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2nd time round and still nothing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now either I'm just hideous or my approach is all wrong.

I can accommodate. I can travel.

I'm courteous, I'm not pushy.

I must be gay the amount of men offering me. Or it says is on my profile somewhere.

The joys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos the site is saturated with men, the queue so far is yearsssssssssssss lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cos the site is saturated with men, the queue so far is yearsssssssssssss lol."

Oh don't I know it shag. Been here before and met a lovely lady but now she has gone.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Might be the three cock pictures?....the comparison to household products ones are generally slated too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that you are asking for advice, but I would recommend better pics. They don't really give a good idea of what your body looks like at the moment. But feel free to ignore this as I'm not sure if you are asking for advice or if you are just letting off steam?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile wouldn't entice me but that's just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos the site is saturated with men, the queue so far is yearsssssssssssss lol.

Oh don't I know it shag. Been here before and met a lovely lady but now she has gone.

"
That's nice you met one and I know, you will meet one soon again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be the three cock pictures?....the comparison to household products ones are generally slated too."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Might be the three cock pictures?....the comparison to household products ones are generally slated too."

Could be that but I always send a face pic with a first message too. So it's not exactly cock cock cock. I jiggled my profile round too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not that you are asking for advice, but I would recommend better pics. They don't really give a good idea of what your body looks like at the moment. But feel free to ignore this as I'm not sure if you are asking for advice or if you are just letting off steam?

A bit of both I guess. I know how it works. I'm probably at the bottom of a long list. And yes that is me now. I don't pretend to be a Greek god.

-Courtney"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This question seems to be reocurring on a daily basis, --boring -- boring !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This question seems to be reocurring on a daily basis, --boring -- boring !! "

Was no question more a statement.

I know this site is over run by us guys and trust me if I was getting my inbox filled with 1 liners from people who have clearly not read my profile I'd have the same attitude I'm sure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess this part of the country isn't as randy as some of you northerners!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that you are asking for advice, but I would recommend better pics. They don't really give a good idea of what your body looks like at the moment. But feel free to ignore this as I'm not sure if you are asking for advice or if you are just letting off steam?

A bit of both I guess. I know how it works. I'm probably at the bottom of a long list. And yes that is me now. I don't pretend to be a Greek god.

-Courtney"

Sorry, but I didn't mean you had to look like a Greek God...I just meant that the pictures you have up don't show your body much... As someone else said, they seem to be more focused on your dick. You may have more luck with better pics, regardless of what your body looks like. I don't really understand what part of my original post made it seem like I was saying you needed the body of a Greek God...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

great profile

great photos

many more should do what your doing, to not get meets

read the advice of other threads,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess this part of the country isn't as randy as some of you northerners!"

There wasn't any part of it that said that. I'm just me and don't pretend to anyone else. Il take a few more and get some up I guess try and get the juices flowing again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you might be right, and our greyhounds are faster and our ferrets are bigger and our pies are tastier !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you might be right, and our greyhounds are faster and our ferrets are bigger and our pies are tastier !!! "

Second that. Meat and potato pie to die for up north

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or maybe the 2nd time round is like the 1st time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"or maybe the 2nd time round is like the 1st time

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Maybe. I've had a few meets with one lady which is more than some. Well lots. I guess I just want more need to find a regular fb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now either I'm just hideous or my approach is all wrong.

I can accommodate. I can travel.

I'm courteous, I'm not pushy.

I must be gay the amount of men offering me. Or it says is on my profile somewhere.

The joys. "

Personal opinion - the bit in your profile where is ays "I have been told I am" turns me off - I am interested in what you think about yourself not what some people who I don't know have said they think about you. Also party hard and faster doesn't appeal to me - that is a phrase I just wouldn't associate with the kind of pleasure i am looking for as I am looking for more intamacy with 2-3 other people not a wild gangbang - but there again your profile might attract a party animal and that might be what you are looking for? good luck anyway, hope you find what you seek

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By *ovelybumCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells


"Now either I'm just hideous "

You might not be, but your cock looks hideous next to that shaving cream thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now either I'm just hideous

You might not be, but your cock looks hideous next to that shaving cream thing "

Noted and gone thankyou

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if these threads work... I read about 3 per day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now either I'm just hideous or my approach is all wrong.

I can accommodate. I can travel.

I'm courteous, I'm not pushy.

I must be gay the amount of men offering me. Or it says is on my profile somewhere.

The joys.

Personal opinion - the bit in your profile where is ays "I have been told I am" turns me off - I am interested in what you think about yourself not what some people who I don't know have said they think about you. Also party hard and faster doesn't appeal to me - that is a phrase I just wouldn't associate with the kind of pleasure i am looking for as I am looking for more intamacy with 2-3 other people not a wild gangbang - but there again your profile might attract a party animal and that might be what you are looking for? good luck anyway, hope you find what you seek "

Thank you for your comment I can certainly see what you mean now it's been said!

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

I don't mean to nit pick I'm genuinely curious so bear with me.

You say second time around and still nothing.

Then you say you had a meet with a lady before but she's off the site now.

Then that turns into many meets with a lady.

So, if that's anything to go by you see how that inconsistency would look within messages exchanged etc?

I think you need to put a bit more thought into what you write, I'm not calling you a liar just saying the old effort in = reward out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just an observation and not a criticism.

1. Some of us girls hate the term FB, regular lover, play mate - other words are acceptable too.

2. Your pics are not the best - no more spray cans - us ladies know what a cock looks like!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Now either I'm just hideous or my approach is all wrong.

I can accommodate. I can travel.

I'm courteous, I'm not pushy.

I must be gay the amount of men offering me. Or it says is on my profile somewhere.

The joys. "

Not read your profile fella there are loads of threads offering generic profile advice. I'd have a read of those.

If you dont want men messaging you.. Block them use your filters,

As for the other bits I dont know enough to comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now either I'm just hideous or my approach is all wrong.

I can accommodate. I can travel.

I'm courteous, I'm not pushy.

I must be gay the amount of men offering me. Or it says is on my profile somewhere.

The joys. "

Ok few things

First that username, lose it.

Second you have two absolutely terrible pics, lose them and take some new ones.

(Top types for women are the bum, torso and face.)

Thirdly the text is just pointless it's a fair amount of words but it says absolutely nothing it's all just clichés and platitudes.

what boundaries are you looking to push, hers, yours?

Write something of genuine substance and then try and write yourself a message.

read your profile and try and write to it from a woman's perspective.

The easier you can make it for some to write a message to you the more that will.

add some little funny lines or jokes about things you like or dislike that can be used as ice breakers etc.

Don't try to appeal to everyone cause you just end up appealing to noone.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Cos the site is saturated with men, the queue so far is yearsssssssssssss lol."

I know that this is a common response to a common question, but I don't really understand it. It's not like a ticket for the cheese counter, or a housing list, or a queue of some kind that you will eventually get to the front of the queue/top of the list. If you don't change anything, why would you think anything else would change?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos the site is saturated with men, the queue so far is yearsssssssssssss lol.

I know that this is a common response to a common question, but I don't really understand it. It's not like a ticket for the cheese counter, or a housing list, or a queue of some kind that you will eventually get to the front of the queue/top of the list. If you don't change anything, why would you think anything else would change?"

this is all the answers, i dont think it helps people who generally are looking for advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you are on a panel mate - you will just have to wait your turn

being helpfull though, just be patient, talk to people with respect and get to coffee meets, socials, meet and greets and you will get going.

just dont be moaning (like you are now), its not a good look!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you might be right, and our greyhounds are faster and our ferrets are bigger and our pies are tastier !!! "
with gravy

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

I didn't see your profile before its refurbishment, but on the face of it, it's ok. Just needs a bit of spicing up to stand from the crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I wanted a man for my wife to play with I would rather him be as a couple due to the fact soo many single men dont know how to behave. Im not tarnishing everyone with the same brush, but to me swinging is with other couples / maybe just the man with the lady present, not single men with single women

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