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"I don't got a chance either, but keep my hopes up lol." you do have a chance. No chance Seriously, op, these things take time. | |||
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"Hit the gym mate lol" If someone said this to a woman there would be uproar. OP if you're happy then great, ignore small minded people | |||
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"Everyone knows ther are lots of people who appreciate a bbw, but do larger men have a chance on here?" nope.. | |||
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"Most people are requesting gym fit vwe." Not from what I've seen they arent. | |||
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"Most people are requesting gym fit vwe." Where?!?! | |||
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"Hit the gym mate lol If someone said this to a woman there would be uproar. OP if you're happy then great, ignore small minded people " Fully agree. Some folks on here really are up their own arses aren't they ? | |||
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"Everyone knows ther are lots of people who appreciate a bbw, but do larger men have a chance on here?" Not with me! Eww! | |||
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"If I can get a meet. Anyone can. It's all about confidence. Be confident in your body. Be confident about yourself. That itself will be enough to win people over. All the best. " That's because you're all round beaut | |||
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"Everyone knows ther are lots of people who appreciate a bbw, but do larger men have a chance on here? Not with me! Eww!" So you aren't attracted to a larger person, there was no need for the 'Ewww'. | |||
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"for a lard arse I don't think I do too badly..... but I have got past just seeing myself as one feature.... and basing all my success on one feature... or using one feature as a excuse!!! I trying to be the best me I can be... may be good enough for some... wont be for others... I use all my energy to focus on those who do.... as opposed to those who dont " +1 | |||
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"If they got a big fat cock why not ?? Lol" I got a nice big one just for you | |||
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"Hit the gym mate lol If someone said this to a woman there would be uproar. OP if you're happy then great, ignore small minded people " Precisely. There's no need to be rude. I do find that being self-confident is one of my biggest assets. No doubt some ladies are put off by my appearance, some don't mind and some are turned on. But personality counts for a lot. | |||
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"Everyone knows ther are lots of people who appreciate a bbw, but do larger men have a chance on here?" Of course they do, not everyone likes gym slaves (I personally like a bit of extra weight). There are lots of people here with lots of different tastes. If you are happy with how you are don't change a thing and just be patient | |||
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"Op Just start a BHM group and start throwing parties.... " a mate of mine did try that but there was insufficient interest. | |||
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"Op Just start a BHM group and start throwing parties.... a mate of mine did try that but there was insufficient interest." I'd go to something like that, local to me though. | |||
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"Hit the gym mate lol If someone said this to a woman there would be uproar. OP if you're happy then great, ignore small minded people Fully agree. Some folks on here really are up their own arses aren't they ? " Yup. Friggin rude | |||
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"Op Just start a BHM group and start throwing parties.... a mate of mine did try that but there was insufficient interest." Well you can try again.... Just have patience | |||
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"I quite like a bit of meat on my men " May I introduce myself | |||
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"Everyone knows ther are lots of people who appreciate a bbw, but do larger men have a chance on here? Not with me! Eww! So you aren't attracted to a larger person, there was no need for the 'Ewww'. " Not to fat *men* | |||
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"for a lard arse I don't think I do too badly..... but I have got past just seeing myself as one feature.... and basing all my success on one feature... or using one feature as a excuse!!! I trying to be the best me I can be... may be good enough for some... wont be for others... I use all my energy to focus on those who do.... as opposed to those who dont " This! | |||
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"While i agree personality is much more important that looks its also much more difficult to convay on a profile. " Just because someone isn't overweight doesn't mean they are a 'skinny rake' you might be putting people off with that comment. It is hard to convey personality on your profile but comments like that do no one any favours. | |||
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"Everyone knows ther are lots of people who appreciate a bbw, but do larger men have a chance on here?" Of course! | |||
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"Everyone knows ther are lots of people who appreciate a bbw, but do larger men have a chance on here?" I guess they have fat chance | |||
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"I'm a big guy and still find it hard to believe that people want to play with me. I see other guys walking round that are stereotypically good looking and stuggle to see how I compete but looks arn't everything. If everyone was the same the world would be boring!!" I'm the same and I'm a woman | |||
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" Male half of the couple here. Joined FAB 6 years ago and I was a bloater with a BMI of 52 - so at 6 foot tall that put me at just shy of 26 stone. That's big. Myself and my wife have been very successful and she's a lady with a fuller figure. It's a lot to do with who you are and not what you are. Personality is much more important to others than your body image. Attract someone's mind and their body will follow. I had Bariatric surgery end of last year and have so far lost 8.5 stone and so now have a very different body shape. I'm in XL clothes now and not 4/5XL. Has it made a difference to our swinging activities? I can say NO it's just as it was. Size isn't the issue its about you as a person, so don't beat yourself up. Get to a club and be sociable. " I disagree... Your wife has a fecking marvellous figure... I am 5 years post rny x | |||
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"It's been said that I have both a very cheeky smile and a naughty twinkle in my eyes " Sorted. Get your coat you pulled | |||
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"The odds are stacked against you but good luck " Why are they? there's someone for everyone on here | |||
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"It's been said that I have both a very cheeky smile and a naughty twinkle in my eyes Sorted. Get your coat you pulled" feel free to contact me | |||
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"You are the size that you choose to be." if only it were that simple. | |||
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"Hit the gym mate lol If someone said this to a woman there would be uproar. OP if you're happy then great, ignore small minded people Fully agree. Some folks on here really are up their own arses aren't they ? " You don't need hit a gym,my hubby saying-more sex you need it. Its better than a gym. | |||
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"If I can get a meet. Anyone can. It's all about confidence. Be confident in your body. Be confident about yourself. That itself will be enough to win people over. All the best. " Well said! | |||
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"I've been on and off this site for 6 years and had no meets! And the reason is I'm overweight. It's such a shallow site it's unreal! " I wouldnt meet you mainly because i cant see your face. The face can reflect the personality of a person. Cock pics have no interest to me, to just be interested in the size of a cock is shallow & lets be honest you can have the biggest cannon but if you dont know how to use it then its useless. Show some personality, your body is fine xx | |||
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"I've been on and off this site for 6 years and had no meets! And the reason is I'm overweight. It's such a shallow site it's unreal! I wouldnt meet you mainly because i cant see your face. The face can reflect the personality of a person. Cock pics have no interest to me, to just be interested in the size of a cock is shallow & lets be honest you can have the biggest cannon but if you dont know how to use it then its useless. Show some personality, your body is fine xx" i always get turned down when I send a face pic lol . I dread them askin . Mind u I get turned down when I don't lol | |||
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"Everyone knows ther are lots of people who appreciate a bbw, but do larger men have a chance on here?" for every 100 messages we get 99 of them are one liners so we do not even look at the profiles .why would we .if your a larger man that knows how to make people feel good .and put it in a good message you would get us chatting to you and the rest is a maybe to the 99% that send the one liners .happy wanking . | |||
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"I've been on and off this site for 6 years and had no meets! And the reason is I'm overweight. It's such a shallow site it's unreal! " Perhaps then your best bet is in the world out there where women are tripping over themselves in the race to meet with you | |||
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"I've been on and off this site for 6 years and had no meets! And the reason is I'm overweight. It's such a shallow site it's unreal! " You could have lost a lot of weight in six years. Just saying. | |||
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"I've been on and off this site for 6 years and had no meets! And the reason is I'm overweight. It's such a shallow site it's unreal! " Of course its shallow, The simple truth is there's tens of thousands of people on the Site so we can all pick the Body type/Looks/Age and attitude we want. Thats Life Btw your Veris say you have met others. Skinny Gimp | |||
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"Everyone knows ther are lots of people who appreciate a bbw, but do larger men have a chance on here?" I do ok | |||
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"Everyone knows ther are lots of people who appreciate a bbw, but do larger men have a chance on here?" Larger,skinny or some sort of chisseld type like the one below your first post, I reckon we all have as much chance here as we do outside,it's just we put ourselves forward more here so are likely to get more rejections I would guess | |||
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"Everyone knows ther are lots of people who appreciate a bbw, but do larger men have a chance on here?" Plenty of men say the like the big women, must be a woman who likes big blokes.... But don't forget the women rule the roost on this type of sites. | |||
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"Everyone knows ther are lots of people who appreciate a bbw, but do larger men have a chance on here?" and another one another one bites the dust | |||
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"And OP, in his eternal quest to be desired by the opposite sex, abandoned Fabswingers.com and headed off to pastures new." bless | |||
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"And OP, in his eternal quest to be desired by the opposite sex, abandoned Fabswingers.com and headed off to pastures new." is their another place for ex fabsters to go and seek fulfillment and happiness? | |||
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"And OP, in his eternal quest to be desired by the opposite sex, abandoned Fabswingers.com and headed off to pastures new. is their another place for ex fabsters to go and seek fulfillment and happiness? " Something to do with fish I think? | |||
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