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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Brilliant sex with my ex but she would only orgasm the one time. To the extent that she would fall asleep afterwards. Like so many men are criticised for.

Is this a common thing for you ladies ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noones ever tried to make me cum more than once so no idea if I can do it more than that, would love to lol!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Noones ever tried to make me cum more than once so no idea if I can do it more than that, would love to lol!x"

What??

That's a terrible state of affairs and needs to be rectified as soon as possible!!!

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By *nfinity1Man
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

"Brilliant sex with my ex but she would only orgasm the one time. To the extent that she would fall asleep afterwards. Like so many men are criticised for.

Is this a common thing for you ladies ?"

Sounds like my wife lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now way is this true!!! I've come over and over on some occasions! ! It's great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. I was with my fwb the other night, I came once with a toy, then he made me cum again with the toy, then he made me cum with his fingers and that was within 20 minutes. I was no where near done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Noones ever tried to make me cum more than once so no idea if I can do it more than that, would love to lol!x

What??

That's a terrible state of affairs and needs to be rectified as soon as possible!!!

Haha I know i do need someone who's attentive to my needs too lol! I can squirt all day but cumming just once lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never cum more that once in a session but I don't fall to sleep after I still carry on

if it's been a all nighters I have been known to cum again but only after a break and a few hours between rounds, but that's rare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the rare occasion a man can actually make me cum, he then does it over and over so no i've never just cum once. It's kinda sad that a man would only try and make someone cum once! Every guy i've ever met has been so turned on i can't generally stop him doing it again and again and why would i?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Brilliant sex with my ex but she would only orgasm the one time. To the extent that she would fall asleep afterwards. Like so many men are criticised for.

Is this a common thing for you ladies ?"

This is me down to a t xx i want to change but cant seem to xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently discovered I can come and come again. ...and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I recently discovered I can come and come again. ...and again

lucky you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's different. I'm either not at all or lose count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow!!! I cum a lot and always have done, I assumed everyone was the same!

The more orgasms I have the hornier I am xx

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Met a couple where he told us she only came once, she was up to 10 when he started sulking and spoilt the night.

Have to confess that I just keep on coming when you have someone who knows the buttons to push.

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

Everybody is different. I used to only cum the once and when I did, my partner would finish himself off and that's it. No chance on whether to explore if I could cum again - the deed was done and that was it.

It wasn't until my late 30's and my fourth partner, that I discovered I could multiorgasm, sometimes several times a session (I usually loose count after 7 or 8). But sometimes I can only cum the once, or not at all. Depends on circumstances, partner, mood, arousal, etc. it doesn't bother me if I do or don't, but have had one or two partners complaining that I can sometimes take a while..

Who cares if someone can only cum the once or not sometimes?? As long as all is happy at the end of the day.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Brilliant sex with my ex but she would only orgasm the one time. To the extent that she would fall asleep afterwards. Like so many men are criticised for.

Is this a common thing for you ladies ?"

It's normal for me. I've never found it a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually come several times - sometimes need a nap between 2nd and 3rd - each orgasm is very different - love to have them teased out of me .....m x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I come only the once very often. I don't like it when men ask how many times I came though,I don't count.

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

"Everybody is different. I used to only cum the once and when I did, my partner would finish himself off and that's it. No chance on whether to explore if I could cum again - the deed was done and that was it.

Who cares if someone can only cum the once or not sometimes?? As long as all is happy at the end of the day.

Some guys take it personal when I don't, but they don't get that I've had an amazing time regardless.

I don't feel there has to be a finale for me. It would be nice if there was but I'm just awkward.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think I come only the once very often. I don't like it when men ask how many times I came though,I don't count."

My answer to that is it depends how good you are

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Vaginal orgasms I can do all night, but clitoral orgasms tend to be once only. My FB jokes that he leaves then til last because I tend to lose interest afterwards, way before he's finished

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I have been known to fall asleep after sex but it's usually a power nap after I have had a series of whole body orgasms.....I am good to go again after about 5-10 mins though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Brilliant sex with my ex but she would only orgasm the one time. To the extent that she would fall asleep afterwards. Like so many men are criticised for.

Is this a common thing for you ladies ?"
lol. That's terrible. Does reflect the males attitudes in Swansea or you just unlucky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been lucky and met men that make me cum over and over again

Never fell asleep but did have jelly legs for a while after x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will keep cumming as long as my partner is keen to continue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol havn a great laugh here... Women can climax in 3+ different ways... Each way a few different levels!!.

1. the norm that all boys shud know....clit stimulation nomnom

2 deep front wall teaser...if she's a squirter wear your rain coat....soundproof the room...the kids will think your murdering mammy lol... Multiple orgasms possible here. The beautie of this one is if you have her up on the counter she will certainly need a zimmer frame afterward for jelly legs lol.

3 Anal climaxes... Whatever floats yer boat..some like the thoughts and sum Dont.... but carried out the correct way along with some toys in the right place ...prepair to blow yer top off girls as well as everything else....

There's my pennies worth gathered through the years

and I'm sure there's many more ways but I keep them to myself for my Mr Grey days

Love to all and happy humping in the summer heat....yyyeee vitamin D at last!!

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By *ristol_MTB_cplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Different strokes for different folks. C cums very intensely, them needs a break, other women I've been with have cum over and over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Brilliant sex with my ex but she would only orgasm the one time. To the extent that she would fall asleep afterwards. Like so many men are criticised for.

Is this a common thing for you ladies ?"

95% of females ive been with cum multiple times at least 2 or 3. The other 5% just dont cum and they said thats how they are, can only make theirselves cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol good man I do the exact same to my gf... Batteries drop outa her arse after clit pop he he ....but not funny when the roller coaster goes off track before the finish ....son of a.....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to cum many times never just.once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have a girl that i see and cant make her cum,,, whats the easiest way to bring her to an orgasm,,, she said she can but i cant find that magic button with her,,, help help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can cum over and over again with my current man. It depends on who your with x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"i have a girl that i see and cant make her cum,,, whats the easiest way to bring her to an orgasm,,, she said she can but i cant find that magic button with her,,, help help

Ask her to show you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always cumming and going - and cumming!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can have sex for hours and not orgasm , although I gush and gush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once is rarely enough for me but maybe she was just tired

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

My first girlfriend used to cum over and over again.I assumed that all women were like that and had a rather rude awakening.I have a fb at the moment who can also cum repeatedly.I would love to think that it's down to my skill in bed but she says she is like that with every man she has sex with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have a girl that i see and cant make her cum,,, whats the easiest way to bring her to an orgasm,,, she said she can but i cant find that magic button with her,,, help help

Give her your hand - let her move your fingers on and in her pussy and clit and ase just how she likes it until she orgasms m x

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

During a single session in a club I often orgasm several times - and certainly don't fall asleep afterwards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be a very lucky girl, as i frequently cum 20 to 30 times before breakfast!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it depends on the intensity of the orgasm. Generally speaking if it's a normal clitoral orgasm then I can recover after about 20 minutes. However, there are some orgasms that totally wipe me out. Squirting really exhausts me because it's so intense (yes I know it's not an orgasm and yes I know it's wee). After repeatedly squirting until I can't take anymore i'm normally a quivering wreck and need a good sleep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must be a very lucky girl, as i frequently cum 20 to 30 times before breakfast!!!!

Wow! What do you have for breakfast?? I have porridge! Never made me cum yet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only Pete's rock hard cock, porridge tends to stick the sheets together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can have sex for hours and not orgasm , although I gush and gush "

Is squirting or gushing not cumming then? All the satisfied fucked feeling so surely that's a orgams? ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found there are different levels of orgasm...with different ladies. My ex used to take ages to get there...but once she did it was whole body shaking, legs turn to jelly, like really could not stand, flushed over whole body, goosebumps the lot... She then became hyper sensitive and could take no more.

With others the orgasms are less intense but can repeat many times.... That includes those who squirt or gush multiple times.

The best has been with my best friend who combines both....multiple which can go on for hours if we have the time..... But always good to then go for the little trick that tips her over The edge into a shuddering trembling heap after which she is of use to neither man nor beast for next 15 mins.... Wobbly, tearful and gasping for breath.

I guess it is just that all women are different

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By *anie1000Woman
over a year ago

Staffs

"I will keep cumming as long as my partner is keen to continue

Yep, me too - given half a chance.

Janie x

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

I inadvertently trained myself to become multiorgasmic which means I can stay with the extremely sensitive stage post orgasm. The best way to train yourself to cum again and again is to use a vibrator.

After your first orgasm turn it to a low setting for about 10 seconds then raise it again to full power, breathe deeply, do not tense yourself and do not take the vibe away.

You can move it around but always return quickly to the spot you know makes you come (this is not always the clitoris... You may prefer it inside). Sometimes you may prefer to use two vibes... One inside and one on the outside. Relax and ride through the sensitivity to your next orgasm which should happen quite quickly after the first.

The trick is to keep stimulated before the tension drops below the plateau phase.

Enjoy! Repeat! Enjoy! Repeat! Enj......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I had 2 tonight and I wasnt even shagging I was just camming. Can have a lot of orgasms if I'm being fucked properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this myself with the ex. It was like having a sexual relationship with a female Gene Hunt (life on Mars detective!) all she needed was an 80's Audi Quatrro to finish off the look!

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

If I don't lose count I'm not impressed and wouldn't meet again, saying that I can cum pretty easily x and manage it perfectly well by myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the right person, I'll orgasm a lot.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

More times than I have fingers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife only comes once but she has very intense orgasms and toss around on the bed like she's fitting and she gets extremely wet. when she calms down and gets back to it she gets intense feelings in side her making her want more but she can dry up very quickly and go sore, she says its her age and the change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me it depends on the intensity of the orgasm. Generally speaking if it's a normal clitoral orgasm then I can recover after about 20 minutes. However, there are some orgasms that totally wipe me out. Squirting really exhausts me because it's so intense (yes I know it's not an orgasm and yes I know it's wee). After repeatedly squirting until I can't take anymore i'm normally a quivering wreck and need a good sleep!"

Well last night hubby made me squirt so many times and it was so overwhelming I burst into tears haha. Then he immediately sucked and licked my clit which usually wouldn't do anything for me but I then had a clitoral orgasm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm different every time. I think for me, it depends on things like tiredness, when I last had an orgasm, hormones, sex position, how long we are playing with, amount of foreplay.

I don't care. I don't care if I don't cum as long as I felt pleasure. If I cum lots during one session, I don't think it more of a success than a session when I've only cum once. I can feel sexually satisfied without an orgasm. Sometimes, orgasms just make me more horny. Most over a day period from morning til bedtime, 19.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Noones ever tried to make me cum more than once so no idea if I can do it more than that, would love to lol!x

What??

That's a terrible state of affairs and needs to be rectified as soon as possible!!!

mmmmm sound.like you need to.be teased and have lots of attention payed to you juat a same your far away could.have said let's try and.make tou cum.more.then.once

Haha I know i do need someone who's attentive to my needs too lol! I can squirt all day but cumming just once lol x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than once for me I'm happy to report

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By *tevelizCouple
over a year ago

northampton

"Brilliant sex with my ex but she would only orgasm the one time. To the extent that she would fall asleep afterwards. Like so many men are criticised for.

Is this a common thing for you ladies ?

Sounds like my wife lol"

same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like we all are different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Brilliant sex with my ex but she would only orgasm the one time. To the extent that she would fall asleep afterwards. Like so many men are criticised for.

Is this a common thing for you ladies ?"

My ex wife was like that....it was very frustrating for me unfortunately

My new partner hardly ever cums just once...very rare...she really only stops when we are exhausted. she says she's always been that way...multi-orgasmic lol....we are a great match...

Good thread I will be watching intently

IMHO it's very important to have similar sex drives.

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away

Why is a big thing for men to make the women cum more then once? I very rarely cum at all let alone more then once. I have always found it to be the men that feel inadequate if they cannot make their woman orgasm. That is not the case and if men didn't put such an emphasis on making a woman cum; we would have a much better time when playing. I do not cum easily and stop trying to make me or asking me if I have. I have had much better encounters where I haven't cum then the 1% that has made me. It's not all about the cumming for us ladies but the fun that we have along the way!

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By *nterracial2Couple
over a year ago

Ribble Valley

It's not a massive thing for us, but my orgasms can last a long long time, especially if he's pushing the right spots for me. I don't know if you'd call it multiple orgasms but if you do then I simultaneously have a few when we have sex. It's what I love about my other half.

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By *nterracial2Couple
over a year ago

Ribble Valley

Also, who doesn't like after sex nap! He doesn't but I love just cuddling up with him which eventually sends me drifting off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's no cumming, although some people do squirt with an orgasm.

Only ever had one gusher.... It was a horny experience!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have a friend and she is a gusher, fingered her and she squirted, so exciting so i got her to ride me over my boxers, thay were soaked and felt great then moved down and she rubbed her clit on my nose and gushed over my face,,, omg, i,m hard now just thinking about it,, wwwooowwwwww

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By *anetandNickCouple
over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

"Brilliant sex with my ex but she would only orgasm the one time. To the extent that she would fall asleep afterwards. Like so many men are criticised for.

Is this a common thing for you ladies ?"

Certainly not for me. At a really good party, I'm just cumming all the time!

Janet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cum over and over again never once and fall asleep but I suppose some people might only manage the once

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By *cissorhandsMan
over a year ago

Rochdale

We lose count after the first half dozen or so, never gets sore, never goes dry, such a horny bitch.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

I come over and over again in different ways, clitoral stimulation, g spot, gushing versus not, and the latter makes me clench up and push him out. With my wand or on my own is different than it is with Mr .... enjoy it all

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

My ex would crash out asleep as soon as she came so little chance of any rematch.

Even though I've gushed, have never come from vaginal stimulation. Clitoral only

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