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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can never think what to say! Whats tue best way tonstart a convo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am sending a first message I like to tell them a bit about ourselves, expand on our profile and I like to ask a question to - so that we can start a conversation.

When I am receiving a first message I am always impressed if the message refers to a photo/forum post/or item from our profile. I like the message to tell me something interesting about the person. I hate it when first message is one line and is text speak or badly spelt.

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By *P2903Couple
over a year ago

Rotherham

Read the person's profile. Write something that is polite, funny and that references the content of the profile to show that you have bothered to read it. Attach a face, full body and cock shot if you can (men only obviously).

Don't be rude or say "fancy a fuck" unless they've specifically stated or implied that that is an appropriate manner in which to start a conversation. Check your spelling, check it again.

Just like you shouldn't shop when hungry, don't message whilst you're wanking.

If you're contacting a couple, remember there are two people and address your message accordingly.

That's for starters. The rest is pretty much all customisation based on the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask what time the hubby goes to work lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find fancy two in the pink and one in the stink works for me!

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By *P2903Couple
over a year ago

Rotherham

And if the hubby reads it first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And if the hubby reads it first?"

If that's directed at me, I was joking! I'm not crass, I'm class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And if the hubby reads it first?"
Then say fancy a pint lol no but say u emailed wrong profile.

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