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blocked because "wrong sex"?

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By *oresters1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Hythe, Hampshire

a couples profile says they are looking for all but single males,whythen,are we(a couple)who are in the parameters set by the first couple,blocked because we are the "wrong sex"?

they are looking for other couples but not single males

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

Maybe after reading your profile, they decided you weren't for them.

How do you know it's because it's the 'wrong sex?'.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Maybe they are looking for a certain age group.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a few do that - say they are looking for couples but all are blocked - think its because some like to do the looking themselves which stops lots of post

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

maybe you just dont appeal to them ...nothing to do with being the wrong sex ?

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Or maybe they're just taking a break.

Lots of possibilities, all speculation, does it matter?

Mr ddc

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By *oresters1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Hythe, Hampshire

it says on top og message page to them if you try messaging,like it does if someone locks you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said it's "wrong sex" not wrong gender.

Maybe you're doing it wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter?

Is starting a thread about it likely to have them unblock you?

And if it did,would you really want contact with them?

Counter block and move on.

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By *adysueandneroCouple
over a year ago

witney


"Does it really matter?

Is starting a thread about it likely to have them unblock you?

And if it did,would you really want contact with them?

Counter block and move on."

How do you counter block someone if they have blocked you?

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By *oresters1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Hythe, Hampshire


"Maybe they are looking for a certain age group."

18-99 not looking for single guys

looking for couples.

the only way they could block is by personally blocking the specific profile,then it would say you were blocked by them/you had blocked them or admin had suspended their account

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By *oresters1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Hythe, Hampshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it really matter?

Is starting a thread about it likely to have them unblock you?

And if it did,would you really want contact with them?

Counter block and move on.

How do you counter block someone if they have blocked you?"

Click on my account at top of the page,then click on block list,then simply type in their user name and press block.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Maybe they are looking for a certain age group.

18-99 not looking for single guys

looking for couples.

the only way they could block is by personally blocking the specific profile,then it would say you were blocked by them/you had blocked them or admin had suspended their account"

well if they have clicked stop mail from mf couples in their preferences.... you will only know that when that "message" has come up....

life's a bitch eh.......

which means they will be the ones doing the searching.....

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Does it really matter?

Is starting a thread about it likely to have them unblock you?

And if it did,would you really want contact with them?

Counter block and move on.

How do you counter block someone if they have blocked you?"

Type their username in your block list box

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

There could be a few reasons like the ones posted above. Some profiles seem to suggest something then have blocks...I don't think it is necessarily personal towards you.

It's a fair question though if you don't know

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Maybe they are looking for a certain age group.

18-99 not looking for single guys

looking for couples.

the only way they could block is by personally blocking the specific profile,then it would say you were blocked by them/you had blocked them or admin had suspended their account"

People can block more than one group of people at a time but (I believe) only one of the blocks show at a time i.e. single males in this instance

So it looks like they have blocked contact from single males and also couples so that is why you are getting that message

They may want to find suitable couples themselves instead of the couples contacting them first

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"it says on top og message page to them if you try messaging,like it does if someone locks you"

But did it still let you message them? There are some warnings that appear to remind people what the profile owners are not looking for so that you are jot offended if they don't reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it really matter?

Is starting a thread about it likely to have them unblock you?

And if it did,would you really want contact with them?

Counter block and move on.

How do you counter block someone if they have blocked you?"

Click on their profile and there is a small menu on the left, choose block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they're after mm couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares ? Does it really matter how others run their profiles. Don't like it or can't message, move on and find someone you can.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"a couples profile says they are looking for all but single males,whythen,are we(a couple)who are in the parameters set by the first couple,blocked because we are the "wrong sex"?

they are looking for other couples but not single males"

Maybe they have their message filters set to block couples so they can just search for and approach couples themselves

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