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By *otdahell OP   Man
over a year ago

Bolton

This site is like a catch 22!

You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!

I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!

Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club, meet people and get veris that way

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Go to a club, meet people and get veris that way "

Or a social.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I hope this site isn't like Catch-22 - everybody dies except for Orr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem here maybe it's your selection process if you have been let down a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site is like a catch 22!

You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!

I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!

Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing "
Socials are a good way to start for a bit of networking

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"This site is like a catch 22!

You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!

I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!

Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing "
maybe it's because you are attached, maybe it's because of your poor maths skills

If you've been let down review your own selection process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site is like a catch 22!

You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!

I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!

Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing "

You'd be surprised, I have been let down on numerous occasions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site is like a catch 22!

You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!

I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!

Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing "

Are the people letting you down verified?? There in lies the problem!

I was fortunate enough to get a verification early. I updated my status regularly blatantly asking for a verification and nothing more and one local lady responded. It was something along the lines of "anyone want to meet for coffee today, I need a verification, my shout". We met for nothing more than 20 minutes a coffee and a verification. We did end up keeping in touch mind you and it went further the second time we met.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

You can, of course, get verified on cam as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found it ha ha. Believe it or not the below actually worked and it didn't even cost me lunch!

"Anyone in Edinburgh want to meet for lunch? I want to be verified so my shout, nothing more required!"

I was at a club on Monday but unfortunately didn't get anyone to verify me. Didn't really feel like it was the right thing to drop into a conversation at the time. Have been messaging one of the woman I bumped into so may ask her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site is like a catch 22!

You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!

I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!

Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing "
h

Go on cam with admin or moderator, or a verified pic with your name, its a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go to a club just to get a veri. Go because it's something you are interested in doing. Socials are a good idea though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great film catch 22 really got to try to get your head round it

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"I hope this site isn't like Catch-22 - everybody dies except for Orr"

I couldn't get into that book because the main character was such a dick.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

That's bad logic. Everyone started with no verifications so therefore people meet people with no verifications.

When men can't get meets, they blame anything and everything they have no control over - age, height, lack of verifications, nose shape etc. It's an easy way out. Doesn't achieve anything though. Nothing positive anyway.

How about making sure your profile is top notch and what you say to people is good? That's how people get meets and verified if they don't go to clubs or socials.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

insanity is doing the same thing again and again, and expecting a different result...

so if you have been let down "again and again"..... isn't the common denominator you?????

so if the same thing is happening "again and again" then isn't it time to change what you are doing?

just a thought.............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site is like a catch 22!

You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!

I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!

Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing "
maybe cause you have a star shaped head ? # just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would stop moaning apart from the fact your cheating you have been on fab over a year without a meet.that says you aint going to be meeting anyone so no one will bother with you and just presume your a timewaster

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The statistics in your profile are excellent though. 110% kudos for that.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

There is no catch 22.

Every verified member started life on Fab the same way - unverified.

Every. Single. One.

Men. Women. TV/TS. And couples.

It's a cop out to claim there is and simply a means of deflecting the reason for a lack of a veri from something the profile owner can control.

A

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By *otdahell OP   Man
over a year ago

Bolton


"This site is like a catch 22!

You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!

I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!

Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing

I'll try that thank you

Are the people letting you down verified?? There in lies the problem!

I was fortunate enough to get a verification early. I updated my status regularly blatantly asking for a verification and nothing more and one local lady responded. It was something along the lines of "anyone want to meet for coffee today, I need a verification, my shout". We met for nothing more than 20 minutes a coffee and a verification. We did end up keeping in touch mind you and it went further the second time we met."

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By *otdahell OP   Man
over a year ago

Bolton


"This site is like a catch 22!

You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!

I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!

Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing h

I've verified my pic with admin

Go on cam with admin or moderator, or a verified pic with your name, its a start"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"insanity is doing the same thing again and again, and expecting a different result...

so if you have been let down "again and again"..... isn't the common denominator you?????

so if the same thing is happening "again and again" then isn't it time to change what you are doing?

just a thought............."

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"This site is like a catch 22!

You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!

I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!

Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing "
. Verifications can be completely meaningless . If you have a well written profile with good pictures you will get meets ..However if your profile just states that you are male and seeking sex you may struggle. As there are plenty of fish in the sea , your profile needs to be exceptional in order to be sekected. Is yours ?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site is like a catch 22!

You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!

I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!

Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing "

Wait first you can't get meets but then you say you've planned a few meets?

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"The statistics in your profile are excellent though. 110% kudos for that. "

Absolute corker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The statistics in your profile are excellent though. 110% kudos for that. "

Ha ha well spotted, I had to go back and read the profile again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The statistics in your profile are excellent though. 110% kudos for that. "

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The statistics in your profile are excellent though. 110% kudos for that.

haha "

Oh Dear !! Probably writing his profile in the toilet, so his wife doesnt see!

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