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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We had been chatting to a couple on here for a while then became suspicious it was just a guy with a couples profile.

He has since tracked down the fems place of work and has been waiting outside for her asking questions.

Anyone ever had this happen or have advice on what to do?

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

That is always a worrying development...I would suggest you are careful with 'traceable' information with people in future until you have met and are sure they are trustworthy...

In the meantime I hope things work out. Some stern words may be the order of the day...but then there is the possibility of him being even more of a dick, so think carefully

Good luck and take care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

report to police?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't waste any time get in contact with the police on 101 as may be a real wrong'un with bad intentions, may have a past of doing it before, I would never just leave something like this and hope he goes away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's fucking creepy, I'd offer a polite advisory to get lost and keep away. If that's ignored, a less polite word from the local constabulary will be needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does beg the question though of howuch information did you divulge that allowed him to track her to her workplace?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and how on earth did he find put where she worked? giving out that kind of information to strangers is asking for trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does beg the question though of howuch information did you divulge that allowed him to track her to her workplace?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She's just worried that she may be at fault in the eyes of the police. No matter how worried she is.

I've warned her about info she gives out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's fucking creepy, I'd offer a polite advisory to get lost and keep away. If that's ignored, a less polite word from the local constabulary will be needed."

this..... it never ceases to amaze me how some people immediately think they have ''rights'' over you just because you have engaged in conversation with them hope you get this resolved soon

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Swinging isn't illegal but stalking is....I would be calling the police and asking them to tell him to keep away....I would hope they would recognise that you are worried and deal with it seriously xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, why would you tell anyone on here where you work, it is none of their business. Call the Police now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been back through the messages and she hasn't told him where she works just what she does.

It's a small town and he's obviously worked it out. Serious creep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message him with advice to stay away and that the police will be informed. Don't wait for replies,

Block him and report him too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's just worried that she may be at fault in the eyes of the police. No matter how worried she is.

I've warned her about info she gives out "

Not her fault in any way.

She wasn't cautious that's all, and that's also called being trusting.

I agree with the if she tells him to leave her alone and he doesn't then get to the police like others have said.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

I would be getting my ass down to my partners work and talking to him ......or if it was other way about my hubby would call police ASAP . Also report to admin .

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"I would be getting my ass down to my partners work and talking to him ......or if it was other way about my hubby would call police ASAP . Also report to admin ."

I certainly wouldn't be hanging around in a forum....protect yours comes first

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