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"Do people seriously do that,why?!" To get to the female half of a couple. OP - simple plan. Meet as a couple rather than go for the MM scenario but insist they give you a BJ before anything else happens. Tends to sort the wheat from the chaff. A | |||
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"Do people seriously do that,why?! To get to the female half of a couple. OP - simple plan. Meet as a couple rather than go for the MM scenario but insist they give you a BJ before anything else happens. Tends to sort the wheat from the chaff. A" Where do sign up | |||
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"Do people seriously do that,why?! To get to the female half of a couple. OP - simple plan. Meet as a couple rather than go for the MM scenario but insist they give you a BJ before anything else happens. Tends to sort the wheat from the chaff. A" | |||
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"Do people seriously do that,why?!" Yes the guys that do that are just wasting everyone's time. | |||
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"Do people seriously do that,why?! To get to the female half of a couple. OP - simple plan. Meet as a couple rather than go for the MM scenario but insist they give you a BJ before anything else happens. Tends to sort the wheat from the chaff. A" but that sounds drastic measures to me just to get to the woman. What do they do when the guy makes a move on them with his 8" of bits and pieces! | |||
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"Do people seriously do that,why?!" Yes all the time ! | |||
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"Do people seriously do that,why?! To get to the female half of a couple. OP - simple plan. Meet as a couple rather than go for the MM scenario but insist they give you a BJ before anything else happens. Tends to sort the wheat from the chaff. A but that sounds drastic measures to me just to get to the woman. What do they do when the guy makes a move on them with his 8" of bits and pieces! " Personally I just enjoy it lol | |||
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"Do people seriously do that,why?! To get to the female half of a couple. OP - simple plan. Meet as a couple rather than go for the MM scenario but insist they give you a BJ before anything else happens. Tends to sort the wheat from the chaff. A but that sounds drastic measures to me just to get to the woman. What do they do when the guy makes a move on them with his 8" of bits and pieces! " Some people use drastic measures out of desperation. They're usually easy to spot via messages. They go on about wanting to try something for the first time, only feeling happy doing something with a woman there - and soon start steering the conversation into what they'd like to do with her. Guys that are experienced in playing bi with couples are also easy to spot. Usually via profile text, veris - and the simple fact they don't have 'straight' on their profiles! A | |||
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"Do people seriously do that,why?! To get to the female half of a couple. OP - simple plan. Meet as a couple rather than go for the MM scenario but insist they give you a BJ before anything else happens. Tends to sort the wheat from the chaff. A but that sounds drastic measures to me just to get to the woman. What do they do when the guy makes a move on them with his 8" of bits and pieces! Personally I just enjoy it lol" My kind of man! | |||
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"Do people seriously do that,why?! To get to the female half of a couple. OP - simple plan. Meet as a couple rather than go for the MM scenario but insist they give you a BJ before anything else happens. And mind lol Tends to sort the wheat from the chaff. A but that sounds drastic measures to me just to get to the woman. What do they do when the guy makes a move on them with his 8" of bits and pieces! Personally I just enjoy it lol My kind of man! " | |||
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"Makes a change ..its usually bi guys pretending to be straight! " Our thoughts exactly. The sheer number of people with 'straight' profiles asking for bi play... | |||
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"Hey we are a bi couple but have issues with lots if straight guys pretending to be bi - don't they realise they be caught out. Soon catch them out when you ask them to meet mm and ask them what they done!! " From my own experience I've found the best way is be upfront with folk. As someone who has used Adult Sites many years I've been lucky to meet and attend a lot of Socials, House Parties, Group Meets etc even as an out Gay man. It's opened my horizons (& theirs), I've been involved in a few Bi MFMs, played with both Ms, Fs & Cpls. In many instances the M&Fs have been Str8 but felt comfortable enough to encourage me to play with them & them to open their horizons & boundaries too. As I'm VERY selective & intensely private & discreet I've been blessed to develop great friendships with many on the sites & remained in contact with various folk I never expected friendships with. The fakes, liars & time wasters will continually fail, put off & make it harder for the genuine swingers but the genuine ones will always overcome & seek out true swingers (Str8, Bi or otherwise) & find out the true swingers on the sites. Besides, the genuine swingers can spot fakes & fibbers quite easily & in most cases ignore those that they suspect of being "at it". Don't let the fakers ruin the site. | |||
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"Makes a change ..its usually bi guys pretending to be straight! Our thoughts exactly. The sheer number of people with 'straight' profiles asking for bi play... " I don't even COUNT the number of Str8 guys profiles asking me to play or hook up with me & my gal friends on here. | |||
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"Do people seriously do that,why?! To get to the female half of a couple. OP - simple plan. Meet as a couple rather than go for the MM scenario but insist they give you a BJ before anything else happens. Tends to sort the wheat from the chaff. A but that sounds drastic measures to me just to get to the woman. What do they do when the guy makes a move on them with his 8" of bits and pieces! Personally I just enjoy it lol" | |||
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"I will play mm, but always prefer it if the fem is there. I like being Watched by her while I play with the male half of the couple. Nothing like seeing a woman touch herself while you fuck her hubby!" What ^^ he ^^ said | |||
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"Do people seriously do that,why?! To get to the female half of a couple. OP - simple plan. Meet as a couple rather than go for the MM scenario but insist they give you a BJ before anything else happens. Tends to sort the wheat from the chaff. A" not only fine by me but also prefer to start with the guy... | |||
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"I will play mm, but always prefer it if the fem is there. I like being Watched by her while I play with the male half of the couple. Nothing like seeing a woman touch herself while you fuck her hubby!" Wow. Don't you look so very different with the beard I love playing as my wife watches. Very horny. | |||
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"Hey we are a bi couple but have issues with lots if straight guys pretending to be bi - don't they realise they be caught out. Soon catch them out when you ask them to meet mm and ask them what they done!! " Wait so you're complaint about straight guys pretending to be bi when you're a couple expecting them to just meet the male half to prove they're bi? Hmmm | |||
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"Well the MM show first usually gets rid of the 'I'm bi honest now can i fuck her' guys In my experience the female in the mmf wants to see two guys having sex more than join in. And when she is ready she may join, no guarantees" Amen to that. | |||
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"Do people seriously do that,why?! To get to the female half of a couple. OP - simple plan. Meet as a couple rather than go for the MM scenario but insist they give you a BJ before anything else happens. Tends to sort the wheat from the chaff. A but that sounds drastic measures to me just to get to the woman. What do they do when the guy makes a move on them with his 8" of bits and pieces! Personally I just enjoy it lol My kind of man! " Oh mine too. Lol | |||
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"And there I was thinking when a bi couple seek a bi male they all play together" You mean like when a couple ask for a bi female and the man isn't just watching? | |||
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"And there I was thinking when a bi couple seek a bi male they all play together You mean like when a couple ask for a bi female and the man isn't just watching?" That's how I'd understand it, bi the way I see it means will play with both the couple, unless of course previously stated exactly what they want . | |||
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"Makes a change ..its usually bi guys pretending to be straight! Our thoughts exactly. The sheer number of people with 'straight' profiles asking for bi play... I don't even COUNT the number of Str8 guys profiles asking me to play or hook up with me & my gal friends on here. " There are couples on here and they don't want to meet bi guys. That's their choice. But more than once we've seen that they have a verification from a 'straight guy' who was messaging us about bi play. We just wish guys would be honest because if everyone was then probably ~30% of the guys on here would be at least bi curious. | |||
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"Well the MM show first usually gets rid of the 'I'm bi honest now can i fuck her' guys In my experience the female in the mmf wants to see two guys having sex more than join in. And when she is ready she may join, no guarantees" What's hilarious is if you said the two women would have to do a show first when a single female is meeting a couple we'd have lots of posts from women saying "I don't want to feel like I'm a performing seal" but apparently it's acceptable to make guys do it | |||
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"Well the MM show first usually gets rid of the 'I'm bi honest now can i fuck her' guys In my experience the female in the mmf wants to see two guys having sex more than join in. And when she is ready she may join, no guarantees What's hilarious is if you said the two women would have to do a show first when a single female is meeting a couple we'd have lots of posts from women saying "I don't want to feel like I'm a performing seal" but apparently it's acceptable to make guys do it" You miss the point... That is to send the guys who say they are bi just to get a meet (and trust me there are loads) off and running. | |||
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" What's hilarious is if you said the two women would have to do a show first when a single female is meeting a couple we'd have lots of posts from women saying "I don't want to feel like I'm a performing seal" but apparently it's acceptable to make guys do it" Good point. No-one on here should feel like they're here to "perform". Let's all just have fun. | |||
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"I don't get it at all... I'm bi and am happy playing with both make and female i don't know why guys pretend it's not something you can force " Tell That to the gay or bi guys that keep trying to temp me to the dark side lol | |||
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" Tell That to the gay or bi guys that keep trying to temp me to the dark side lol " Look, I am your father. Now whup out your lightsaber & lets wrestle. Nothing gay, just a couple of dudes ruling over the Fab Empire. Cum over to the Dark Side. It'll be fun. Mwuhahaha. | |||
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"Well the MM show first usually gets rid of the 'I'm bi honest now can i fuck her' guys In my experience the female in the mmf wants to see two guys having sex more than join in. And when she is ready she may join, no guarantees What's hilarious is if you said the two women would have to do a show first when a single female is meeting a couple we'd have lots of posts from women saying "I don't want to feel like I'm a performing seal" but apparently it's acceptable to make guys do it You miss the point... That is to send the guys who say they are bi just to get a meet (and trust me there are loads) off and running. " And any guy who doesn't want to be a performing seal too | |||
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"Hey we are a bi couple but have issues with lots if straight guys pretending to be bi - don't they realise they be caught out. Soon catch them out when you ask them to meet mm and ask them what they done!! " It is not just guys who do that. Some/most couples too pretend that the female half is bisexual. And the poor thing has to go through it as well most probably hating every moment of it | |||
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"There seems to be an equal number of bi guys pretending to be straight. " They're not bi guys pretending to be straight, they're bi guys who are too afraid to admit it. Therefore they honestly believe they're straight, but wouldn't mind trying to suck a dick or get involved during MMF fun. If everyone was open and comfortable with their sexuality life would be much more simple. | |||
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"What about a guy who is open to oral (both ways) with a guy but no sex ?" Straightish or more commonly known as, 'FabS straight' | |||
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"Hey we are a bi couple but have issues with lots if straight guys pretending to be bi - don't they realise they be caught out. Soon catch them out when you ask them to meet mm and ask them what they done!! If there bi doesn't that mean they meet mf couple if a mm couple asked then that's more being gay I'd have thought " | |||
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"Well the MM show first usually gets rid of the 'I'm bi honest now can i fuck her' guys In my experience the female in the mmf wants to see two guys having sex more than join in. And when she is ready she may join, no guarantees What's hilarious is if you said the two women would have to do a show first when a single female is meeting a couple we'd have lots of posts from women saying "I don't want to feel like I'm a performing seal" but apparently it's acceptable to make guys do it" Mr loves performing in front of as many people as possible, preferably with another guy. I don't. For us, that is the difference .... it is about what we both like to do and get off on. | |||
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"Do people seriously do that,why?! To get to the female half of a couple. OP - simple plan. Meet as a couple rather than go for the MM scenario but insist they give you a BJ before anything else happens. I'd happily do that but struggle to get meets Tends to sort the wheat from the chaff. A" | |||
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"What about a guy who is open to oral (both ways) with a guy but no sex ?" You are Bill Clinton AICMFP | |||
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"Maybe they don't want to meet just the male " I agree, a solo mm meet is a huge turn off for me | |||
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"Maybe they don't want to meet just the male " Or maybe they think 'oh here we go another guy pretending to be a couple' | |||
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"bi guys pretending to be straight / straight guy pretending to be bi Poor guys just can't win " you can if you don't pretend | |||
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"bi guys pretending to be straight / straight guy pretending to be bi Poor guys just can't win you can if you don't pretend " But that would just be to easy and ideal | |||
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"bi guys pretending to be straight / straight guy pretending to be bi Poor guys just can't win you can if you don't pretend But that would just be to easy and ideal" haha I might be ideal but easy ? Ive never been so insulted ! Thats a spanking offence right there ! | |||
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"We are a genuine verified bi couple. If I Chris was asked to meet the male for MM fun I would say no as we only play together Maybe u should suggest the guys putting on a show for the lady or ladies. " Same here, never play alone, all part of the fun, Wifey watching!!! | |||
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"Do people seriously do that,why?! To get to the female half of a couple. OP - simple plan. Meet as a couple rather than go for the MM scenario but insist they give you a BJ before anything else happens. Tends to sort the wheat from the chaff. A" To answer in general 90% bi curious are not curious at all but just want (f) side of a couple... It is nerving and annoying for couples and girls who want to meet real "bi" guys and then they get annoyed and naasty when you point out the "facts of life" | |||
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"I don't get it at all... I'm bi and am happy playing with both make and female i don't know why guys pretend it's not something you can force " | |||
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"bi guys pretending to be straight / straight guy pretending to be bi Poor guys just can't win " I was just thinking that | |||
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"Having verifications from both single men and single women should mean the guy is genuinely bi? X" That is what I thought to lol. | |||
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"Maybe they don't want to meet just the male " Get plenty fake bi couples aswell. Seen plenty where the Fem never seems to be available or have to meet the male for fun first. Some members must think folk are stupid. | |||
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"I'd be happy to play with just the gent first, as long that was mentioned before the meet so I knew what was happening. I think a lot of bi guys keep their profile as 'straight' as it tends to put single women off..." Yep but at the same time they're missing out on females who like participating and watching mm. I switched to bi curious as I'm just finding my feet at the moment (orally), but the thought of being watched or obstructed by a F is a huge turn on for me! | |||
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"Yeah definitely but few women mention they have a preference for watching guys together on their profiles so it can be difficult. " That's the problem though, too many men here try to have sex with anyone and anything rather than looking for what they really want and they do that by not being honest. Problem is it ends up being a let down for them and/or the people they're meeting. If more people were honest they'd have far better sex! | |||
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" I think a lot of bi guys keep their profile as 'straight' as it tends to put single women off..." Lying to all the single women who don't wish to meet with bi guys then? Who wants to meet with liars? | |||
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"lol there would appear to be a lot of bi guys who are only bi when there is a female present " nothing wrong with wanting the female present, as long as the guys suck, female watches etc..... I love to see the look on the females face as I suck a cock, not too many genuine people left around my part of the world though | |||
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