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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a short question really but do you and your partner find it easy to meet the people you'd like to here or is it just a "numbers" game.

We have resisted the posting of body parts mainly as I am a photographer and find that what someone's cock or pussy look like doesn't reflect them whereas a good pic of either or both just may.

We had the parts pics fab'd liberally by friends but little interest in pictures of us!

How do others go about selecting or showing up to the sort of people you would like to play with, bearing in mind the only judgement you can use is the picture of either or both and whether or not the profile is easy to read.

Sorry if this is long winded but we had been together now for a few years and have individually been swingers for a while longer.

Thanks for reading and any response.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry if that was too complicated

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

hi we just send a face photo with a little coved body, if we are looking for a bit of BDSM then some of them,,tooo.

connie x

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Its a sex site... People will fab body part pics over face ones. I dont consider that to be a numbers game.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

truly, I'm utterly confused.

I always think that the pictures you post reflect you as a person or people and give an indication of who you're interested in meeting. So on reading your post I didn't expect to see those pictures. Absolutely no issue with you posting them but I've either misunderstood the intent of your post or I'm being daft this morning.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I have just looked at your pics and most of them are body parts? Given the phrasing of your post I expected to see face or whole body pics.......I don't understand what this thread is about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"truly, I'm utterly confused.

I always think that the pictures you post reflect you as a person or people and give an indication of who you're interested in meeting. So on reading your post I didn't expect to see those pictures. Absolutely no issue with you posting them but I've either misunderstood the intent of your post or I'm being daft this morning."

This. OP, your profile pics are almost exclusively body parts.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I'm also rather confused!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And here . There is nor but body parts.....

if it reflects the people it would imply the opposite of what the OP says in the post.... or maybe just a sneaky "look at me" post?

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover


"And here . There is nor but body parts.....

if it reflects the people it would imply the opposite of what the OP says in the post.... or maybe just a sneaky "look at me" post?"

look at me post, maybe so we all this site for different ends..connie x

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

The most confusing....or cleverly disguised....LAM post I have seen for a while.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"The most confusing....or cleverly disguised....LAM post I have seen for a while. "

It will only work if someone fabs them...I was so confused I didn't fab anything

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I see your resisting the posting of body parts has gone as well as my resisting raiding the biscuit tin..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And here . There is nor but body parts.....

if it reflects the people it would imply the opposite of what the OP says in the post.... or maybe just a sneaky "look at me" post?

look at me post, maybe so we all this site for different ends..connie x"

The Fabs website is a community with rules and conventions. When we joined we looked at other peoples pics and took notice of what we thought looked sexy. Then we had a go ourselves - not an easy task when neither of us are used to taking intimate photos! We took loafs and only ended up with a few useable ones.

Photos don't express your personality very much- they mainly just show people your body - in my opinion a few messages, a few phone calls and a social meet give me the best idea of whether I am going to be interested in taking things further. The photo gets me initially curious. We have had one experience where we played at a club with a couple who we had never seen, messaged or spoke to before that evening. Going from total stranger to into!ate play within 30 minutes was very sexy - but on reflection we like a more steady build up over a couple of weeks.....and yes we have to put a fair bit of effort in when it comes to browsing, messaging, text, phone then social meet ...but this results in an exciting meet once every 3-4weeks or so and no no-shows - so we are happy! Definitely not a numbers game for us.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"Just a short question really but do you and your partner find it easy to meet the people you'd like to here or is it just a "numbers" game.

We have resisted the posting of body parts mainly as I am a photographer and find that what someone's cock or pussy look like doesn't reflect them whereas a good pic of either or both just may.

We had the parts pics fab'd liberally by friends but little interest in pictures of us!

How do others go about selecting or showing up to the sort of people you would like to play with, bearing in mind the only judgement you can use is the picture of either or both and whether or not the profile is easy to read.

Sorry if this is long winded but we had been together now for a few years and have individually been swingers for a while longer.

Thanks for reading and any response.

"

Wow...that's what you call a 'short' question??!! Would hate to see a long one!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"truly, I'm utterly confused.

I always think that the pictures you post reflect you as a person or people and give an indication of who you're interested in meeting. So on reading your post I didn't expect to see those pictures. Absolutely no issue with you posting them but I've either misunderstood the intent of your post or I'm being daft this morning."

Not being daft it was a late night and what was a "short" question was long.....to answer others questions it wasn't meant to be LAM post but a discussion....we took our arty pro photo pics off public and versus my usual hatred of body part pics we did some and put them up! The nice face and naked shots are in private and the public ones have been looked at by lots of people

Thanks all for commenting we are looking for discussion not sneakily asking people to look at us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put me in the "confused by the post" area please.

As an afterthought is it not against Fab guidelines to watermark your own photos?

Not that I'm fussed. Don't know why I said it really. I'm just having a day of brain melt today.....

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