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"Any other late starters online today? How was it for you when you first dressed up?" I've been dressing for years one way or another, but a lady friend did it properly for the first time for me a few weeks ago: Make up, lingerie, wig, jewellery. I felt fantastic | |||
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"Love to give it a go....in fact you're on my hotlist...just a matter of taking the plunge... " My first time out in a vanilla environment was a new year fancy dress. To be fair I did play things down a bit. No boobs or cleavage creation. I wore a halterneck dress so I didn't display my tattoos either. It still created a stir and I was asked why I'd shaved my legs and underarms. I just said I do everything I do properly. Life is too short not to take the plunge and do what you want. Regret the things you do. And thank you. Hot list? | |||
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"I don't just mean put some knickers on. I never knew this was in me until I tried it. The first time I shaved everything, moisturised and felt my skin feel like silk I was 42. I dressed up in the things I bought from the Internet. My wife guided me with the makeup. I felt I looked a twat and then I pulled the wig on and looked in the mirror..... If you haven't tried it. I mean properly tried it you'll not know how liberating it feels. I know most of you guys never will and won't want to but if you do and can get past feeling self conscious, worrying what others will think, worrying if you're suddenly less of a man....." I'm sorry but no. You must have felt at least partly androgynous or had urges before and you finally got the confidence to try dressing, good for you, really. But don't assume other people all secretly want to do it too the majority of men are perfectly happy being men. | |||
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"I don't just mean put some knickers on. I never knew this was in me until I tried it. The first time I shaved everything, moisturised and felt my skin feel like silk I was 42. I dressed up in the things I bought from the Internet. My wife guided me with the makeup. I felt I looked a twat and then I pulled the wig on and looked in the mirror..... If you haven't tried it. I mean properly tried it you'll not know how liberating it feels. I know most of you guys never will and won't want to but if you do and can get past feeling self conscious, worrying what others will think, worrying if you're suddenly less of a man..... I'm sorry but no. You must have felt at least partly androgynous or had urges before and you finally got the confidence to try dressing, good for you, really. But don't assume other people all secretly want to do it too the majority of men are perfectly happy being men. " Nope. Never had the urge or even considered it. I knew I was bi but not that I'd enjoy being dressed up. As for assuming other people all secretly want to do it.... Like I said; I know most guys never will and won't want to. Sorry if that wasn't perfectly clear. | |||
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"loved doing it when I get the chance , love your photos rachael" Thank you. | |||
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" I know most of you guys never will and won't want to but if you do and can get past feeling self conscious, worrying what others will think, worrying if you're suddenly less of a man....." Right there. That's you saying if we can get past our feelings we secretly want to. | |||
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" I know most of you guys never will and won't want to but if you do and can get past feeling self conscious, worrying what others will think, worrying if you're suddenly less of a man..... Right there. That's you saying if we can get past our feelings we secretly want to. " Perhaps text without inflection causes confusion. That was me saying most of you guys never will and won't want to. But if they do want to and can get past the reasons they don't..... Again. Sorry if I didn't make myself clear enough. I'm well aware this isn't for the majority. | |||
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" I know most of you guys never will and won't want to but if you do and can get past feeling self conscious, worrying what others will think, worrying if you're suddenly less of a man..... Right there. That's you saying if we can get past our feelings we secretly want to. " I thought the 'but if you do' was pretty clear. I see nothing that says all men secretly want to do anything. Haven't been eye tested in years though so maybe I'm missing something? A | |||
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" I know most of you guys never will and won't want to but if you do and can get past feeling self conscious, worrying what others will think, worrying if you're suddenly less of a man..... Right there. That's you saying if we can get past our feelings we secretly want to. I thought the 'but if you do' was pretty clear. I see nothing that says all men secretly want to do anything. Haven't been eye tested in years though so maybe I'm missing something? A" Perhaps my punctuation was lacking. Should I have slotted in another comma? | |||
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" I know most of you guys never will and won't want to but if you do and can get past feeling self conscious, worrying what others will think, worrying if you're suddenly less of a man..... Right there. That's you saying if we can get past our feelings we secretly want to. I thought the 'but if you do' was pretty clear. I see nothing that says all men secretly want to do anything. Haven't been eye tested in years though so maybe I'm missing something? A Perhaps my punctuation was lacking. Should I have slotted in another comma? " I understood what you meant my lovely xxx And I think you look bloody good as both a man & a woman | |||
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" I know most of you guys never will and won't want to but if you do and can get past feeling self conscious, worrying what others will think, worrying if you're suddenly less of a man..... Right there. That's you saying if we can get past our feelings we secretly want to. Perhaps text without inflection causes confusion. That was me saying most of you guys never will and won't want to. But if they do want to and can get past the reasons they don't..... Again. Sorry if I didn't make myself clear enough. I'm well aware this isn't for the majority. " Ah yes I see now, my apologies. I must be cracking on eyes ain't what they used to be | |||
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" I know most of you guys never will and won't want to but if you do and can get past feeling self conscious, worrying what others will think, worrying if you're suddenly less of a man..... Right there. That's you saying if we can get past our feelings we secretly want to. Perhaps text without inflection causes confusion. That was me saying most of you guys never will and won't want to. But if they do want to and can get past the reasons they don't..... Again. Sorry if I didn't make myself clear enough. I'm well aware this isn't for the majority. Ah yes I see now, my apologies. I must be cracking on eyes ain't what they used to be " No worries and thank you. For the record; I'm not one of those who thinks most guys are bi or that all the straight guys would play with me if no one found out. | |||
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"Rachael, you could be me. I went through hell for years just because I had the desire deep down, but felt it was 'wrong'. I was 41, and only in the last 3 months have I gone the whole way - corsets and stockings and heels and makeup and all shaved smooth. I still think I look dreadful, but I feel wonderful. I went from dreading anybody knowing about it, to happily click clicking down the street in my stilettos and have told most of my friends. I work in an extremely macho industry, and yet the response of most of my friends and contacts is 'damn, you look hot as a chick!' I find my personality changes when dressed. So much so that I had to name my female side. In all of this, my greatest thing is the sense of love and acceptance and passion from my partner, Cass. She has embraced this side of me and drawn it out to be the best it can be. I wish all men who want to dress where as lucky as I am. Love Jane X" That's so lovely to hear Jane. Thank you for sharing your experience. Xxx | |||
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"Mrsdpt bought some new stockings - tried them on for a laugh, can honestly say they felt bloody awful " Did he shave first? | |||
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"Any other late starters online today? How was it for you when you first dressed up?" I was a very early starter at 10 years old... | |||
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"Question to those of you who started late then... Do you wish you'd started expressing and exploring it earlier??" Yes. I'm all wrinkly and middle age spread now. | |||
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"Question to those of you who started late then... Do you wish you'd started expressing and exploring it earlier??" Yes definatly | |||
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"Any other late starters online today? How was it for you when you first dressed up? I was a very early starter at 10 years old..." My first experience was at about that age | |||
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"I have been made to dress up in women's clobber and then fucked like a little bitch, which is both degrading and hot" I've never felt degraded. Empowered perhaps but we all have our own reasons. It is very hot though | |||
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" I know most of you guys never will and won't want to but if you do and can get past feeling self conscious, worrying what others will think, worrying if you're suddenly less of a man..... Right there. That's you saying if we can get past our feelings we secretly want to. " do you feel lucky? well, do ya punk? | |||
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"I have been made to dress up in women's clobber and then fucked like a little bitch, which is both degrading and hot I've never felt degraded. Empowered perhaps but we all have our own reasons. It is very hot though " Yes really hot, but I think degrading in the sense that u r other people's play thing and when they r coming in u whilst dressed in lingerie ur made to feel a little bit dirty | |||
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"My trouble with cross dressing is that I still look male. I like the idea and feel of it but I just look like a "cock in a frock". Are convincing TVs more sexy than un-convincing ones? For me, yes, but I get the idea of being attracted to a "cock in a frock"" It seems many people, make or female, who seek fun with tv's and Tgirls, like the mix of the sexes. If they wanted a girl they'd fuck a girl. The theory that it's only desperate men who play with us is an unfounded myth. Obviously there are always exceptions. There are some who seek the "shemales" they see in porn but most like a cock in a frock | |||
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"My trouble with cross dressing is that I still look male. I like the idea and feel of it but I just look like a "cock in a frock". Are convincing TVs more sexy than un-convincing ones? For me, yes, but I get the idea of being attracted to a "cock in a frock" It seems many people, make or female, who seek fun with tv's and Tgirls, like the mix of the sexes. If they wanted a girl they'd fuck a girl. The theory that it's only desperate men who play with us is an unfounded myth. Obviously there are always exceptions. There are some who seek the "shemales" they see in porn but most like a cock in a frock " | |||
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"Any other late starters online today? How was it for you when you first dressed up?" Didn't try it until in my 40's I found out I liked cock. Now single I am developing my second wardrobe! The Goatee is gonna have to go though... | |||
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"My trouble with cross dressing is that I still look male. I like the idea and feel of it but I just look like a "cock in a frock". Are convincing TVs more sexy than un-convincing ones? For me, yes, but I get the idea of being attracted to a "cock in a frock" It seems many people, make or female, who seek fun with tv's and Tgirls, like the mix of the sexes. If they wanted a girl they'd fuck a girl. The theory that it's only desperate men who play with us is an unfounded myth. Obviously there are always exceptions. There are some who seek the "shemales" they see in porn but most like a cock in a frock " No they don't, you are looking in the wrong places!!!!!! | |||
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"Would love to find a woman or tv/ts local to me to help me with make up , lashes and pictures " This! | |||
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"First tried a few knickers and stockings around puberty. Then over the years managed to try various partners clothes on in secret. Married and forgot about cross dressing then supermarkets got self serve tills so built up my own sexy wardrobe to wear while away on business once a week. Once i started meeting cd tv as a man i knew i had to dress further and get men to meet me. Love dressing but stockings are my main thing. Love sexy legs and a nice hard cock in a pair of sexy knickers xx great thread xxxxxx" I can relate to that, but I'm not too concerned about whether shops are self service or not. | |||
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"Not done the whole shaving thing, but I can relate to the other feelings." Keep getting razor rash on my "pubis".. | |||
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"Sorry, but I know I definitely don't want to. I am not self conscious nor do I care what others think but for me the idea is a total turn off. Good for those that enjoy it, but for me it's about as sexy or liberating as sticking pins in my eyeballs! " Fair enough | |||
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