads)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first saw the title. I thought it was a post from a wannabe singer

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"When I first saw the title. I thought it was a post from a wannabe singer "

Ba dum......... Tssss

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"im just wondering if anybody knows how I can improve my chances? I'm not a bad guy, I do want to chat as well as the obvious, I feel like something is putting people off? Any help!"

I'll say again: women are not going to message asking for more information: we're not dentist pulling teeth!

If you can't be bothered to sell yourself, hey...there are 200 men behind you who can.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"im just wondering if anybody knows how I can improve my chances? I'm not a bad guy, I do want to chat as well as the obvious, I feel like something is putting people off? Any help!

I'll say again: women are not going to message asking for more information: we're not dentist pulling teeth!

If you can't be bothered to sell yourself,

hey...there are 200 men behind you

who can."

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