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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am new to the scene and at 43 I wish to learn and experience new avenues in life.

Right here's my gripe, I have sent plenty of messages to women to introduce my self and been quite the gent while doing so. I have complimented photos and appearances but I have never had a reply back. Just one thanks but no thanks would be at least a be an acknowledgment.

So what is it ladies I'm doing wrong?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a reply ? You have a verification of a meet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had a reply ? You have a verification of a meet ?"

Perhaps they exchanged messages via semaphore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had a reply ? You have a verification of a meet ?

Perhaps they exchanged messages via semaphore?"

Ermmmmm, what's one of those ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had a reply ? You have a verification of a meet ?

Perhaps they exchanged messages via semaphore?

Ermmmmm, what's one of those ?"

Like morse code but with flags!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had a reply ? You have a verification of a meet ?

Perhaps they exchanged messages via semaphore?

Ermmmmm, what's one of those ?

Like morse code but with flags!"

Be-have lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The verification was from the couple I had a meet with who advised its site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The verification was from the couple I had a meet with who advised its site. "

So you had more luck on another site ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We met when I was on a night out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am new to the scene and at 43 I wish to learn and experience new avenues in life.

Right here's my gripe, I have sent plenty of messages to women to introduce my self and been quite the gent while doing so. I have complimented photos and appearances but I have never had a reply back. Just one thanks but no thanks would be at least a be an acknowledgment.

So what is it ladies I'm doing wrong?.

"

Your message needs to give them a reason to reply abd by the sounds of it they don't

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I am new to the scene and at 43 I wish to learn and experience new avenues in life.

Right here's my gripe, I have sent plenty of messages to women to introduce my self and been quite the gent while doing so. I have complimented photos and appearances but I have never had a reply back. Just one thanks but no thanks would be at least a be an acknowledgment.

So what is it ladies I'm doing wrong?.

"

I'll give you an answer rather than mocking you.

There is no wrong. Or no right. Unfortunately, lots of messages to women (and couples) go unread.

I can't even pinpoint what makes me intrigued to open a message or what sparks my interest in a profile.

All I can say is, don't let it get you down an just keep trying. The worst thing you can do is gripe about it. I see some status updates of men complaining about no replies or you get repeat messages from people asking for feedback or to snipe because you've not replied.

If you are finding the messaging side frustrating, try a club on a social event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met when I was on a night out. "

Get back 'out on the town' then man, there is where you shine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what type of information would catch your eye to get you to reply.

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire


"We met when I was on a night out.

Get back 'out on the town' then man, there is where you shine "

That proper made me giggle x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We met when I was on a night out.

Get back 'out on the town' then man, there is where you shine "

Lol, I'm thinking of doing that thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what type of information would catch your eye to get you to reply. "

Me personally ? The message would not be so important, unless it was crude. I would check the profile, if they sounded or looked what I was hoping for, then I would reply positively.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met when I was on a night out.

Get back 'out on the town' then man, there is where you shine

That proper made me giggle x"

I was trying to say, he obviously has a great personality, that comes across better in person/face to face

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am new to the scene and at 43 I wish to learn and experience new avenues in life.

Right here's my gripe, I have sent plenty of messages to women to introduce my self and been quite the gent while doing so. I have complimented photos and appearances but I have never had a reply back. Just one thanks but no thanks would be at least a be an acknowledgment.

So what is it ladies I'm doing wrong?.

I'll give you an answer rather than mocking you.

There is no wrong. Or no right. Unfortunately, lots of messages to women (and couples) go unread.

I can't even pinpoint what makes me intrigued to open a message or what sparks my interest in a profile.

All I can say is, don't let it get you down an just keep trying. The worst thing you can do is gripe about it. I see some status updates of men complaining about no replies or you get repeat messages from people asking for feedback or to snipe because you've not replied.

If you are finding the messaging side frustrating, try a club on a social event. "

Thanks, it's not getting me down and I'm not the kind of guy that hurls abuse because they don't get what they won't. ile take that advise and maybe try the clubs but I will also persevere with the site also. Many thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met when I was on a night out. "

There is your answer then....get out more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pick out parts of their profile to reply to so it's more conversational.

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