FabSwingers.com forum: new on the scene

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

new here and not sure the best way to prove im a genuine decent guy looking to find my first meet.

Have been advised to go to a club but a bit daunting for a new guy like myself.

Any suggestions?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a social evening at a swingers club, Chat to people there. Show an interest in getting to know people a little - nothing creepy about a little bit of general chit-chat but actually we are all at a club to share some kind of sexual experience. If not on that night then on another night so be prepared to chat about sex, preferences, experiences etc. Be open about what you like, what kind of experience you are seeking and don't be judgemental if other people talk about some preference that you are not personally into. It is okay to agree to differ! Same goes for chatting on fabs - finding out what works for other people, what makes them tick is a great way to learn about how to get the best out of swinging for you. M x

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I finally managed to work out what you were trying to say in the first line of your profile, it needs re-writing so that it's clear.

Also, the last line says "we will get back to you". Who is the "we"?

By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Try Atlantis Evolution in Burslem, Stoke-on-Trent on a Friday night, very friendly and welcoming !

Like a normal nightclub but swinging goes on mainly upstairs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks people for your replies, looks like the club nights is going to be the way forward.