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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Unicorns, single fems, do you exist???

We have met a single fem with another couple before and had a great time.

Seems they are out there but hard to pin down for a meet. So many sexy single fems on here would just like to meet one in the flesh. Apply within x

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

I meet other single fems alone, not couples though. This may be the case for some of the others of us, but they are around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unicorns, single fems, do you exist???

We have met a single fem with another couple before and had a great time.

Seems they are out there but hard to pin down for a meet. So many sexy single fems on here would just like to meet one in the flesh. Apply within x"
nope, we are a figment of your imagination.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men. "

How many have you asked for that statistic?

I am on here to meet couples predominantly, then other women, and then men. I can pull on a night out if all I want is some NSA sex with a single guy, its harder to do that with a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men. "

I don't think that's true.

Most of the single women I chat to on here on occasion are looking for couples, but most of them find the couples extremely offputting. Most couples want to just treat you as a sex toy to enhance their own relationship which isn't what most single women want.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men. "

Thats me!!!!!!

Class me as you will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men. "

What are you basing that on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I been looking for years for one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men.

I don't think that's true.

Most of the single women I chat to on here on occasion are looking for couples, but most of them find the couples extremely offputting. Most couples want to just treat you as a sex toy to enhance their own relationship which isn't what most single women want."

yep. I meet couples. But as it says in my profile, I will not do it to fulfil your fantasies, I am only interested in my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unicorns, single fems, do you exist???

We have met a single fem with another couple before and had a great time.

Seems they are out there but hard to pin down for a meet. So many sexy single fems on here would just like to meet one in the flesh. Apply within x"

They exist but online is probably not the best place to meet them

And if you are relying on the site then you have to realise that they are the most sought after and lest common demographic on here and work hard to maximise your chances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apply within :/

Looking for a job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men. "

Not our experience at all and we have lots of single female friends...We just didn't meet them exclusively through here, usually parties, socials and clubs because they can meet you in person and see what your dynamic is, and we can see theirs...

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men.

I don't think that's true.

Most of the single women I chat to on here on occasion are looking for couples, but most of them find the couples extremely offputting. Most couples want to just treat you as a sex toy to enhance their own relationship which isn't what most single women want."

don't forget the ones that just want you to be their performing monkey for the guy to have a girl on girl show, in my experience they are the only two types of couple that exists on fab

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough


"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men.

I don't think that's true.

Most of the single women I chat to on here on occasion are looking for couples, but most of them find the couples extremely offputting. Most couples want to just treat you as a sex toy to enhance their own relationship which isn't what most single women want."

been on here and other sites for a while and noticed this happens A LOT!!

I went to a club on Friday and found that being able to speak to both parts of a couple was much less hassle than trying to establish any kind of conversation on here, and it was less 'aggressive' than some of the messages I get on here.

TBH I'd love to explore my bi side and I would have to do that through a club now where I know I am face to face with a couple right from the start. Then everyone is on the same page as well from the start with no 'you're not what we were expecting' or 'well he didn't tell me you've got massive tits' (that couple had a massive row and she thumped him)

But I'm definitely not here to be used and abused, I want something out of it too...after all I'm human, why should I be treated like a tool

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

Genuine single fem here that prefers playing with couples definately fully 3 way. All the couples I play with have been people I've built a rapport with first. Had some great times Not into soley fem-fem with the guy watching at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet couples I go to clubs too and parties I class myself as a swinger I do sometimes meet single men if I feel like it

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Better for me to meet couples at clubs than through this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men.

Not our experience at all and we have lots of single female friends...We just didn't meet them exclusively through here, usually parties, socials and clubs because they can meet you in person and see what your dynamic is, and we can see theirs..."

Janey and her unicorns exist lol...we met regularly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men.

Not our experience at all and we have lots of single female friends...We just didn't meet them exclusively through here, usually parties, socials and clubs because they can meet you in person and see what your dynamic is, and we can see theirs...

Janey and her unicorns exist lol...we met regularly lol "

*mwah*!!

Xx

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By *ixie69Woman
over a year ago

leicester


"Genuine single fem here that prefers playing with couples definately fully 3 way. All the couples I play with have been people I've built a rapport with first. Had some great times Not into soley fem-fem with the guy watching at all."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking as a single very bi fem it's harder to meet couples unless u attend clubs which is where I meet most of the people I play with...that and at parties...attend several parties where we have more single fems than couples occasionally lol

Just all about how you approach them or more importantly how you respond to those brave enough to be the first to message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes...they exist. We've been meeting up with a beautiful single girl for the past few weeks.

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

London.


"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men.

Thats me!!!!!!

Class me as you will"

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

I don't meet single men for nsa fun ... I don't meet men on here, just women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single female who goes to clubs alone. I find the couples dynamic difficult sometimes, maybe one of them will fancy me, but not the other, or vice versa... So I often default to single guys as they are easier to suss out, despite being very bi...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do single woman want from a couple? I'd never be in this setup so just curious.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"What do single woman want from a couple? I'd never be in this setup so just curious."

Is it not kinda obvious?

I'm very bi, and like sex with both men and women... so either being part of a couple, or being the single fem work well for me, but then I also enjoy meeting either solo.

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm all for equality so give my attention to single men, single women & couples with equal measure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am part of a couple , but have this profile to meet other girls I won't meet other couples from here as I don't want to be treated as someone mentioned earlier as a sex toy. And am not into putting on a show for the make half of the couple. That said I would meet alone a couple I had already met as part of a couples meet.

Op the one thing that would concern me with your profile is that you list yourself as bi curious, and though I don't go much on labels I would be concerned I was either going to be some sort of experiment to test how curious you are in which case it could be very uncomfortable for me or that is was more for his benefit than yours.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think the answer is a club for us guys. Thanks for all your comments. You guys restore our faith in this place x

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I swing therefore I am.

Yep real one here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I swing therefore I am.

Yep real one here! "

I'm one too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking as a single very bi fem it's harder to meet couples unless u attend clubs which is where I meet most of the people I play with...that and at parties...attend several parties where we have more single fems than couples occasionally lol

Just all about how you approach them or more importantly how you respond to those brave enough to be the first to message "

I agree with this...we only started swinging 2 months ago and have met and played with single females but we only go to clubs for meets. It works well for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be better to meet at a club too, then the the bi fems can see us together in a place where they feel safe.

Her

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

There are loads of lovely single women on the site...It seems to me that there is also a broad range of what they are looking for...Much like single men and couples.

Hardly unicorn world either way!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

im a single bi female..yes i meet couples, yes i meet single men, yes i go to clubs and go to parties on my own..

do i play with everyone no, but am i busy ..yes...

ive had lovely experiences..the odd time waster and fake..but i just let them ramble on, and, they soon show themselves and go away.. do i respond to 'hi babe' fancy my cock?' messages..err no.

i have been treated with the utmost respect on here and at clubs by both couples and guys, maybe, that's cos i ask what they want and what they like and i only choose to play with those that suit me. getting to know a couples dynamic is the key and with anyone..its the connection at a social level that secures playful interaction.

we are out there, but don't expect a meet spontaneously within hours, we are usually booked, as couples have kids..and guys have mates and golf...lol...have a bit of patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do single woman want from a couple? I'd never be in this setup so just curious.

Is it not kinda obvious?

I'm very bi, and like sex with both men and women... so either being part of a couple, or being the single fem work well for me, but then I also enjoy meeting either solo."

From what I've observed on the forum no its not obvious. I see more of why single fems won't meet couples. The birthday treat thing I totally get why that would be off-putting of course. Being Really honest I see more on the forum about why anybody wont meet anybody lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men.

I don't think that's true.

Most of the single women I chat to on here on occasion are looking for couples, but most of them find the couples extremely offputting. Most couples want to just treat you as a sex toy to enhance their own relationship which isn't what most single women want."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men.

I don't think that's true.

Most of the single women I chat to on here on occasion are looking for couples, but most of them find the couples extremely offputting. Most couples want to just treat you as a sex toy to enhance their own relationship which isn't what most single women want. "
I had that I was looking for couples but most spoke to me as if it was their right that I do as they say .....or they were men pretending to be couples I gave up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

loads of them but so many once you chat produce a fella - we have met some lovely ladies though and we love to make her the centre of attention - certainly not a plaything

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By *azLilyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Lily here. I also meet alone but I won't meet men or couples due to extremely forceful and manipulative couples that I met with my last time on fab (who as others have said, expect ,e to be a toy for their pleasure). As a result, I only meet women... And I won't even entertain the idea of the male half being there to watch, I'm not a performer!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Exactly what we are looking for, Mrs N wants to experience this for the first ever time. No performing seal routine and plenty of talk beforehand. Pretty sure we'll have a long wait but it'll be worth it.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"im a single bi female..yes i meet couples, yes i meet single men, yes i go to clubs and go to parties on my own..

do i play with everyone no, but am i busy ..yes...

ive had lovely experiences..the odd time waster and fake..but i just let them ramble on, and, they soon show

themselves and go away.. do i respond to 'hi babe' fancy my cock?' messages..err no.

i have been treated with the utmost respect on here and at clubs by both couples and guys, maybe, that's cos i ask what they want and what they like and i only choose to play with those that suit me. getting to know a couples dynamic is the key and with anyone..its the connection at a social level that secures playful interaction.

we are out there, but don't expect a meet spontaneously within hours, we are usually booked, as couples have kids..and guys have mates and golf...lol...have a bit of patience "

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We are on here to meet bi fems who want to play with couples, and we have met some through here. Really don't think it is that much harder to meet them than anyone else, if you factor in all the things that have to be right.

1) Mutual attraction - three people have to fancy each other

2) Geography - distance is always a factor, unless you are very lucky

3) Safety - all three of you have to feel comfortable with each other. It's risky for singles to meet couples...but it's also risky for couples to meet singles

4) Timing - everyone is so busy, and matching available times is hard!

If you can tick all those boxes you are already being lucky way over the odds, so couple that with the fact that bi fems are definitely in the minority here, and also obviously in very high demand, and it's no wonder people may see them as elusive.

All the (frankly wonderful) FFM meets we have had though have been through Fab, rather than clubs, and really that is down to three things - patience, communication and honesty. Keep those three things in mind and Fab will work wonders for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men.

I don't think that's true.

Most of the single women I chat to on here on occasion are looking for couples, but most of them find the couples extremely offputting. Most couples want to just treat you as a sex toy to enhance their own relationship which isn't what most single women want."

I was originally looking for couples as well as men but found the majority only wanted bi play with the woman. If I'm having sex with a couple it will be with both of them.

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