FabSwingers.com forum: First time swapping

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all. We are meeting our first bi couple tomorrow for fem on fem fun together plus our first full sex swap. We are happy to do this but was wondering what emotions and feelings you all had first time you swapped. First time I let her suck a guy and he licked fingered her we fucked all night lol. So how was full swap for you guys ????

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By *oletiCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Our first full swap was our first meet and after they left we didnt stop all night =D

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

"Our first full swap was our first meet and after they left we didnt stop all night =D "

What a lovely cpl x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are hoping we horny after it and fuck all night too

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Sure you both will be x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What we want to know though was your feelings as it was happening. Jealous? Excited ? Nervous? We don't know what to expect

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

"What we want to know though was your feelings as it was happening. Jealous? Excited ? Nervous? We don't know what to expect"

I'm sure you have some feelings about the whole thing, talk to each other about it. No one can tell you how you are going to feel about it as everyone is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What we want to know though was your feelings as it was happening. Jealous? Excited ? Nervous? We don't know what to expect

I'm sure you have some feelings about the whole thing, talk to each other about it. No one can tell you how you are going to feel about it as everyone is different "

This

Talk and hash out any worries before hand to stop any potential problems afterwards and enjoy

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

"What we want to know though was your feelings as it was happening. Jealous? Excited ? Nervous? We don't know what to expect"

Lots of people say they get turned on by seeing their OH with someone else. For me it's more that I am happy to see her enjoying herself while I am enjoying the variety of being with someone else. We don't feel jealous, we arrived together and will leave together.

After a year of swinging we are enjoying the social side of being in clubs more. Also the whole soft swap/ full swap thing isn't such an issue. Sometimes we have full penetrative sex, sometimes we don't, depending on what else we are enjoying.

Although I am straight I do like the occasions where we are having a foursome with all the possible combinations when the fems are bi playful.

Finally, there are people on here saying it is easier to arrange threesome - which we also enjoy - because it can be hard for all 4 people to click. It ain't that difficult folks!

Him

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By *abloversCouple
over a year ago

London

We are still yet to take that full step too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first time with a couple was strictly soft play and NO fem on fem as Mrs wasn't too sure. However, it didn't quite work out that way, and it wasn't long before us guys were taking it in turn spit roasting the fems and doing literally everything with each other!! Then to top the night off the girls gave us his one hell of a show to remember!! It was such a sexual boost for us as we were literally "at it" for weeks and weeks after!! Unfortunately we don't have a great deal of luck with couples due to either they have insecurities or one if them has to get blind d*unk to play, but when we do we really make the most of it with not one single regret!! Oh, and our love for one another is incredibly strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for the mistakes above, bloody iPhones are just too small!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What we want to know though was your feelings as it was happening. Jealous? Excited ? Nervous? We don't know what to expect"

ALL of the above....that's what makes it so great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication is the most important thing. Discuss beforehand any concerns you have and set your boundaries. It might be a good idea to meet a couple who will let you take the lead as it were so you only do what you are comfortable with.

We started out as a full swap couple as I love to see my wife with couples or guys so for us jealousy has never been an issue so can't really comment on that I'm sorry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are ready for this we've talked it through. Looking forward to all the new feelings and hope it brings our sex life to a new level

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By *inky and SlopeyCouple
over a year ago

Croydon and South Wales

"We are ready for this we've talked it through. Looking forward to all the new feelings and hope it brings our sex life to a new level"

It will and you will continue to talk about it afterwards. Our first experience was with single male, it was exciting seeing her getting turned on by another blokes. But it was a totally different experience with a couple. We met for a social which ended up with clothes everywhere. It was a soft swap but we were so arouse and so were the other couple we ended up full swap and the bonus of Fem on Fem. only advice is discuss the do's and don't's and then go with the flow.

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