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A hand job is a hand job isn't it?

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By *he horny kinksters OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

Jeepers I'm posting a lot today...

Another comment Miss K made the other day was "well a wank is a wank isn't it?"

As a bloke, in my life I've had some great hand jobs and some frankly quite poor ones. There are those women who seem very skilled and understand it's not just all about speed.

Unfortunately though, there are some women who just think if they tug it fast enough a guy will pop.

Now I'm sure that ladies, this must be similar for you in terms of hand based stimulation from blokes.

So what makes for good manual stimulation?

I dunno what it is that Miss K does that makes them bloody good but she is without a doubt the best I have ever come across (if you'll pardon the pun). Unfortunately when she starts I can't concentrate for long on exactly what she's doing as I get too into the moment.

I know I can't manage to do it myself annoyingly. (I can wank obviously but it never feels anywhere near as good from a technique point of view)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A handjob is definately not generic lol.

Lubrication, pressure and timing I would say are the most important

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

We both have had great and bloody awful.

Some women seem to think that trying to detach a cock from the body is stimulating, it's not. Some guys seem to think that ramming as many fingers as they can into a dry pussy then working them like a Ferrari piston is the quickest way to an orgasm, it's not.

Then again we've both had some great times with people who really know what they are doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good hand job is amazing a girl once had me on the edge for ages not letting me cum and massaging my balls. One of the most powerful orgasms I've ever had, was cum everywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both have had great and bloody awful.

Some women seem to think that trying to detach a cock from the body is stimulating, it's not. Some guys seem to think that ramming as many fingers as they can into a dry pussy then working them like a Ferrari piston is the quickest way to an orgasm, it's not.

Then again we've both had some great times with people who really know what they are doing. "

There's a word for that called Denobilation. Really hurts when girls just yank as hard and fast as they can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the old joke goes....

Person A: "Describe the *worst* blowjob you've ever had"

Person B: "Fucking brilliant".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

technically I give the best handjobs to myself (since I have had so much practice plenty of precum oozing out of the slit, add a bit of spit on the fingers, work the head, press play on my favourite fantasy and well, i'm away and flying for a lovely toe curling, groin tingling, spunk pumping gusher !

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"We both have had great and bloody awful.

Some women seem to think that trying to detach a cock from the body is stimulating, it's not. Some guys seem to think that ramming as many fingers as they can into a dry pussy then working them like a Ferrari piston is the quickest way to an orgasm, it's not.

Then again we've both had some great times with people who really know what they are doing.

There's a word for that called Denobilation. Really hurts when girls just yank as hard and fast as they can. "

Oh. I always thought it was "decockitation"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be gentle and erotic for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good handjob can be a deeply erotic experience. We love em!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long slow lubed then quicker. Stop tease. Play with balls, then back slow firm. There's all the bits around the base stroking the scrotum, get underneath and massage that bit next to the a hole.

Squeeze the blood up don't make it fun but if you do go frantic, wank and rub the end don't stop even though he's really sensative keep going til he's pumping dry.

Awesome.

No a good hand job is a real skill.

Perhaps I could make a living teaching couples. Any takers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once has a hand job from this nurse, her hands were really rough.

never has my cock been in such mortal danger.

Whipped it away before she could blink and found somewhere else to put it.

Shame coz she was gorgeous, but I've only got one cock and I need it in one piece

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away


"Jeepers I'm posting a lot today...

Another comment Miss K made the other day was "well a wank is a wank isn't it?"

As a bloke, in my life I've had some great hand jobs and some frankly quite poor ones. There are those women who seem very skilled and understand it's not just all about speed.

Unfortunately though, there are some women who just think if they tug it fast enough a guy will pop.

Now I'm sure that ladies, this must be similar for you in terms of hand based stimulation from blokes.

So what makes for good manual stimulation?

I dunno what it is that Miss K does that makes them bloody good but she is without a doubt the best I have ever come across (if you'll pardon the pun). Unfortunately when she starts I can't concentrate for long on exactly what she's doing as I get too into the moment.

I know I can't manage to do it myself annoyingly. (I can wank obviously but it never feels anywhere near as good from a technique point of view)

"

You're not wrong. I am very sensitive on my clit but like it rough internally with the fingers. Having a little bit of experience with other women, I can safely say we are not all the same and indeed to perfect the art properly you need to establish how each individual likes it.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"technically I give the best handjobs to myself (since I have had so much practice plenty of precum oozing out of the slit, add a bit of spit on the fingers, work the head, press play on my favourite fantasy and well, i'm away and flying for a lovely toe curling, groin tingling, spunk pumping gusher !"

So eloquently put!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the old joke goes....

Person A: "Describe the *worst* blowjob you've ever had"

Person B: "Fucking brilliant"."

It seems people care more about comparing wanks than the person they are doing it with!

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By *d871Man
over a year ago

nowhere

Long, slow strokes with plenty of lube (olive oil is my fave) squeezing hard with lots of work on the glans is the best for me, but it is very much down to personal preference I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both have had great and bloody awful.

Some women seem to think that trying to detach a cock from the body is stimulating, it's not. Some guys seem to think that ramming as many fingers as they can into a dry pussy then working them like a Ferrari piston is the quickest way to an orgasm, it's not.

Then again we've both had some great times with people who really know what they are doing. "

Seen it plenty of times in clubs where guys are so focused on trying to make the lass squirt that the friction from the speed of their finger blasting is a fire hazard!

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By *unknSoulCouple
over a year ago

dumfries-ish

So your lucky enough to be in a situation where a lassie is giving you and another one or two guys a hand job, You want her to change the technique to suit just you? We all enjoy different strokes does not mean what you dislike is a crap hand job. Saying this not in a rude way.

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By *aysmitMan
over a year ago

walsall

I enjoy lots of baby oil on my cock and. Stroked very slowly very erotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All down to personal preference I like it slow to medium pace with my balls being tickled.

I had a dreadful handjob once where it felt like she was trying to pull my helmet off, then she tore my foreskin. What happened next stays between me and the poor girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im looking for a lady who wants to perfect her technique ON ME !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

slow and oily is def best technique.

I rekon I'd be very good at giving one too.

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