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By *lf and Elfette OP   Couple
over a year ago

Goole

Hi and thanks for reading, I have noticed recently that I am unable to maintain an erection for as long and also getting worn out quickly.

I don't have a problem getting an erection just keeping it long enough to fully satisfy my wife.

I am hoping that you good folks are going to say it just down to age as im 42 but am concerned it may be health related. I will of course be going to see my gp but wondered if anyone else has similar experience

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Could be a number of factors but Lots of treatments available now...talk openly/honestly with your gp or ask to see a therapist

Try a role play with yr partner,ask her to be Dr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi and thanks for reading, I have noticed recently that I am unable to maintain an erection for as long and also getting worn out quickly.

I don't have a problem getting an erection just keeping it long enough to fully satisfy my wife.

I am hoping that you good folks are going to say it just down to age as im 42 but am concerned it may be health related. I will of course be going to see my gp but wondered if anyone else has similar experience "

42's very young to be having this issue, so gp visit very much in order.

Good thing is though - it's very treatable 

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of reasons

Stress can be a factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See you gp. You're not alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes as we pass age 30 the erection will go down but saying that with a shag I last just 2min but when wanking can last 40 with a stiff one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friend of ours had a similar problem . Went and was very honest with his gp. He was also feeling very tired in general. Turned out he was type2 diabetic. Problem all sorted now and even gets viagra on perscription. And just to had he was only 35 at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes as we pass age 30 the erection will go down but saying that with a shag I last just 2min but when wanking can last 40 with a stiff one "

Thats 120 seconds of pure pleasure though right? Oh those lucky, lucky women

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Yes as we pass age 30 the erection will go down but saying that with a shag I last just 2min but when wanking can last 40 with a stiff one "

Wow, 2 whole minutes

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Could be happening for a few reasons. Try not to worry and go and see your GP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes as we pass age 30 the erection will go down but saying that with a shag I last just 2min but when wanking can last 40 with a stiff one

Thats 120 seconds of pure pleasure though right? Oh those lucky, lucky women "
Yes they are very lucky there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes as we pass age 30 the erection will go down but saying that with a shag I last just 2min but when wanking can last 40 with a stiff one

Wow, 2 whole minutes "
Yes its all about me getting the pleasure quick lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes as we pass age 30 the erection will go down but saying that with a shag I last just 2min but when wanking can last 40 with a stiff one

Thats 120 seconds of pure pleasure though right? Oh those lucky, lucky women Yes they are very lucky there lol "

Im proper jealous mate, you absolute stud!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes as we pass age 30 the erection will go down but saying that with a shag I last just 2min but when wanking can last 40 with a stiff one

Wow, 2 whole minutes Yes its all about me getting the pleasure quick lol."

In, out, shake it all about. See ya later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes as we pass age 30 the erection will go down but saying that with a shag I last just 2min but when wanking can last 40 with a stiff one

Wow, 2 whole minutes Yes its all about me getting the pleasure quick lol.

In, out, shake it all about. See ya later "
thats it, quick unzip unload and back in time for big brother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes as we pass age 30 the erection will go down but saying that with a shag I last just 2min but when wanking can last 40 with a stiff one

Thats 120 seconds of pure pleasure though right? Oh those lucky, lucky women Yes they are very lucky there lol

Im proper jealous mate, you absolute stud! "
Thanks pal. You should try it as well

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester


"Yes as we pass age 30 the erection will go down but saying that with a shag I last just 2min but when wanking can last 40 with a stiff one

Wow, 2 whole minutes Yes its all about me getting the pleasure quick lol.

In, out, shake it all about. See ya later "
And 7 hrs to get the jeans off lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoking can also affect your erection too.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Yes as we pass age 30 the erection will go down but saying that with a shag I last just 2min but when wanking can last 40 with a stiff one

Thats 120 seconds of pure pleasure though right? Oh those lucky, lucky women Yes they are very lucky there lol

Im proper jealous mate, you absolute stud! "

PMSFL

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I wouldn't worry about it too much. By all means go and see your GP but the reality is sometimes you're going to perform better than others. The real secret is, as long as you don't deflate to nothing, once you're in you'll be surprised what you can get away with.

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By *lf and Elfette OP   Couple
over a year ago

Goole

Thanks everyone been pmsl at the comical replies and feeling a tad better that I'm not the only one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes as we pass age 30 the erection will go down but saying that with a shag I last just 2min but when wanking can last 40 with a stiff one

Wow, 2 whole minutes Yes its all about me getting the pleasure quick lol.

In, out, shake it all about. See ya later And 7 hrs to get the jeans off lmao"

Dont mention those bloody jeans

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

Maybe the GP will get you to be tested for your testosterone level - I had this done and mine was so low it was almost off the chart. Currently I'm under the care of an endocronologist and using Testogel to get it back up to a decent level. Not sure if this applies to you but thought I'd share!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the GP will get you to be tested for your testosterone level - I had this done and mine was so low it was almost off the chart. Currently I'm under the care of an endocronologist and using Testogel to get it back up to a decent level. Not sure if this applies to you but thought I'd share!"

How are your levels on the gel? I find it can cause the levels to fluctuate quite erratically and much prefer injectable test. Interested to know how you find it? Did you get NHS funding or private (that last part may be too nosey of me and understand if you choose not to answer that)

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

My GP messed up the initial treatment as they only gave me 30 days supply and this made no difference. I'm 30 days into a 90 day treatment so have a while to go until I get my levels tested. I tried th injections but it made no difference which is why the consultant decided to try the gel. When I was initially referred I spoke to AXA and they deemed it to be a 'sexual problem ' and so didn't cover it but the GP responded to the consultant who is lovely and quite fiesty in pushing the treatment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My GP messed up the initial treatment as they only gave me 30 days supply and this made no difference. I'm 30 days into a 90 day treatment so have a while to go until I get my levels tested. I tried th injections but it made no difference which is why the consultant decided to try the gel. When I was initially referred I spoke to AXA and they deemed it to be a 'sexual problem ' and so didn't cover it but the GP responded to the consultant who is lovely and quite fiesty in pushing the treatment. "

Glad you got it sorted mate, I wasnt covered on my BUPA plan but theres ways and means of getting things

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"My GP messed up the initial treatment as they only gave me 30 days supply and this made no difference. I'm 30 days into a 90 day treatment so have a while to go until I get my levels tested. I tried th injections but it made no difference which is why the consultant decided to try the gel. When I was initially referred I spoke to AXA and they deemed it to be a 'sexual problem ' and so didn't cover it but the GP responded to the consultant who is lovely and quite fiesty in pushing the treatment.

Glad you got it sorted mate, I wasnt covered on my BUPA plan but theres ways and means of getting things "

You know what? On further thought I reckon you're just getting old mate. I'd just give up now and accept your fate. Once you get the doctors and medics involved they'll keep on prodding and testing you till you feel like a lab rat. You won't be a happy bunny then.

Take my advice, as long as you're hard enough to get in there she'll never notice unless you deflate so much you actually fall out. So don't worry yourself about it any more.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Hi and thanks for reading, I have noticed recently that I am unable to maintain an erection for as long and also getting worn out quickly.

I don't have a problem getting an erection just keeping it long enough to fully satisfy my wife.

I am hoping that you good folks are going to say it just down to age as im 42 but am concerned it may be health related. I will of course be going to see my gp but wondered if anyone else has similar experience "

As you get older those iron bar erections of your youth become less frequent. Certainly being a smoker doesn't help but an exercise bike will take care of stamina issues.

The big question though, is can you maintain a hard erection whilst having sex with someone other than your wife?

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By *tom69Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

Not fun having this problem has a knock on affect that wife thinks she's not attractive. Then the harder I try to get or keep hard the worse it gets. Been to docs hoping to change job as think work stress is a big factor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been using a penis vacuum pump for the last 2-3 years, if i use it before sex, my wife says its thick and spongy, but when i have a night off without it, my penis is rockhard for hours.

A couple of years i couldn't achieve an erection and i often used a sound to help me ejaculate, then i read of the penis pump, i'd pump it as hard as i could physically bare and using it to masturbate, then it started to work again

now i can achieve an erection, just some nights no matter how long she is under me, teasing me, squirming and wriggling poor sweetviolet cant get me to achieve an ejaculation.

Also A scientifically proven mix of impotence vitamins combined with the amino acid Arginine and pine bark extract has been shown to relieve 92% of erection problems in a clinical studies.

As stated L-arganine and L-orathine as these 2 amino acid are growth hormone precursors.

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