FabSwingers.com forum: What makes someone bisexual?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Another question based on some conversations between me and Adam.

I (the female of this couple) am bisexual. I always thought it was a cut and dry thing. I am sexually attracted to both sexes and have acted on that attraction...so, therefore, I am bisexual.

We've been talking, do people classify it in other ways?

1. If a person is attracted to people of the same sex as well the opposite sex, but never engage in sexual activity with the same sex, are they bisexual?

2. If a person only actively plays with the same sex during swinging activities, but would not do so in their vanilla life, are they bisexual?

3. If a person is only on the receiving end of of play with the same gender, but does not reciprocate the play, are they bisexual?

4. If a person only kisses someone of the same sex, are they bisexual?

5. Does stating you are bisexual, even if you really don't have an attraction to both sexes make you bisexual?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bisexual is a just too broad a term..... these days we have to label ourselves in a more defined way, i am bi but i see it as a am purely attracted to the personality i like mean, sharp tongues, strong opinions and the will to defend them against attack. it doesn't matter if they are male or female. you have to be inspired into a salivating loin stirring lust, if this is brought on by a member of any gender then i would safely assume you are bi, even if you don't act on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another question based on some conversations between me and Adam.

I (the female of this couple) am bisexual. I always thought it was a cut and dry thing. I am sexually attracted to both sexes and have acted on that attraction...so, therefore, I am bisexual.

We've been talking, do people classify it in other ways?

5. Does stating you are bisexual, even if you really don't have an attraction to both sexes make you bisexual?"

No. It makes you a liar. Why would anyone state this, but not be it?

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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On point 3. I call this bi-selfish.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

For me the term Bisexual implies that sex is involved with same gender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look up the Kinsey scale for bisexuality I think it helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're only attracted to the opposite gender but not sexually active, you are still straight. So any attraction to both genders makes you bi, even if you don't act on it.

On point 3, that just makes you selfish in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 would be bi-curious

2 I think so I just haven't had the opportunity to go past snogs in vanilla world.it doesn't mean I'm not bi when I have during swinging

3 that's more on a selfish level

4 not really its more bicurious and teasing, seen many times to show off teasing the men

5 if I wasn't attracted to some lady's no point calling myself bisexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. If a person is attracted to people of the same sex as well the opposite sex, but never engage in sexual activity with the same sex, are they bisexual?

If a person is attracted to someone of the opposite sex, but never engages in sexual activity, are they still straight?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Another question based on some conversations between me and Adam.

I (the female of this couple) am bisexual. I always thought it was a cut and dry thing. I am sexually attracted to both sexes and have acted on that attraction...so, therefore, I am bisexual.

We've been talking, do people classify it in other ways?

1. If a person is attracted to people of the same sex as well the opposite sex, but never engage in sexual activity with the same sex, are they bisexual?

2. If a person only actively plays with the same sex during swinging activities, but would not do so in their vanilla life, are they bisexual?

3. If a person is only on the receiving end of of play with the same gender, but does not reciprocate the play, are they bisexual?

4. If a person only kisses someone of the same sex, are they bisexual?

5. Does stating you are bisexual, even if you really don't have an attraction to both sexes make you bisexual?"

IMHO?

1. Maybe.

2. Maybe.

3. Maybe.

4. Maybe.

5. Maybe.

It's as cut and dried as that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they are not Bi-sexual because they haven't crossed the boundary and actually engaged in the act. IMO. they might be Bi-curious of course

1. If a person is attracted to people of the same sex as well the opposite sex, but never engage in sexual activity with the same sex, are they bisexual?

If a person is attracted to someone of the opposite sex, but never engages in sexual activity, are they still straight?"

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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"Another question based on some conversations between me and Adam.

I (the female of this couple) am bisexual. I always thought it was a cut and dry thing. I am sexually attracted to both sexes and have acted on that attraction...so, therefore, I am bisexual.

We've been talking, do people classify it in other ways?

1. If a person is attracted to people of the same sex as well the opposite sex, but never engage in sexual activity with the same sex, are they bisexual?

2. If a person only actively plays with the same sex during swinging activities, but would not do so in their vanilla life, are they bisexual?

3. If a person is only on the receiving end of of play with the same gender, but does not reciprocate the play, are they bisexual?

4. If a person only kisses someone of the same sex, are they bisexual?

5. Does stating you are bisexual, even if you really don't have an attraction to both sexes make you bisexual?"

I think the word you're looking for here could be; 'bi-curious' . They haven't acted upon any aforementioned feelings, yet.

Bisexual, means you're up and running, doesn't it?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

What 'makes' someone bisexual?

You might sa well ask what 'makes' someone gay or straight...

It just is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the word you're looking for here could be; 'bi-curious' . They haven't acted upon any aforementioned feelings, yet.

Bisexual, means you're up and running, doesn't it?

Not entirely sure it works like that! People can know they're gay or bi without having ever done something "sexual".

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By *ust Ms LovinWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

"On point 3. I call this bi-selfish."

No-selfish ooooeeerrr I can't stand bi selfish girls I looooovvveed to pleasure but I like to be pleasured also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the word you're looking for here could be; 'bi-curious' . They haven't acted upon any aforementioned feelings, yet.

Bisexual, means you're up and running, doesn't it?

Not entirely sure it works like that! People can know they're gay or bi without having ever done something "sexual". "

A 17 year old female virgin who's only attracted to boys is not 'straight-curious'.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I distinctly remember the moment when, personally, it fell in to place.

I knew I liked women and I knew I liked men but I'd never heard the term bisexual and it was all a bit confusing.

I was 16 or 17 and in WHSmiths of all places. There was magazine on the rack called Wallpaper - a glossy interiors thing.

On the cover was (some suitably plush) bedroom scene with a handsome young man staring at the camera and, on either side were sleeping a (fit) man and a woman.

I remember staring at this for what seemed like and age before thinking:

"That's it, that's what describes me."

A real light bulb moment.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"Another question based on some conversations between me and Adam.

I (the female of this couple) am bisexual. I always thought it was a cut and dry thing. I am sexually attracted to both sexes and have acted on that attraction...so, therefore, I am bisexual.

We've been talking, do people classify it in other ways?

1. If a person is attracted to people of the same sex as well the opposite sex, but never engage in sexual activity with the same sex, are they bisexual?

2. If a person only actively plays with the same sex during swinging activities, but would not do so in their vanilla life, are they bisexual?

3. If a person is only on the receiving end of of play with the same gender, but does not reciprocate the play, are they bisexual?

4. If a person only kisses someone of the same sex, are they bisexual?

5. Does stating you are bisexual, even if you really don't have an attraction to both sexes make you bisexual?"

I posed these questions to my fellow Fabbers in the chat room as I am straight (not sexually attracted to women at all), but have played with women as part of a group of men and women when at Chams. They called me bi-playful

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By *ust Ms LovinWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

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By *ust Ms LovinWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

"Another question based on some conversations between me and Adam.

I (the female of this couple) am bisexual. I always thought it was a cut and dry thing. I am sexually attracted to both sexes and have acted on that attraction...so, therefore, I am bisexual.

We've been talking, do people classify it in other ways?

1. If a person is attracted to people of the same sex as well the opposite sex, but never engage in sexual activity with the same sex, are they bisexual?

2. If a person only actively plays with the same sex during swinging activities, but would not do so in their vanilla life, are they bisexual?

3. If a person is only on the receiving end of of play with the same gender, but does not reciprocate the play, are they bisexual?

4. If a person only kisses someone of the same sex, are they bisexual?

5. Does stating you are bisexual, even if you really don't have an attraction to both sexes make you bisexual?

But always perves my cam in the chat room

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I distinctly remember the moment when, personally, it fell in to place.

I knew I liked women and I knew I liked men but I'd never heard the term bisexual and it was all a bit confusing.

I was 16 or 17 and in WHSmiths of all places. There was magazine on the rack called Wallpaper - a glossy interiors thing.

On the cover was (some suitably plush) bedroom scene with a handsome young man staring at the camera and, on either side were sleeping a (fit) man and a woman.

I remember staring at this for what seemed like and age before thinking:

"That's it, that's what describes me."

A real light bulb moment. "

Was the wallpaper Paisley?

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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I think the word you're looking for here could be; 'bi-curious' . They haven't acted upon any aforementioned feelings, yet.

Bisexual, means you're up and running, doesn't it?

Not entirely sure it works like that! People can know they're gay or bi without having ever done something "sexual".

A 17 year old female virgin who's only attracted to boys is not 'straight-curious'."

So, what do we think the term 'bi-curious actually means?

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

Another forum where I think bi playful is a good term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, what do we think the term 'bi-curious actually means? "

I think it means someone is in denial. Possibly a bit homophobic because they don't want to admit that they actually enjoy sex (or are attracted to) someone of the same sex. Most likely because many parts of society say it's a bad thing to be attracted to someone of the same sex.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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So, what do we think the term 'bi-curious actually means?

That's cleared things up, then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a huge fan of labels, but they do help find the people you're looking for. After that, discussion is needed.

And as French Bambi said, you've missed bi selfish off the list. There are more than enough of those.

I much prefer women to men so count myself as nearly queer and a hint of bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always thought that human sexuality is by its very nature fluid and it's the centuries of right wing propaganda have made us come up with these terms/labels in order to create social minorities.

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple
over a year ago

North Hampshire

You don't need a label to describe your sexuality. Just enjoy sex for what it is and go with flow either way. It doesn't need to be complicated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm try-sexual, try anything with anyone.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

My mother made me one!!

I am sure,if you bought the wool,she would make you one too...Ax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call myself straight. I have licked a pussy and enjoyed it, I don't have sexual thoughts towards women and I don't feel attracted to them. But,I have been offered a very hot woman in a 3 sum with a regular partner of mine and considered doing it. My attraction to women is miniscule compared to men and I wouldn't actively look for a woman. Sometimes I fancy licking a pussy but I never see one that turns me on. I may never touch another woman again in my life.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"On point 3. I call this bi-selfish."

Agreed

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport

Kind of get where you're coming from for me personally I'm not attracted to men but happy to occasionally play orally (both ways) because it's fun I wouldn't say I'm bisexual though I consider myself greedy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My mother made me one!!

I am sure,if you bought the wool,she would make you one too...Ax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok so do I class myself as bisexual? I'm attracted to women and have sex with women. But have no emotional connection or desire to have a relationship with a woman. It's just emotionless sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can be bi without ever having played surely? - just like being a virgin you can be sexual just never done it - anyway im bi-active - asa often as i can be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so do I class myself as bisexual? I'm attracted to women and have sex with women. But have no emotional connection or desire to have a relationship with a woman. It's just emotionless sex.

It's an odd one isn't it. I love men. I'm not attracted to women at all, in that I don't and never have lusted after other women but have my orientation as bi curious as I will play with another woman in a meet situation if the vibes right. I've never initiated anything with a woman.

Putting bi curious means I'm not obliged to do anything either way. It's the same for my OH. We very much go with the flow

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"Another question based on some conversations between me and Adam.

I (the female of this couple) am bisexual. I always thought it was a cut and dry thing. I am sexually attracted to both sexes and have acted on that attraction...so, therefore, I am bisexual.

We've been talking, do people classify it in other ways?

1. If a person is attracted to people of the same sex as well the opposite sex, but never engage in sexual activity with the same sex, are they bisexual?

2. If a person only actively plays with the same sex during swinging activities, but would not do so in their vanilla life, are they bisexual?

3. If a person is only on the receiving end of of play with the same gender, but does not reciprocate the play, are they bisexual?

4. If a person only kisses someone of the same sex, are they bisexual?

5. Does stating you are bisexual, even if you really don't have an attraction to both sexes make you bisexual?

But always perves my cam in the chat room

You always make me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. If a person is attracted to people of the same sex as well the opposite sex, but never engage in sexual activity with the same sex, are they bisexual?

If a person is attracted to someone of the opposite sex, but never engages in sexual activity, are they still straight?"

This was me for thirty years. I was still bi but I was unfulfilled and unhappy.

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By *lackgrapeMan
over a year ago

Purley

As long as you're having sex with both guys and girls then no doubt you are bi sexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as you're having sex with both guys and girls then no doubt you are bi sexual

Even if you don't look into their eyes or give oral/push back??? And declare "I'm straight, but.."?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Two wheels and pedals

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Another question based on some conversations between me and Adam.

I (the female of this couple) am bisexual. I always thought it was a cut and dry thing. I am sexually attracted to both sexes and have acted on that attraction...so, therefore, I am bisexual.

We've been talking, do people classify it in other ways?

1. If a person is attracted to people of the same sex as well the opposite sex, but never engage in sexual activity with the same sex, are they bisexual?

2. If a person only actively plays with the same sex during swinging activities, but would not do so in their vanilla life, are they bisexual?

3. If a person is only on the receiving end of of play with the same gender, but does not reciprocate the play, are they bisexual?

4. If a person only kisses someone of the same sex, are they bisexual?

5. Does stating you are bisexual, even if you really don't have an attraction to both sexes make you bisexual?"

1. Bi-curious

2. Bisexual

3. Bisexual

4. Bi-curious

5. Bisexual

Hope this clears things up for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I m bi sexual. I find both sexes attractive. Think I have phases when it's more men I like then another day its women. My dream is a bi couple for bi mmf

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By *oderndaylivesCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Look up the Kinsey scale for bisexuality I think it helps. "

I just did this test and got this result:

"The test failed to match you to a Kinsey Type profile. Either you answered some questions wrong, or you are a very unusual person."

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Look up the Kinsey scale for bisexuality I think it helps.

I just did this test and got this result:

"The test failed to match you to a Kinsey Type profile. Either you answered some questions wrong, or you are a very unusual person."

FAB!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look up the Kinsey scale for bisexuality I think it helps.

I just did this test and got this result:

"The test failed to match you to a Kinsey Type profile. Either you answered some questions wrong, or you are a very unusual person."

I got the same results. Expected from a study from before I was born

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By *oderndaylivesCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Aha, Miss Lovely, we cannot be defined! X

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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"Kind of get where you're coming from for me personally I'm not attracted to men but happy to occasionally play orally (both ways) because it's fun I wouldn't say I'm bisexual though I consider myself greedy."

I'm confused. So, you're 'not attracted to men' but will on occasion, happily suck another man's cock because it's fun?

But, you're not bisexual?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've described myself as bisexual. It doesn't properly describe my sexuality. I'm more just 'sexual'. When I choose to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it was the cock in my bum bum!

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport

I'm confused. So, you're 'not attracted to men' but will on occasion, happily suck another man's cock because it's fun?

But, you're not bisexual?

Me too that's my point, if being bisexual is reliant on attraction then I'm not bi but if it's more a case of actions then I suppose I am at least to a level (or should that be O level?)

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

"For me the term Bisexual implies that sex is involved with same gender."

Well I work with two girls .... both in separate relationships with girls .... and they say they are lesbian ...

I thought bi meant you have sex with men and women ....

Or am I barking up the wrong tree

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By *ust Ms LovinWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

"Another question based on some conversations between me and Adam.

I (the female of this couple) am bisexual. I always thought it was a cut and dry thing. I am sexually attracted to both sexes and have acted on that attraction...so, therefore, I am bisexual.

We've been talking, do people classify it in other ways?

1. If a person is attracted to people of the same sex as well the opposite sex, but never engage in sexual activity with the same sex, are they bisexual?

2. If a person only actively plays with the same sex during swinging activities, but would not do so in their vanilla life, are they bisexual?

3. If a person is only on the receiving end of of play with the same gender, but does not reciprocate the play, are they bisexual?

4. If a person only kisses someone of the same sex, are they bisexual?

5. Does stating you are bisexual, even if you really don't have an attraction to both sexes make you bisexual?

But always perves my cam in the chat room

You always make me smile

so don't like my tits but looooovvvvvvvveeeeeessssss me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Class myself as bi

Don't find same sex attractive

Don't like sensual with same sex

Don't kiss and iam only bottom

Only interested in same sex if iam in the sub role and being play forced

In my eyes I'm bi,

May not be on others eyes though, but i like my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i believe lots of people give themselves labels regarding their sexuality and sexual preferences. in my opinion as a female who went from initially been bi curious to taking the time to have full sexual relations with females. these experiences go from solo meets with fems to ffm to mmff. i define my self as bi sexual which i feel means i love both men and women . i love the sensuality of playing with a female. dont get hung up on labelling yourselves and enjoy the pleasures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think having sex with somebody defines your sexuality

for example most people will know their sexuality from a young age, I know many gay guys who say they knew from being a child they were gay, so even though they wasn't Sexually active they still knew their sexuality and I should imagine the same goes for heterosexual and bi sexual, you know what you are you don't need others to tell you

so to me what makes you bi sexual is how you feel inside not what acts you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think having sex with somebody defines your sexuality

so to me what makes you bi sexual is how you feel inside not what acts you do"

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Bottom line (so to speak):-

Whatever floats yr boat - don't be pigeonholed or beat yrself up too much.

Your life is half chance as much as choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im orally bi in the company of couples or a group, although I don't play with men on my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just class myself as a greedy bitch ...like best of both worlds but lust over women more than men but can't see myself in a relationship with a woman so defo Bi ...it's different being with a woman sexually!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all of your replies. I have no qualms about being bisexual. I've known I was from a very early age. We were just discussing (we may very well write a book about our experiences with swinging eventually) and the topic came up. We were just wondering how others classified it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look up the Kinsey scale for bisexuality I think it helps.

I just did this test and got this result:

"The test failed to match you to a Kinsey Type profile. Either you answered some questions wrong, or you are a very unusual person."

Brilliant. Love it when a theory loses explanatory power.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all of your replies. I have no qualms about being bisexual. I've known I was from a very early age. We were just discussing (we may very well write a book about our experiences with swinging eventually) and the topic came up. We were just wondering how others classified it."
go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, what do we think the term 'bi-curious actually means?

Thank god thats what It means, I was worried it may mean judgemental, up their own arse type insufferable self opinionated know it all...

I really do feel some people make these stupid comments just to annoy others. Simple facts are people describe their sexuality in the best way possible for them on this site given the choices they are given.

I will always believe bi playful should be an option on here and probably describes a fair amount of the bi curious people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look up the Kinsey scale for bisexuality I think it helps.

I just did this test and got this result:

"The test failed to match you to a Kinsey Type profile. Either you answered some questions wrong, or you are a very unusual person."

Brilliant. Love it when a theory loses explanatory power."

always knew i was unusual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On point 3. I call this bi-selfish."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On point 3. I call this bi-selfish."

Suppose if the partner wants equal both way play then it is selfish

If the partner is top only and doesn't want both way so happy to give but not receive then there is nothing selfish about it, that's called mutual

Everyone sees it differently the only problem is when one person try's to apply his view to others that they are not involved with.

*not in anyway a dig at you personally just my take on your response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just picked up on this one - I am bisexual because I actually enjoy a mans body sexually as much as I enjoy a women's body sexually, but preferably at same time - but Bi men can be categorised as "dirty old men in a mac lurking in public loos" brigade - how very false - we are just normal people who happen to enjoy male and female forms. Referencing this to a topic elsewhere I quote: A FF liaison is seen as erotic by majority of heterosexual people and degrading by a few - whereas a MM liaison is seen as degrading by the majority but erotic by a few - Jon ; steps off his soap box lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm try-sexual, try anything with anyone.

Good answer lol! I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Labels labels labels

If we all stopped putting labels on things ... would be a happier world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've never played tin roulette then? Cat food for tea isn't funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol what i feed pussy dosent come in a tin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love sex with females and males..my wife has tested her bi side in college.and says shes straight with no interest in furthering her bi side. I identify with liking a males body for the sex only..i am now exploring the whole cd side and who knows where it will lead. Labels confine us but humans are moving forward and realising pleasure is to be had in many ways.. i wonder if this conversation happened in roman times? Orgies galore.. did they just get on with it or it was the same age ol questions and labels ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, what do we think the term 'bi-curious actually means?

Thank god thats what It means, I was worried it may mean judgemental, up their own arse type insufferable self opinionated know it all...

I will always believe bi playful should be an option on here and probably describes a fair amount of the bi curious people on here.

I most definitely agree with some people using the forums as a way to "bully" for lack of a better word. Some people have nothing productive to add to a conversation, but want to feel big and tough sitting behind their computers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've never played tin roulette then? Cat food for tea isn't funny

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