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By *exy couple for you OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northern England

We would like other people's opinions please. We have found out that the male of a couple we know and have met a few times at clubs and chatted loads on here too has also got another couple's profile. Neither female is aware of the other but since we found out we are uncomfortable as have become quite close to the lady and feel we should say something. He also has a single male profile too! Any thoughts/opinions welcomed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and forget about him, wouldn't be something I'd want to be involved in if it made me uncomfortable.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Are you sure neither knows about the other?

Have you asked them? Although I suppose that would give the game away!

Whether you say/do anything is entirely up to you of course - but be prepared for the fallout if things aren't as you see them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would like other people's opinions please. We have found out that the male of a couple we know and have met a few times at clubs and chatted loads on here too has also got another couple's profile. Neither female is aware of the other but since we found out we are uncomfortable as have become quite close to the lady and feel we should say something. He also has a single male profile too! Any thoughts/opinions welcomed."

A difficult situation in which you cannot win. Just keep your distance, no matter how much you wish to get involved.

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

I would keep out of it as at the end of the day it's really non of your business, and I don't mean that in a horrid way, if you do feel that you need to say something and as your on talking terms with the male in question perhaps speak to him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block and forget about him, wouldn't be something I'd want to be involved in if it made me uncomfortable."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would like other people's opinions please. We have found out that the male of a couple we know and have met a few times at clubs and chatted loads on here too has also got another couple's profile. Neither female is aware of the other but since we found out we are uncomfortable as have become quite close to the lady and feel we should say something. He also has a single male profile too! Any thoughts/opinions welcomed."

Not making any judgements here, but wouldn't that be a tad hypocritical?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would like other people's opinions please. We have found out that the male of a couple we know and have met a few times at clubs and chatted loads on here too has also got another couple's profile. Neither female is aware of the other but since we found out we are uncomfortable as have become quite close to the lady and feel we should say something. He also has a single male profile too! Any thoughts/opinions welcomed.

Not making any judgements here, but wouldn't that be a tad hypocritical?"

It would seem so. Best not get involved, his life, he's doing what he wants as are you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would like other people's opinions please. We have found out that the male of a couple we know and have met a few times at clubs and chatted loads on here too has also got another couple's profile. Neither female is aware of the other but since we found out we are uncomfortable as have become quite close to the lady and feel we should say something. He also has a single male profile too! Any thoughts/opinions welcomed."

Unnecessary drama. Just walk away as they sound nothing more tgan casual acquaintances.

Intrigued how you know for certain that no one knows about his other profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only as complicated as you make it, simply block all profiles of him and forget him.

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By *inaPaulCouple
over a year ago

Warrington

Not sure what you mean? We met as a couple but he runs the profile and told us recently that he has 2 profiles and 2 ladies on the go

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By *inaPaulCouple
over a year ago

Warrington

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like a soap opera in here at times!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its like a soap opera in here at times!!"

For episode 2 follow the green arrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have this same thread running in another room and said it was your fuck buddy on this profile? Or is there another FB?

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