FabSwingers.com forum: Couples - one looker, one munter

By *he horny kinksters OP Couple
over a year ago

North West

Quite how I ever managed to pull my other half all those years ago I'm still not entirely sure but I'm sure there must be quite a few other couples on here that fit this description.

We often chat to couples and once pics are exchanged have to face the "you're gorgeous but my missus says your fella is not her thing/has a face like a bag of snooker balls"

Do any others have this problem or am I the only shrek-like dude with a hot partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have only been told a couple of times which one of us is the disliked one after we have sent the face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to play as a couple and this was something we always found ! The ladies always looked hot and their partners not so hot ! That said, you have been together three years so you must have something

. Xx

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I often think this but it's not always the male half that doesn't apoeal, it's sometimes the female half instead. I can imagine a couple finding a couple is hard work as there are 4 people to please.. It's hard enough with just 2 singles x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tend to look at the fem first so if she appeals then look at the fella - find that when we go to the clubs that if i saw some people on profile we may have skipped past them but in the flesh theyre more than ok - how shallow are we as a human race eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often think this but it's not always the male half that doesn't apoeal, it's sometimes the female half instead. I can imagine a couple finding a couple is hard work as there are 4 people to please.. It's hard enough with just 2 singles x"

Agree with your last sentence whole heartedly !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the harder part is getting the hotlist onto friends list -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've found it with couples who have sent us pics, and it's mostly C that doesn't fancy the guy... as she says, us men aren't as picky!!

When meeting people I think either of us could be put off (or turned on) by personalities more than looks.

We also all have our "types", so a guy with muscles might be a turn on for one, but turn off for another. An un-attractive pussy kills it for me

As someone said, there's four people to please! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite how I ever managed to pull my other half all those years ago I'm still not entirely sure but I'm sure there must be quite a few other couples on here that fit this description.

We often chat to couples and once pics are exchanged have to face the "you're gorgeous but my missus says your fella is not her thing/has a face like a bag of snooker balls"

Do any others have this problem or am I the only shrek-like dude with a hot partner?"

Lol just the same here

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away

this

Use to play as a couple and found too many people allowed a single picture to decide whether or not a meet should take place. "You're not my type" was mentioned allot without even getting to the social side. Have been turned down by one said couple on here to be asked to play when in the club. Funny how things changed when you actually take the time to get to know the people rather then taking too much emphasis over a screen shot. Don't judge a book my it's cover; the camera is not always kind to us all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had this happen many times, always fall flat once folk see my hideous shrek like mug. Cheeky fuckers have even asked if they can just have the Mrs

Does it bother me? Does it fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used to have a work mate who was stunning but knew it - not a very nice woman inside at all - she used to date men she thought didnt look too good to make her look better and go out with girls she thought that of as well - horrid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get this all the time .. they look at fionas pictures and can't believe how lucky she is to have pulled a stud like me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never been told which of us was the unwanted party...but yes, please both halves of a couple is hard work! Marc and I have this problem when seeing people at clubs/on fab all the time.

It's also worth keeping in mind that the reasons people give for not wanting to meet are not always true and that blaming the women's preferences is sometimes the easiest way of declining a meet...even if it's for other reasons

-Courtney

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

"We've had this happen many times, always fall flat once folk see my hideous shrek like mug. Cheeky fuckers have even asked if they can just have the Mrs

Does it bother me? Does it fuck."
we get that all the time folk trying to get lily to meet alone of this profile ain't happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it's the guy

Sometimes it's the lass

Sometimes it's both

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Am I the only one who actually thinks Shrek looks quite cute?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've had this happen many times, always fall flat once folk see my hideous shrek like mug. Cheeky fuckers have even asked if they can just have the Mrs

Does it bother me? Does it fuck.we get that all the time folk trying to get lily to meet alone of this profile ain't happening "

Same.

We don't even give them a reply. It's quite obvious from our profile/versions that I've never met on my own.

We don't even kiss others so we're hardly going to meet them alone. We've had a couple of gay guys want to meet Marcus alone - I asked them if I could be there and domme them (I was joking - I know a gay guy would never take that from a woman), one replied that he's the MASTER AND WILL NEVER SUB!!!!!!

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've had this happen many times, always fall flat once folk see my hideous shrek like mug. Cheeky fuckers have even asked if they can just have the Mrs

Does it bother me? Does it fuck.we get that all the time folk trying to get lily to meet alone of this profile ain't happening

Same.

We don't even give them a reply. It's quite obvious from our profile/versions that I've never met on my own.

S x "

*veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were very lucky to have a meet last night with a really hot couple. The 4 of us were discussing this saying how amazed and lucky we were to find a couple that are equally good looking - like gold dust! X

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Yes there are far to many Beauty and the Beast couples out there. I'm sure many people have said that about us too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is our biggest problem. I Mrs am a fussy cow at times and I like to play with both the m and f so not only does Mr L have to be attracted to the lady and get on with the man, I have to fancy them both too and then it all be reciprocated by the other couple. Not an easy dynamic to find but when it works.... fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were very lucky to have a meet last night with a really hot couple. The 4 of us were discussing this saying how amazed and lucky we were to find a couple that are equally good looking - like gold dust! X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is our biggest problem. I Mrs am a fussy cow at times and I like to play with both the m and f so not only does Mr L have to be attracted to the lady and get on with the man, I have to fancy them both too and then it all be reciprocated by the other couple. Not an easy dynamic to find but when it works.... fantastic. "

Our fingers are crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our fingers are crossed

Fancy seeing you two here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes there are far to many Beauty and the Beast couples out there. I'm sure many people have said that about us too! "

And they're not looking for single males either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our fingers are crossed

Fancy seeing you two here

On a one hottie, one munter thread. It's made for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah we get it all the time,hence no pix of Mark lol,,if we want our meets to leave I just threaten to take the paper bag of his head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had it a couple of times re Bruce, but as we say, he won't be playing with the lady, so why be overly bothered. We have met couples where the pic really doesn't do one or the other justice, so don't always go by what we initially see. Looks can be deceiving and just because people may look "hot" doesn't mean that we click with them socially/mentally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite how I ever managed to pull my other half all those years ago I'm still not entirely sure but I'm sure there must be quite a few other couples on here that fit this description.

We often chat to couples and once pics are exchanged have to face the "you're gorgeous but my missus says your fella is not her thing/has a face like a bag of snooker balls"

Do any others have this problem or am I the only shrek-like dude with a hot partner?"

I hear ya. Definitely punching above my weight with Blondie. Constantly feel like the compromise others make to play with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only met 2 couples and only 1 from here. But if you think about it rationally it's twice as hard to find a couple you find attractive. I don't think couples should take it to heart. You guys have found someone you love to look at and be with so what does it matter what we think on here? You guys already won!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I thought single males had it hard on here, It must be a hard to find partners you both like, And you will probably find both sets of partners have to compromise at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I thought single males had it hard on here, It must be a hard to find partners you both like, And you will probably find both sets of partners have to compromise at some point "

I think that you do have to accept compromise when playing as a couple. Or you would rarely play. I am bad at writing people off from a first photo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I thought single males had it hard on here, It must be a hard to find partners you both like, And you will probably find both sets of partners have to compromise at some point "

This is it exactly.

Finding a couple where Mrs fancies both = hard

Finding a couple where we both fancy the woman= very hard

Finding a couple who both fancy Mrs N= really really hard

Finding a couple where the lady fancies us both = insanely hard

Putting all those attraction dynamics together and throw in the fact we all need to be sexually compatible and get on...= nigh on impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shrek is my ideal man.

Love

Princess Fiona x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been turned down for many reasons, one being that mrs tatts has short hair!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that whilst never nice to be told you are not what the others are looking its far better than actually meeting and finding out then.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I skipped the worries about being a couple, and just play as a single munter... problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was part of a couple I wouldn't take one for the team so to speak and I wouldn't expect her either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I thought single males had it hard on here, It must be a hard to find partners you both like, And you will probably find both sets of partners have to compromise at some point "

we wont compromise - nobody will take one for the team - the people we have played with have all suited well and played with more than once in a few cases - playing with others isnt the be all and end all - we always have each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I skipped the worries about being a couple, and just play as a single munter... problem solved

The very last thing you are is a munter, far from it...........

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I skipped the worries about being a couple, and just play as a single munter... problem solved

The very last thing you are is a munter, far from it...........

Aw shucks

And both the naughties are delightful and lovely... just too bloody far away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are an odd couple....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I skipped the worries about being a couple, and just play as a single munter... problem solved

The very last thing you are is a munter, far from it...........

Aw shucks

And both the naughties are delightful and lovely... just too bloody far away!

"
There will be a MAMOBA tour Pt 2 'the second coming'

The 1st tour was so enjoyable.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I skipped the worries about being a couple, and just play as a single munter... problem solved

The very last thing you are is a munter, far from it...........

Aw shucks

And both the naughties are delightful and lovely... just too bloody far away!

There will be a MAMOBA tour Pt 2 'the second coming'

The 1st tour was so enjoyable.

hahahaha, love the sound of a second coming

and third, fourth and fifth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I skipped the worries about being a couple, and just play as a single munter... problem solved

The very last thing you are is a munter, far from it...........

Aw shucks

And both the naughties are delightful and lovely... just too bloody far away!

There will be a MAMOBA tour Pt 2 'the second coming'

The 1st tour was so enjoyable.

hahahaha, love the sound of a second coming

and third, fourth and fifth.

That's a certainty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I think the 4way attraction thing does mean that couple to Cole fun requiresatience. And as for the original post - we have experienced a couple of rejections - some because my hubby looks a bit older in his pics than he does in real life - we are both 100% honest about our ages and about the need for couple to couple mutual attraction so we have accepted the rejections gracefully and moved on ?? ?? m x

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

I'm worried now, one meet I had she wore a blindfold ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is really hard to find attraction in all directions ... We have been in that position on another site where m did nothing at all for me when he arrived very awkward and I felt obliged not a nice feeling x JANE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is difficult

My problem is my play partner is a lot younger than me and that puts some people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is difficult

My problem is my play partner is a lot younger than me and that puts some people off "

I have couples account and my fb will have anything that's got a pulse, where me I'm very fussy. It's caused a couple of arguments between us. But surely I'm entitled to be fussy. I'm not going to "take one for the team" as he politely put it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is difficult

My problem is my play partner is a lot younger than me and that puts some people off

I've done that once and put me off swinging for a while .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is difficult

My problem is my play partner is a lot younger than me and that puts some people off

I've done that once and put me off swinging for a while .

It definitly would me. I will never ever do that not for him or no one

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By *inkylouiseWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Honesty is best and shouldent take affence not every one is for every one mrs has to put up with me lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I thought single males had it hard on here, It must be a hard to find partners you both like, And you will probably find both sets of partners have to compromise at some point "

When I read of couples complaining of being followed by a conger line of other couples, then I may feel it is tougher to be a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this seems to be an issue with lots of cples , finding fourway attraction is not as easy as we thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess I'm too soft lol. People travel and then partner likes woman a nightmare x

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Just glad it's only Mrs N that plays to be honest, takes me out of the equation almost.

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By *inkylouiseWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

If and when we want singles it's never a problem but when we want couples it's so hard it's defo not always the man that is the turn off since the majority of pics are of the woman (or is in our case ) I'd say it's the woman who doesn't meet standards we've had I'm too large short hair coloured hair tattoos all of which people see as a turn off yet meeting in person I get on with almost everyone it is unfortunately a shallow world we live in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite how I ever managed to pull my other half all those years ago I'm still not entirely sure but I'm sure there must be quite a few other couples on here that fit this description.

We often chat to couples and once pics are exchanged have to face the "you're gorgeous but my missus says your fella is not her thing/has a face like a bag of snooker balls"

Do any others have this problem or am I the only shrek-like dude with a hot partner?"

Well we have been swinging (i say we) for almost two years, jools has had a fair few cocks in hands, mouth, between boobies etc..

I have yet to even have a female place a hand on my knee let alone play.

So this tells answers the question.

Quazimofun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maibe then there isn't such a coincidence of why we don't see the mens pics in a couple profile? And always its the woman pics, maibe they hide hubby lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maibe then there isn't such a coincidence of why we don't see the mens pics in a couple profile? And always its the woman pics, maibe they hide hubby lol."

Exactly, it matters not a jot how many pic's of Myself we have.

We could have 20 male pic's and one of jools.

Yet we won't get any messages enquiring about Mr.

But dozens asking for jools, even from fems and couples.

Guess that's the nature of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only one who actually thinks Shrek looks quite cute?

No.

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Quite how I ever managed to pull my other half all those years ago I'm still not entirely sure but I'm sure there must be quite a few other couples on here that fit this description.

We often chat to couples and once pics are exchanged have to face the "you're gorgeous but my missus says your fella is not her thing/has a face like a bag of snooker balls"

Do any others have this problem or am I the only shrek-like dude with a hot partner?

Lol just the same here"

Ditto

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"Maibe then there isn't such a coincidence of why we don't see the mens pics in a couple profile? And always its the woman pics, maibe they hide hubby lol.

Exactly, it matters not a jot how many pic's of Myself we have.

We could have 20 male pic's and one of jools.

Yet we won't get any messages enquiring about Mr.

But dozens asking for jools, even from fems and couples.

Guess that's the nature of the site. "

I've turned down some really hot ladies for hiding pictures of their fellas. I would rather see both in advance because I like to play with both.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"And I thought single males had it hard on here, It must be a hard to find partners you both like, And you will probably find both sets of partners have to compromise at some point

I think that you do have to accept compromise when playing as a couple. Or you would rarely play. I am bad at writing people off from a first photo x

Ms "

We will compromise on quite a few things but not on meeting those that we both can't agree on.

We would rather not meet..

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"We will compromise on quite a few things but not on meeting those that we both can't agree on.

We would rather not meet.."

This for us too. No no one should expect their partner to "take one for the team". We only expect people to look "normal", as personality goes a long way. But everyone's idea of normal is different

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"If and when we want singles it's never a problem but when we want couples it's so hard it's defo not always the man that is the turn off since the majority of pics are of the woman (or is in our case ) I'd say it's the woman who doesn't meet standards we've had I'm too large short hair coloured hair tattoos all of which people see as a turn off yet meeting in person I get on with almost everyone it is unfortunately a shallow world we live in

You look fine to us. Then again we like tattoos, and hair colour/length are neither here nor there.

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By *rank_SimoneCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

We don't have that problem as we are both mingers lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm deffo the 'munter' in our relationship hence playing with more guys than couples . That said , 'Why have a beef burger when you've steak at home ' . I can be just as 'particular as well .

I/we both have a great sense of humour , depreciative most of time which helps living this sort of lifestyle ??

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Maibe then there isn't such a coincidence of why we don't see the mens pics in a couple profile? And always its the woman pics, maibe they hide hubby lol.

Exactly, it matters not a jot how many pic's of Myself we have.

We could have 20 male pic's and one of jools.

Yet we won't get any messages enquiring about Mr.

But dozens asking for jools, even from fems and couples.

Guess that's the nature of the site.

I've turned down some really hot ladies for hiding pictures of their fellas. I would rather see both in advance because I like to play with both."

If couples are finding that the second they swap pics of both halves of a couple that conversation ends..........

Why not put pics of both of you up? At least full body shots, not necessarily face pics.

You might find that you receive less messages - but that there are far fewer awkward moments where someone suddenly changes their minds!!

Just a thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite how I ever managed to pull my other half all those years ago I'm still not entirely sure but I'm sure there must be quite a few other couples on here that fit this description.

We often chat to couples and once pics are exchanged have to face the "you're gorgeous but my missus says your fella is not her thing/has a face like a bag of snooker balls"

Do any others have this problem or am I the only shrek-like dude with a hot partner?"

We have had this exact conversation before. Lots of messages and banter then it was we don't really fancy the male half can you meet alone. Needless to say blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs Sweet is definatly a lot hotter than me and she would definatly get more play if I wasn't involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was part of a couple I wouldn't take one for the team so to speak and I wouldn't expect her either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was part of a couple I wouldn't take one for the team so to speak and I wouldn't expect her either

I would never expect either of us to 'take one for the team' but we tend to look beyond the surface anyway, so inner beauty is just as, if not more, important to us.

We have been lucky to Fi do couples similar to us, but perhaps not as many as we would like.

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By *nnaandchrisCouple
over a year ago

loughton

It happens, according to one couple we meet this description. Oh well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maibe then there isn't such a coincidence of why we don't see the mens pics in a couple profile? And always its the woman pics, maibe they hide hubby lol.

Exactly, it matters not a jot how many pic's of Myself we have.

We could have 20 male pic's and one of jools.

Yet we won't get any messages enquiring about Mr.

But dozens asking for jools, even from fems and couples.

Guess that's the nature of the site.

I've turned down some really hot ladies for hiding pictures of their fellas. I would rather see both in advance because I like to play with both.

If couples are finding that the second they swap pics of both halves of a couple that conversation ends..........

Why not put pics of both of you up? At least full body shots, not necessarily face pics.

You might find that you receive less messages - but that there are far fewer awkward moments where someone suddenly changes their minds!!

Just a thought!

we agree, we both have a full body shots so you can see exactly what we look like apart from faces , but some profiles only show boobs thighs pussy shots all nice but doesn't give you much idea of what body type you have, so obviously when you eventually see the whole person there is often disappointment, post better pics of both partys would be a good thing and save some embaraseing moments

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By *UN TIME COUPLECouple
over a year ago

redditch

Our problem is the wife is very picky who she likes she prefers curvy big breasted women as that's what she's like herself. she can't put full body photos on as got tattoos an shes already been regonised in the past as it stands there are going to be couples who like the female an not the guy an some the other way round we've had ourselves been told I'm not what they want but the wife's hot an also had ones say I'm fine but the wife's not lol its all each to there own you have to be atracted to the people you want to meet as there's no point just going round fuckin any old tom dick or harry can't please everyone x

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Just found this , I thought the site was for swingers and having fun . We have had a few like that and while we are not so bothered it does show just how shallow some folk can be .But on the other hand why do couples have pictures from 5 years ago . Would that not set alarm bells ringing ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was part of a couple I wouldn't take one for the team so to speak and I wouldn't expect her either

I would never expect either of us to 'take one for the team' but we tend to look beyond the surface anyway, so inner beauty is just as, if not more, important to us.

We have been lucky to Fi do couples similar to us, but perhaps not as many as we would like. "

Your lucky were still trying to meet some nice ppl had a couple of good socials but have just been told we should take one for the team so we can play with a couple ?

Like ! No !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly this! This is mostly why we stopped seeing couples. It's so hard to have 4 people together and for them all to find the others attractive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it frustrating that so many couples profiles have dozens of pics of the female but maybe only 1 pic if any of the male half.

Makes it so much harder to find a couple where there is mutual attraction all around.

We do appreciate that some couples may feel that one half is hotter than the other but would it not be better if you at least had an idea without having to exchange a load of messages to then find out the one half really isn't your type.

We are in no way saying we are hot but would make life so much easier if we at least had an idea of what both of the couple look like at least in terms of body shape.

-C-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I THINK ALL OF US CPLS EXPERIENCE THIS..WE HAVE FACE AND BODY PIX OF BOTH OF US ON OUR PROFILE AS IT WINDS US BOTH UP HOW CPLS DONT PUT UP PIX OF BOTH

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

We have This Problem.. !!!

That's why we only have one pic of hubby as he really is quite ugly..

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

Not sure if we've been just lucky, but we've never been told that one of us is a looker and the other a munter

Maybe that's because we are both munters

And the handful of couples that we have played with we have both found the couple pleasant on the old eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had that problem. Maybe some are too polite to tell us lol. Always had nice feedback but even if we didn't it wouldn't bother us. You can't please everyone.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

"yeah we get it all the time,hence no pix of Mark lol,,if we want our meets to leave I just threaten to take the paper bag of his head

PAPER?!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't this just symptomatic of this site, sex and swinging generally?

Women are, on the whole, more sexually desirable / attractive than men.

An 'average' female can go out intending to get laid on any given night and the chances are that she will get lucky. An 'average' man on the same mission won't be so successful most of the time.

It's the same in couples - most couples would say the female is the most attractive of the two. Because ladies ARE, on average, better looking than men. So it doesn't surprise me that most people say the blocker is the male half - most men will shag most women. But most women won't shag most men. Just the way it is, c'est la vie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have This Problem.. !!!

That's why we only have one pic of hubby as he really is quite ugly..

"
. He's a very lucky guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes it's the guy

Sometimes it's the lass

Sometimes it's both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our eyes people who meet only on looks aren't worth meeting anyway.

Could be best looking couple in the world and still be twats.

Hate people who walk round like the world should bow at there feet.

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