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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, we've advertised for a female for 3 way after last week having a bloke 3 way and verified. All messages are from single blokes of all ages with cock pics attached! Females seem to be elusive or had one reply "your not my type" lol

Any tips? Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're seeking what the vast majority of others are, like id say to a single bloke who's asking.........approach your intended suitor and give them a reason to pick you over all of the others. Fab is a buyers market when it comes to the single women and they have the pick and choose of all in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women look at the profile before the message and yours isn't doing anything for you so I'd start on that before sending out any further messages x

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I'd take one look at your profile and then not take it any further.

Look at some of the successful couples, and the effort they put in to images and their profile to attract single females... and then look at yours - see the difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FMM = Organise Online

FFM = Organise Offline

That'd be my advice

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"FMM = Organise Online

FFM = Organise Offline

That'd be my advice "

I'd disagree that FFM must be offline to organise. The majority of my recent ones have been organised online - I don't live in an area with a good club/social network for alternative lifestyles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd take one look at your profile and then not take it any further.

Look at some of the successful couples, and the effort they put in to images and their profile to attract single females... and then look at yours - see the difference?"

Agreed. No way will an all but empty profile with no pictures attract a response from single females when they have so much choice elsewhere.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I'd take one look at your profile and then not take it any further. "

There are no public pics, and nothing to suggest I would have a good time if we met. I'm not in it just to please others, I want pleasure too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So if we add a few faceless pics and put more in profile we might have more of a chance? New to all this so thanks for the advise x

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"So if we add a few faceless pics and put more in profile we might have more of a chance? New to all this so thanks for the advise x"

There isn't some magic formula where

XX + XY + some pictures + certain words = (XX+XY)/XX (or any other combination)

Its about seeing something in the people you chat to that creates a moment of chemistry, some spark and synergy where you want to meet... its also the development of some conversation, so a good profile is a step in the process.

Look at some of the very successful couples on here and see what they do well, and then see where your skills and talents are, and write about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if we add a few faceless pics and put more in profile we might have more of a chance? New to all this so thanks for the advise x

There isn't some magic formula where

XX + XY + some pictures + certain words = (XX+XY)/XX (or any other combination)

Its about seeing something in the people you chat to that creates a moment of chemistry, some spark and synergy where you want to meet... its also the development of some conversation, so a good profile is a step in the process.

Look at some of the very successful couples on here and see what they do well, and then see where your skills and talents are, and write about them.

"

Aww you're lovely, you're talking an awful lot of sense there. We should meet

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Aww you're lovely, you're talking an awful lot of sense there. We should meet"

Well, I'm willing to give you another chance - after you being late last time hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if we add a few faceless pics and put more in profile we might have more of a chance? New to all this so thanks for the advise x

There isn't some magic formula where

XX + XY + some pictures + certain words = (XX+XY)/XX (or any other combination)

Its about seeing something in the people you chat to that creates a moment of chemistry, some spark and synergy where you want to meet... its also the development of some conversation, so a good profile is a step in the process.

Look at some of the very successful couples on here and see what they do well, and then see where your skills and talents are, and write about them.

Aww you're lovely, you're talking an awful lot of sense there. We should meet"

Nicked my line!!!

I'll bring more crunchies? Bribery is way forward surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're never gonna live that one down huh? Such shocking punctuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might be just me, but the line "we're looking for a single lady to please us both" makes me feel like I'd be used as a toy

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"It might be just me, but the line "we're looking for a single lady to please us both" makes me feel like I'd be used as a toy "

I'm straight and it reads the same way to me as well, I certainly wouldn't be interested if I was Bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single fem who meets couples I'd run a mile from a profile like this 'looking for a fem to please you both' Sounds like you are shopping for a commodity. Most single fems on here are here for their pleasure not to be some couples little play thing.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

im going to try to be constructive here..

'a bi fem to please us both'

how about wed like to experience a three way dynamic with another lady, our fantasy is.....x,y and z....

please let us know what your preferences are, and, well see if we can make everyone happy....

"we are totally committed"

..us single women arent after splitting you guys up..thats why we are single women playing on our own...

how about wed like to extend our loving coupledom to include another woman on occasions......we think this would be wonderful for all concerned...

chocolate and squirty cream...is this a requirement????

or make it jokey...

the mrs has a penchant for chocolte sauce and squirty cream..anyone want to join the buffet...

how are you going to be pleasing two women at once???

are you open for a social meet first..if so say so..if not ..go to a club....

no face pics.. not really a hubby pic..

oh and what about accomodation.......

trust these comments and questions help you please dont copy/paste...just think and rewrite expressing who you actually are....

kindest regards

sx

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

To be honest, just your kik name would put me off as it is clearly a blokes kik, so wouldn't make me think "couple"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I say to everyone, you need patience lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To be honest we copied parts of these off others as advised to see what others put, the commited bit, looking to please us both so obviously got it wrong! Will try again lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U seem like a nice couple and are committed to making it work so the only thing that would make me move on would be the pics. When we started out we had a session of dressing up, getting naughty with the purpose of getting some good pics. It was a lot of fun and it did the trick.

Also, hairyness puts me off. Smooth makes for such good oral sex.

Good luck

Mrs Nico xx

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