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younger man wanting an older woman on here, how?

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By *ilfhunter.toyboy OP   Man
over a year ago

darlington

I have done it in person but never managed to arrange a meet on here with an older woman, its a massive fantasy but no one seems interested so annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos the site is saturated with men lol.

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By *ilfhunter.toyboy OP   Man
over a year ago

darlington

Yeah but its driving me insane. These older women don't understand what young men are capable of. I just love the thought of an older woman whilst her husband is away etc. Risky and naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But your profile tells me nothing. Why would I meet you when other young guys sell themselves so much better

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By *ilfhunter.toyboy OP   Man
over a year ago

darlington

I just feel like people can put whatever they want on their profile. Until you speak you don't really know do you, but ill take the tip on board. Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you're just a silhouette with no meets and no profile to speak of. Older women on here tend to know what they want and you're missing the basics.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I meet my younger men at clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just feel like people can put whatever they want on their profile. Until you speak you don't really know do you, but ill take the tip on board. Thanks x"

They can indeed, but if two young guys message and one profile has no info, but one tells me about him and what he's into ill go for the second. It's quite tedious asking someone the basics only to find its not what I'm looking for in the end anyway, therefore i don't bother anymore, just look for people I know I'm interested in from the start

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By *ilfhunter.toyboy OP   Man
over a year ago

darlington

I'll take these on board, and I refuse to put a profile pic on here as I feel more comfortable sending private pics rather than broadcasting my face to everyone as I always get messages off gay men too. And as for meets, I haven't had any on here that's why I cant get any verifications lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you're just a silhouette with no meets and no profile to speak of. Older women on here tend to know what they want and you're missing the basics."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll take these on board, and I refuse to put a profile pic on here as I feel more comfortable sending private pics rather than broadcasting my face to everyone as I always get messages off gay men too. And as for meets, I haven't had any on here that's why I cant get any verifications lol."

Good luck then

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By *ilfhunter.toyboy OP   Man
over a year ago

darlington

I've done a little update for now. What do yous think lol. Getting better or no?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I meet my younger men at clubs. "

My response wasn't an invitation by the way.

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By *ilfhunter.toyboy OP   Man
over a year ago

darlington

I thought it said I meet younger not my younger. Apologies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not looking at it from their point of view,

Plus I think the fact that you can spell jzeee isn't necessarily the hook you expect it to be,

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By *ilfhunter.toyboy OP   Man
over a year ago

darlington

I asked for advice not to be absolutely grilled. If you're going to be about it don't reply. P.s jzee is NOT a word.??

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

You've not been grilled you've been given constructive criticism. You asked why no older women would give you the time of day you've been told why.

Your profile is non existent, your response on the thread has been immature - there are tens if not hundreds of younger guys whose profiles run rings around yours. They are the ones getting meets.

You forget that us older women will have fucked young men. We know what we're missing and often not much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh ok, sorry, its a tell me what I want to hear post,

Yeah being 6 years out of your teens you should be front of the queue, no need for effort on profile it will come to you, I mean your 24, its due, nay, its owed to you.

Keep doing what your doing fella, delete that text you put on, its not needed,

The idiots on here don't know what's good for them, I mean wanting to know about someone before meeting them, just no compromise,

Haha, wasn't having a go at you, was saying that being young isn't the only factor, it will help with some and won't with others,

You gotta show (not facepic unless YOU chose too) but some pics help, explain what you are looking for, showing any expectation will work against you, it just does.

I though a jzee was a cool thing the kids listened to, isn't it playing with a beponcee now,

Iam being told a kan yet east and Kim kardashiboobies are more relevant,

Haha happy hunting pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys always say "coz there's so many men" but that's not true. If every guy that messaged me was my type then i'd be meeting all the time! The reason guys can't get meets on here is because you can't be everyone's type. Some guys it's the way they look, some guys it's the way they act(on their profile or in messages). It's nothing to do wth the numbers and everything to do with the person.

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By *ilfhunter.toyboy OP   Man
over a year ago

darlington


"Guys always say "coz there's so many men" but that's not true. If every guy that messaged me was my type then i'd be meeting all the time! The reason guys can't get meets on here is because you can't be everyone's type. Some guys it's the way they look, some guys it's the way they act(on their profile or in messages). It's nothing to do wth the numbers and everything to do with the person."
????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are just doing the same as many others.

Coming on with expectations and a feeling of entitlement but putting no effort in.

.

It really isn't rocket science. Those of us who make an effort tend to be successful. Those who think it will come to them on a plate just because of their age/physique/colour/cock size etc. are simply deluded.

Look on others of the hundreds of threads on similar topics. They all basically give the same advice.

.

Effort in = results out. It really really is that simple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys always say "coz there's so many men" but that's not true. If every guy that messaged me was my type then i'd be meeting all the time! The reason guys can't get meets on here is because you can't be everyone's type. Some guys it's the way they look, some guys it's the way they act(on their profile or in messages). It's nothing to do wth the numbers and everything to do with the person.???? "

Where did i lose you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys always say "coz there's so many men" but that's not true. If every guy that messaged me was my type then i'd be meeting all the time! The reason guys can't get meets on here is because you can't be everyone's type. Some guys it's the way they look, some guys it's the way they act(on their profile or in messages). It's nothing to do wth the numbers and everything to do with the person."

To be fair....it's mainly our old mate shag who blames it all on numbers. The rest of us just get on with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys always say "coz there's so many men" but that's not true. If every guy that messaged me was my type then i'd be meeting all the time! The reason guys can't get meets on here is because you can't be everyone's type. Some guys it's the way they look, some guys it's the way they act(on their profile or in messages). It's nothing to do wth the numbers and everything to do with the person."
Try it on a male account and see then you understand why I am right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys always say "coz there's so many men" but that's not true. If every guy that messaged me was my type then i'd be meeting all the time! The reason guys can't get meets on here is because you can't be everyone's type. Some guys it's the way they look, some guys it's the way they act(on their profile or in messages). It's nothing to do wth the numbers and everything to do with the person.

To be fair....it's mainly our old mate shag who blames it all on numbers. The rest of us just get on with it!"
That's right as I know the numbers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys always say "coz there's so many men" but that's not true. If every guy that messaged me was my type then i'd be meeting all the time! The reason guys can't get meets on here is because you can't be everyone's type. Some guys it's the way they look, some guys it's the way they act(on their profile or in messages). It's nothing to do wth the numbers and everything to do with the person.

To be fair....it's mainly our old mate shag who blames it all on numbers. The rest of us just get on with it!"

Oh there's a lot of number blamers on here. It's just nonsense! I WISH every guy that messaged had read my profile and was my type but it just doesn't happen. But if wishes were horses...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have done it in person but never managed to arrange a meet on here with an older woman, its a massive fantasy but no one seems interested so annoying."

I agree, it's so hard on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys always say "coz there's so many men" but that's not true. If every guy that messaged me was my type then i'd be meeting all the time! The reason guys can't get meets on here is because you can't be everyone's type. Some guys it's the way they look, some guys it's the way they act(on their profile or in messages). It's nothing to do wth the numbers and everything to do with the person.Try it on a male account and see then you understand why I am right."

Shag i'm afraid you're wrong. I have a lot of male friends on here who do absolutely brilliantly because they red profiles before they message and tailor a message to the woman. Sorry dude but a lot of guys get a lot of meets on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Oh there's a lot of number blamers on here. It's just nonsense! I WISH every guy that messaged had read my profile and was my type but it just doesn't happen. But if wishes were horses... "

You will get no messages off me Susan....you are looking for younger guys than me...and you are piggin miles away! But your point is bang on.

I send out very few, but well targeted messages...and it works!

I only reply to messages from ladies and couples who do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys always say "coz there's so many men" but that's not true. If every guy that messaged me was my type then i'd be meeting all the time! The reason guys can't get meets on here is because you can't be everyone's type. Some guys it's the way they look, some guys it's the way they act(on their profile or in messages). It's nothing to do wth the numbers and everything to do with the person.Try it on a male account and see then you understand why I am right.

Shag i'm afraid you're wrong. I have a lot of male friends on here who do absolutely brilliantly because they red profiles before they message and tailor a message to the woman. Sorry dude but a lot of guys get a lot of meets on here!"
That's good and I know they do as well, but how many is local unless your prepared to travel for miles?.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"That's good and I know they do as well, but how many is local unless your prepared to travel for miles?."

Shag, one day you'll have to leave the sanctuary of your bush in Penge to get some variety. Its a pain to have to arrange travel etc but the results can pay dividends bonk-wise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's good and I know they do as well, but how many is local unless your prepared to travel for miles?.

Shag, one day you'll have to leave the sanctuary of your bush in Penge to get some variety. Its a pain to have to arrange travel etc but the results can pay dividends bonk-wise."
I know what you mean. I could of had load of meets if prepared to travel, need to go further the bush yes lol x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys always say "coz there's so many men" but that's not true. If every guy that messaged me was my type then i'd be meeting all the time! The reason guys can't get meets on here is because you can't be everyone's type. Some guys it's the way they look, some guys it's the way they act(on their profile or in messages). It's nothing to do wth the numbers and everything to do with the person.Try it on a male account and see then you understand why I am right.

Shag i'm afraid you're wrong. I have a lot of male friends on here who do absolutely brilliantly because they red profiles before they message and tailor a message to the woman. Sorry dude but a lot of guys get a lot of meets on here!That's good and I know they do as well, but how many is local unless your prepared to travel for miles?."

I have local and guys who travel. Most of my male friends travel to meets because they're worth it. Trains and buses are pretty good these days! Come on Shag! Take a wee trip to meet the next lady you like that comes along! You might be starting a "Guess who had a meet?" thread come Monday morning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys always say "coz there's so many men" but that's not true. If every guy that messaged me was my type then i'd be meeting all the time! The reason guys can't get meets on here is because you can't be everyone's type. Some guys it's the way they look, some guys it's the way they act(on their profile or in messages). It's nothing to do wth the numbers and everything to do with the person."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys always say "coz there's so many men" but that's not true. If every guy that messaged me was my type then i'd be meeting all the time! The reason guys can't get meets on here is because you can't be everyone's type. Some guys it's the way they look, some guys it's the way they act(on their profile or in messages). It's nothing to do wth the numbers and everything to do with the person.Try it on a male account and see then you understand why I am right.

Shag i'm afraid you're wrong. I have a lot of male friends on here who do absolutely brilliantly because they red profiles before they message and tailor a message to the woman. Sorry dude but a lot of guys get a lot of meets on here!That's good and I know they do as well, but how many is local unless your prepared to travel for miles?.

I have local and guys who travel. Most of my male friends travel to meets because they're worth it. Trains and buses are pretty good these days! Come on Shag! Take a wee trip to meet the next lady you like that comes along! You might be starting a "Guess who had a meet?" thread come Monday morning! "
YEs that's good and I know. I need to do some traveling for the next lady and so you all could guess who I could meet, good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Oh there's a lot of number blamers on here. It's just nonsense! I WISH every guy that messaged had read my profile and was my type but it just doesn't happen. But if wishes were horses...

You will get no messages off me Susan....you are looking for younger guys than me...and you are piggin miles away! But your point is bang on.

I send out very few, but well targeted messages...and it works!

I only reply to messages from ladies and couples who do the same."

Exactly! I can't tel you how many attractive guys i've had to turn down coz they start their message "wuu2" or "wanna fuk". A two minute read of my profile might have got them further than a block/delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys always say "coz there's so many men" but that's not true. If every guy that messaged me was my type then i'd be meeting all the time! The reason guys can't get meets on here is because you can't be everyone's type. Some guys it's the way they look, some guys it's the way they act(on their profile or in messages). It's nothing to do wth the numbers and everything to do with the person.Try it on a male account and see then you understand why I am right.

Shag i'm afraid you're wrong. I have a lot of male friends on here who do absolutely brilliantly because they red profiles before they message and tailor a message to the woman. Sorry dude but a lot of guys get a lot of meets on here!That's good and I know they do as well, but how many is local unless your prepared to travel for miles?.

I have local and guys who travel. Most of my male friends travel to meets because they're worth it. Trains and buses are pretty good these days! Come on Shag! Take a wee trip to meet the next lady you like that comes along! You might be starting a "Guess who had a meet?" thread come Monday morning! YEs that's good and I know. I need to do some traveling for the next lady and so you all could guess who I could meet, good one "

Yay Shag! Buy yourself an all week travel card and start messaging those ladies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys always say "coz there's so many men" but that's not true. If every guy that messaged me was my type then i'd be meeting all the time! The reason guys can't get meets on here is because you can't be everyone's type. Some guys it's the way they look, some guys it's the way they act(on their profile or in messages). It's nothing to do wth the numbers and everything to do with the person.Try it on a male account and see then you understand why I am right.

Shag i'm afraid you're wrong. I have a lot of male friends on here who do absolutely brilliantly because they red profiles before they message and tailor a message to the woman. Sorry dude but a lot of guys get a lot of meets on here!That's good and I know they do as well, but how many is local unless your prepared to travel for miles?.

I have local and guys who travel. Most of my male friends travel to meets because they're worth it. Trains and buses are pretty good these days! Come on Shag! Take a wee trip to meet the next lady you like that comes along! You might be starting a "Guess who had a meet?" thread come Monday morning! YEs that's good and I know. I need to do some traveling for the next lady and so you all could guess who I could meet, good one

Yay Shag! Buy yourself an all week travel card and start messaging those ladies!"
YEs will get a uk travel card starting from south and ending up in Scotland, a uk tour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So no more "Too many dicks on the dancefloor" excuses!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So no more "Too many dicks on the dancefloor" excuses! "

That would be stealing his best line tho.....

But to be fair Shag. I am sure Malvern is a smaller place than your local. I have met with at least half a dozen ladies and a few couples who are within a half decent walk from here.

It is very rare I would travel more than 20 miles either way..... And that would be to a club usually.

Get them to come and visit you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love yours ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So no more "Too many dicks on the dancefloor" excuses!

That would be stealing his best line tho.....

But to be fair Shag. I am sure Malvern is a smaller place than your local. I have met with at least half a dozen ladies and a few couples who are within a half decent walk from here.

It is very rare I would travel more than 20 miles either way..... And that would be to a club usually.

Get them to come and visit you!"
Nice one nobby and yes recon its a similar size place we are in and I will get them to come to me instead, good tip. That's a good distance you travel to and not far either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll take these on board, and I refuse to put a profile pic on here as I feel more comfortable sending private pics rather than broadcasting my face to everyone as I always get messages off gay men too. And as for meets, I haven't had any on here that's why I cant get any verifications lol."

You can set your face picture as private and even a torso is better than nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah but its driving me insane. These older women don't understand what young men are capable of. I just love the thought of an older woman whilst her husband is away etc. Risky and naughty "

Hmmmm I think you'll find they probably do understand. Believe it or not these "older" women were young once and may have shagged the odd younger guy in their day.

More than likely, they can expect to suck a nice hard cock and then get it half way in before it explodes. Good thing his youthful erection will soon bounce back and he'll go hammer and tongs on her until he comes again and is left feeling satisfied and pleased with himself. She will lie there hoping he leaves soon so she can finish herself with her favourite toy.

Ashamed to say it but it took me a few years before I passed the whole "my youthful cock is everything" stage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As of right now, your profile is an instant 'no thanks' no public pics at all. We've found that every time we've had to ask for pics it's never been worth it, so we just don't ask, saves the embarrassment of asking and then having to say no thanks.

You are what you are. At some point someone is going to know what you or your body looks like, no point trying to hide it. Be proud of who you are, someone will like you, but right now I guarantee you most will just fly straight past your profile without a second thought.

Maybe also write on your profile what you'd be looking for....are you open to an mmf? Or as you say here you prefer a 1on1 with a naughty wife? What are you willing to do?

All this helps whoever looks at your profile, and of course for you to get what you want out of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are just doing the same as many others.

Coming on with expectations and a feeling of entitlement but putting no effort in.

.

It really isn't rocket science. Those of us who make an effort tend to be successful. Those who think it will come to them on a plate just because of their age/physique/colour/cock size etc. are simply deluded.

Look on others of the hundreds of threads on similar topics. They all basically give the same advice.

.

Effort in = results out. It really really is that simple!"

Grrrrr please please please can we ban the effort in = results out bollocks

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By *urexIronBarMan
over a year ago

South Manchester


"Yeah but its driving me insane. These older women don't understand what young men are capable of. I just love the thought of an older woman whilst her husband is away etc. Risky and naughty "

Very true. I would love an older fuck buddy. I would be on booty call round the clock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos the site is saturated with men lol."

There is more men than women on here..fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just think it depends on the person go to a club do a bit of networking don't act like a twat and you will be fine even ugly blokes like me get meets lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos the site is saturated with men lol.

There is more men than women on here..fact"
That's right, fab is a womans world lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is Terrible, I get meets regular, I think its just down to being there type and a nice message clear pics attached works for me , x

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