FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting seperately

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So a question for couples, where the fem meets seperately do you have a regular male or female buddy you play with. And do you the male half of the couple ask to meet them socially beforehand to make sure you feel your partner would be safe with them. Reason I'm asking is I have come to the point where I'm happy for the wife to meet alone but wonder if it's best for her to have a regular fun friend or for her to meet anyone she likes.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

An option might be as you are doing now - hotels, where you both attend whilst you get comfortable with it. You go to the bar when a meet is arranged, it may be an easy way to introduce separate room swinging if you cant find a buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So a question for couples, where the fem meets seperately do you have a regular male or female buddy you play with. And do you the male half of the couple ask to meet them socially beforehand to make sure you feel your partner would be safe with them. Reason I'm asking is I have come to the point where I'm happy for the wife to meet alone but wonder if it's best for her to have a regular fun friend or for her to meet anyone she likes."

My partners don't meet any of my prospective partners. They might meet at some point in the future, but I wouldn't expect them to come to a social before I had sex with someone.

It doesn't matter what my partners think of the person, it's not them having sex with the prospective hottie!

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

if MrsH plays alone I do not usually meet the guy. She also has a regular but I have met him and we have had a couple of MMFs but more often than not they meet just them. Because they both wanted to see eachother again after the first meet, we had a social meet and it went from there.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Surely the safety aspect would be no different for a single female meeting men on here?

There's a variety of techniques including socials first etc that some women choose, it's just whatever you're happy with

If you want to meet as a couple first before going off alone then just make that clear on the profile/meet request and then the guys can't say they didn't know

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Mr has no problem with me meeting guys alone, as long as he gets all the contact info and knows exactly where and when I'll be. Plus I message him when I get home to let him know I'm safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Others can't really answer that for you. Some like the safety of a regular extra.. where as I know I'd not like that at all...

Some like to meet first... Personally I would be happier if it was someone we had met together first... But not sure if I'd find meeting on a social if they were not going to play with us both... I think I'd feel Like the gooseberry lol x

Try a few things then talk and see what works best. Set ground rules and beprepared to adjust them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a social with my hubby there first and even a mmf before I play alone. X just makes us both feel safer x but everyone sets their own rules to make themselves feel comfortable x

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Played on my own for a Paul 4 times 3 times with guys we had met and had fun with a few time,s and once with a guy that was staying in the same hotel i was in when on a course for a week Paul new he told me to go for it even spoke to him and told him to enjoy me but to be honest don,t feel safe with out Paul enjoy it better if he,s there

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