FabSwingers.com forum: Do single men stand a chance?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Surprised no-one has asked this yet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but the odds increase by the day ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know the answer and its mostly a no, doesn't matter how good a profile is lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of chances for single men like myself if they bother to go to clubs etc.

I have had many a good time at my favorite club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the stand a chance topics are about single men. except mine coz i am awesome like that. i think they're just trying to grade themselves on how unlikely of a chance they'll get to meet someone. Before going unlos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the stand a chance topics are about single men. except mine coz i am awesome like that. i think they're just trying to grade themselves on how unlikely of a chance they'll get to meet someone. Before going unlos."

A new bit to this topic...

What chance do I have of getting my cock sucked and giving you as much oral as you want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not read the rest, but no. It takes a while so better sit down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure its an question really as the ratios are higher men and no women, if it was equal amounts then yes you can ask the question as you can compare lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single male.

I've yet to go to a club.

I have had meets.

Single men stand a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was a single man i had a meet within two weeks of joining. All you need to do is interest the ladies and couples with your communications.

Kat and I met on here and as a couple we have given several new and unverified guys a chance. Only a small proportion have failed us. Give the new guys a chance but for those who have never had sex in a group make sure they are comfortable with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we stand more chance of a shag in here than winning the lottery!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meet single .men....poor devils

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makat your profile is hidden

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

Of course they do...

As has been said on here a million times the issue is more around having realistic expectations.

If you're using fab as your only source of meets then is imagine it would be pretty difficult purely on a numbers only basis.

We posted a meet once for 1 single guy to meet in a hotel we were paying for... Shortlisted down to 15 from the hundreds of emails, chatted to 5 on the phone... Organised 3 to come over at various times... Not s single one turned up.

So they have chances, they just don't always take them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No single men have no chance

Because the Internet is the only way to meet women

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Of course there's a chance. And the single guys have influence to improve their odds, as well as some luck being involved.

Eg. Some people are more attractive to others, due to their looks, interests, their fitness etc. Some of that is out of their hands, but presentation plays a part.

If their timing is good, then they may be lucky to match the timing of the right interested parties.

It's feasible that someone could join today and fuck today - but less likely than more established users.

No photos? You're up against ShagTonight, who has plenty, so do yourself a favour and add some.

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By *igoutdoorsMan
over a year ago

Bude

Worse than that is a newbie single guy ive practically give up already its useless been in this lifestyle since before 2002 and got told to sign up by a female friend on here zero nothing not being big headed but as soon as someone fuks me and rites something nice I mite be able to have a hell of alot more fun iam meeting most on other normal dates site's atm this it a waste of time and money atm the only fuk suck offers I get are from gays and iam straight not interested if nothing changes will not be signed in again.

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By *ig Ted 66Man
over a year ago

Hinckley

"Of course they do...

As has been said on here a million times the issue is more around having realistic expectations.

If you're using fab as your only source of meets then is imagine it would be pretty difficult purely on a numbers only basis.

So they have chances, they just don't always take them.

This ^^^

The chances are often there.

In the words of Gary Player (an appropriate name!)

"The more I practice - the luckier I become"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Worse than that is a newbie single guy ive practically give up already its useless been in this lifestyle since before 2002 and got told to sign up by a female friend on here zero nothing not being big headed but as soon as someone fuks me and rites something nice I mite be able to have a hell of alot more fun iam meeting most on other normal dates site's atm this it a waste of time and money atm the only fuk suck offers I get are from gays and iam straight not interested if nothing changes will not be signed in again. "

Bye! Close the door on your way out, aircon is on and costs a fortune to run

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By *ig Ted 66Man
over a year ago

Hinckley

Not sure that ranting will help your cause much either I'm afraid....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I have found is most single men on here, are not single at all, they are either married or have a gf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A new bit to this topic...

What chance do I have of getting my cock sucked and giving you as much oral as you want?

There's a very long queue you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A new bit to this topic...

What chance do I have of getting my cock sucked and giving you as much oral as you want?

There's a very long queue you know."

Is it as long as the miles between us?

You would be worth it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You joined 7 days ago and ranting already??

Go to a club, meet some folk socially and get verified that way. It worked for me!

Oh and since I've been verified I've only had one offer of a meet so you're not going to have a "hell of a lot more fun", you may be lucky enough to get a little more fun.

Unfortunately this site isn't designed for single men to have sex on tap, it's designed for couples and females to find a suitable meet as and when required.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a single male.

I've yet to go to a club.

I have had meets.

Single men stand a chance."

Um, have you forgotten we are married. Thanks a lot.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

You joined 7 days ago and ranting already??

Go to a club, meet some folk socially and get verified that way. It worked for me!

Oh and since I've been verified I've only had one offer of a meet so you're not going to have a "hell of a lot more fun", you may be lucky enough to get a little more fun.

Unfortunately this site isn't designed for single men to have sex on tap, it's designed for couples and females to find a suitable meet as and when required."

Actually it's designed for couples, females AND men to look for a suitable meet (not find one!) as and when required.

The thing that stops men (and women and couples!) actually finding that meet is often the one thing they rarely consider.

Odd - since it stares them in the face whenever they look in a mirror!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first registerd on here I done well, I have come back and had no luck at all. I get a lot of men wanting me but I not bi or gay. So impossible to get verification and in turn harder to meet, let alone the male to female ratio, but you have to be in it to win it.

good luck every one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the men saying they don't want mail from men... use your mail filters. You can block men from mailing you.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Not tarring you all with same brush, but we took a chance on an unverified guy yesterday -good messages, keen as mustard etc etc - and he went quiet and didn't turn up. 3rd time that's happened so from now on, guys in clubs are the way forward for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A chance of what?

OK, so maybe i'm being a bit cynical here as it's fairly obvious what is inferred by the title of the thread, but to be totally fair, the question could equally be related to learning to play the Ukulele

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You joined 7 days ago and ranting already??

Go to a club, meet some folk socially and get verified that way. It worked for me!

Oh and since I've been verified I've only had one offer of a meet so you're not going to have a "hell of a lot more fun", you may be lucky enough to get a little more fun.

Unfortunately this site isn't designed for single men to have sex on tap, it's designed for couples and females to find a suitable meet as and when required.

Actually it's designed for couples, females AND men to look for a suitable meet (not find one!) as and when required.

The thing that stops men (and women and couples!) actually finding that meet is often the one thing they rarely consider.

Odd - since it stares them in the face whenever they look in a mirror!

Ha ha, cheeky

I do understand its for all kinds of folk to meet. I was just over exaggerating the point a little so that the poor fella having a rant could adjust his expectations.

I'm more than happy with how this site has worked for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met a few guys off here so yes but not every guy is to every other ones taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We single guys are so numerous that we are at the bottom of the food chain on here so women/couples have an abundance of choice. Unless someone takes pity on you or you're lucky it can take a long time to gain a woman/couple's confidence to agree to a social meet in order to get that important initial verification!

We do have a chance but we also get tarred with the same brush. I am told by women/couple friends, however, that a lot of single men DO spoil it for the remainder by harassing for meets and/or failing to turn up when agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I have found is most single men on here, are not single at all, they are either married or have a gf. "
this may be true but some wife's like there man to meet others. Longs no one is being deceitful, it shouldn't matter,

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By *igoutdoorsMan
over a year ago

Bude

Glad I started a crazy roll but wasn't my intention haha iam not a misery guts far from it but if I say I will meet I don't let nobody down or late for that matter been told I look great smell great athletic stamina for year's of cycling and a genuine nice guy no big headed respectful there are nightmares around but iam not one of them my time will cum so to speak but the hour and hour I put into this for nothing at the moment is crazy for no replies I work for myself so iam very flexible also and can meet anytime I want so I have more chance than most but until I get to meet afew who want to see me again and most do I don't think I'll be giving up tinder and okc just yet lol

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By *igoutdoorsMan
over a year ago

Bude

Iam also 100% single and not married or girlfriend just to put that out aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a single male.

I've yet to go to a club.

I have had meets.

Single men stand a chance.

Um, have you forgotten we are married. Thanks a lot. "

Busted......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Glad I started a crazy roll but wasn't my intention haha iam not a misery guts far from it but if I say I will meet I don't let nobody down or late for that matter been told I look great smell great athletic stamina for year's of cycling and a genuine nice guy no big headed respectful there are nightmares around but iam not one of them my time will cum so to speak but the hour and hour I put into this for nothing at the moment is crazy for no replies I work for myself so iam very flexible also and can meet anytime I want so I have more chance than most but until I get to meet afew who want to see me again and most do I don't think I'll be giving up tinder and okc just yet lol"

mate, it might sound like I'm about to be critical but what I'm about to say is offered with the best intentions to help you so I hope you accept it in the spirit it is intended.

If you message people like your post above, with no punctuation, no pause for breath and a wall of text, it makes it very difficult to read.

You sound like a decent guy, so take some time to compose a structured message (one that people will want to read) and hopefully the rewards will come!

I wish you all the best my friend, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do guys on here think fab is the only way to get sex.... It's just one of many tools to meet women.

There are clubs , pubs , gyms, parks , airports , funerals, birthday parties, dinner parties, vacations and friends hook up....

Maybe I'm just crazy, but any sex I get from fab is just a bonus.. I'm just saying this because the amount of men complaining on here is sickening... Have some pride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the question should be......do us fat, ugly, single men have a chance?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I only meet single men, so of course they stand a chance. They just have to get through my rigorous vetting process...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever meet single men when I'm meeting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ladies who I've met in general only meet single men, so, yes!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

a chance at what? maybe what choice, would be better...

you can join the site..chance number one

you can put up a visible profile and pics..what you put up is up to you..chance number two

you can advertise yourself..message/ post thread/comment in forum on any topic you like.. chance number three

you can go to a club or social or planned meet event on your own...chance number 4...

at the moment you are equal to any single female or couple..

the ratio thing..doesnt mean a thing once you are known, so choose your playground..

forums/ messages/clubs

for single women its the amount of dross we have to wade through, to get to the good guys...for the guy its about being known as one of the good guys..for couples...its finding who they heck they all click with and fancy..each an obstacle..each one surmountable.. keeps life from being boring huh?..come on we all love it really..happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've more on here than a dating site

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Don't panic I've found you dummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is a waste of money?

It's either free or a fiver for months of membership.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a single male.

I've yet to go to a club.

I have had meets.

Single men stand a chance.

Um, have you forgotten we are married. Thanks a lot.

Busted......

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tut and you told me you are single

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a single male.

I've yet to go to a club.

I have had meets.

Single men stand a chance.

Um, have you forgotten we are married. Thanks a lot.

Busted......

tut and you told me you are single

I know, he tells everyone that. He's such a cad & a bounder

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Chances on here for single guys are pretty slim. I think you generally need to be a certain kind of guy to have any sort of regular success on Fab. Most single guys like myself just give up after a couple of months because it feels so hopeless.

Outside in the real world is a different matter altogether though. My advise to single guys wanting to meet would be get yourself out in the real world! Far far easier to meet out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do but please read our profile.. i know ome of them are a bit of an epic read. Single horny men with experience especially if can accommodate u think are very much in demand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for the lapse in grammar in places.

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover

Simple......NO

I use this site purely for contact & updates with my swinger friends as its not apropriate for facebook. Lol

I dont waste my time trying to find a match on here. Im massively outnumbered & ive more chance of finding lord lucan riding shergar than i have of finding a slim single lady that suits me. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a single male.

I've yet to go to a club.

I have had meets.

Single men stand a chance.

Um, have you forgotten we are married. Thanks a lot.

Busted......

tut and you told me you are single

I only recently found I had a wife myself.......

About a dozen quotes back to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a single male.

I've yet to go to a club.

I have had meets.

Single men stand a chance.

Um, have you forgotten we are married. Thanks a lot.

Busted......

tut and you told me you are single

I know, he tells everyone that. He's such a cad & a bounder

Me, the 13th Duke of Wyborne, a cad and a bounder, with myyyyyyy reputation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surprised no-one has asked this yet!!"

Just seen this and us attached men find it a lot harder than the attached women playing alone on here and im pretty sure with all the bad press not all "singles" turn out to be single so guess we all in same boat - but that this lifestyle all over, some good time and others we just wait our time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do. But be single, don't lie about it. Being able to accom helps us single girls, and yes it's a sex site. But woo us women. A little polite conversation goes a long way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do

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