FabSwingers.com forum: recent photo

By *illy OP Couple
over a year ago

Coventry

We've arranged a meet but the other party seems reluctant to sent us a recent pic.the pics on profile are over 5yrs old. Would you still meet or would you call it off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have asked and they refuse then I wouldn't meet them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would arrange a social meet first then if there is no attraction I wouldn't go any further.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"We've arranged a meet but the other party seems reluctant to sent us a recent pic.the pics on profile are over 5yrs old. Would you still meet or would you call it off?"

Only you can decide what's right for you. If you have suspicions either listen to them or throw caution to the wind.

If you meet them you are not obligated to play, but your time may be too precious for you to risk that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't. But then I don't meet for socials and I have very limited time. As others have said it depends on your personal situation and whether you want you risk them being nothing like how you expect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds pretty suspect to me.

If you have kik on your phone and they have you could ask for a live pic taken there and then, or try Skype or camming somehow. Then it won't be a waste of your time and would be far less embarrassing than arranging a social meet, sloth from the goonies turns up and you have to tell him face to face that he's not for you......

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By *ack Genuine BullMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

I would recommend you message me instead!

I have up to date photos, good communication, and I am fairly local to you and can accommodate at my nice house!

message me any time, it would be great to meet you!

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport

I'm guessing you have sent recent face pics? If so then I'd be cautious about what they are hiding but if they are doing a bit of 'you show me yours, I'll show you mine' then I can see where they are coming from

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I wouldn't meet without seeing a recent photo.....we do play meets so we do all our getting to know people on here

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Wouldn't meet. Any iffy or negative vibes regardless of the stage of meeting and we'd cancel. Reluctant to send a recent pic and five year old profile pics are red flags for us.

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

I always go with my gut. If it doesn't feel right, it isn't. It's just sex at the end of the day, if you're feeling some bad vibes, pass them by xx

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By *illy OP Couple
over a year ago

Coventry

Thought as much. First thing we did was sent recent pics .looks like a night in then. Thanksfor your reply. Just makes you wonder why so reluctant to send a pic.

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By *urexIronBarMan
over a year ago

South Manchester

"Thought as much. First thing we did was sent recent pics .looks like a night in then. Thanksfor your reply. Just makes you wonder why so reluctant to send a pic. "

They probably couldn't be bothered to delete and upload newer pics. It already says a lot about how motivated they are in meeting, they ain't worth it

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"We've arranged a meet but the other party seems reluctant to sent us a recent pic.the pics on profile are over 5yrs old. Would you still meet or would you call it off?"

they may be one of those brad pitt type people who when in their 40's still look like the same as when they were in their 20's?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

If it's another couple then 'they' may not still be a couple. It can't be difficult to take a quick photo in this day and age, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn't meet. Any iffy or negative vibes regardless of the stage of meeting and we'd cancel. Reluctant to send a recent pic and five year old profile pics are red flags for us."

This. Life's too short to get pissed about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's another couple then 'they' may not still be a couple. It can't be difficult to take a quick photo in this day and age, surely?"

And this. Probably just the guy left on the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use your gut feeling . We've been 'caught' a couple of times in the past . In this digital age of cameras , phones etc no excuse for not having current pics iop .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Use your gut feeling . We've been 'caught' a couple of times in the past . In this digital age of cameras , phones etc no excuse for not having current pics iop . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've arranged a meet but the other party seems reluctant to sent us a recent pic.the pics on profile are over 5yrs old. Would you still meet or would you call it off?"

Give the ultimatem pic or no meet

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

To be honest my face pic is a few years old and if asked I wouldn't send a newer one because I still look like I did a few years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you have asked and they refuse then I wouldn't meet them ."

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

"Thought as much. First thing we did was sent recent pics .looks like a night in then. Thanksfor your reply. Just makes you wonder why so reluctant to send a pic. "

we find now that we carry on with the dream meet , but hold it somewhere if they don't turn up its now a bad night, and of course report them as a no show..connie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In today's age it is so easy to get a pic uploaded. To me it's easier to produce a pic than to meet someone lol xx

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"We've arranged a meet but the other party seems reluctant to sent us a recent pic.the pics on profile are over 5yrs old. Would you still meet or would you call it off?"

It's a preference, this forum is all for preferences when it suits the users but against preferences when it clashes with ones own preference.

If a person does not want to send a pic that is their choice. Move on if it means so much to you or meet them if it doesn't.

Don't try to read something into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've arranged a meet but the other party seems reluctant to sent us a recent pic.the pics on profile are over 5yrs old. Would you still meet or would you call it off?"

Go with your gut instinct

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

If someone can't be bothered to send uptodate pics,are they going to put much effort into meeting...

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By *illy OP Couple
over a year ago

Coventry

Thanks again guys. We didn't meet as we felt it's such an easy thing to do now. 2 clicks and it's sent.

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By *luffy_bunniesCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

"If you have asked and they refuse then I wouldn't meet them ."

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldnt meet them,i would be v suspicious as to why they wouldn't provide an up to date pic.Also people can change alot in 5 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All our pics taken within the last few weeks.

Asked someone for a recent pic as the one they had on show wasn't too clear and they had sunglasses on. The 'recent' pic they sent was them at a wedding which had a lot less grey hairs on it and must've have been a good 5-10 years old.

Don't see what people hope to achieve by hiding what they look like. You are what you are and put your real likeness up then there won't be any embarrassing face to face refusals/runners.

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

Out of curiosity, what reason did they give for not sending recent pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could offer to meet socially without any commitment to pleasure, see if they remain interested.

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