FabSwingers.com forum: bi and curious guys forum

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all.

Is there a forum, here or elsewhere, for bi and curious (married) guys to physically meet up or even just chat? I know there's the bichat room but I mean discussion and advice etc .

It can all be a bit scary and as much as I love the cam chat room, I'm hoping there's a network of guys in a similar frame of mind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am bi and love it. Married so have to be discrete

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes Mr Tall Smoothie? What do you know?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am bi and love it. Married so have to be discrete"

For us married guys discretion has to be paramount! Comes with the territory

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By *hat the hellCouple
over a year ago

Down South

"I am bi and love it. Married so have to be discrete

For us married guys discretion has to be paramount! Comes with the territory

It's a shame you aren't able to tell your wives that you would like to try other things...I don't mean that in a "have a go" way I genuinely mean it's a shame...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am bi and love it. Married so have to be discrete

For us married guys discretion has to be paramount! Comes with the territory

That's a shame!

If I ever have another long term relationship it wouldn't bother me at all if the guy was bi! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am bi and love it. Married so have to be discrete

For us married guys discretion has to be paramount! Comes with the territory

It's a shame you aren't able to tell your wives that you would like to try other things...I don't mean that in a "have a go" way I genuinely mean it's a shame..."

Yes I understand and it's part of this awful guilt! The sort of thing a guys group could openly discuss I would hope although us men, bi, curious or otherwise, do not tend to be open to other guys about this sort of thing do they? (we)!

I'd really like to meet other local curiou guys for commeraderie as much as whatever else it might lead to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes Mr Tall Smoothie? What do you know?"

hi I'm a bi bottom Newcastle

I know I can't get enough cock

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

My bf is openly bi and I love it ... from seeing him with other guys, sharing a guy, to just generally being open about our sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My bf is openly bi and I love it ... from seeing him with other guys, sharing a guy, to just generally being open about our sexuality."
your a lucky lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My bf is openly bi and I love it ... from seeing him with other guys, sharing a guy, to just generally being open about our sexuality.your a lucky lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

my advice would be change your setting to bi, straight may confuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes try fabguys/forum

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Yes try fabguys/forum "

I had to go look, they don't have one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes try fabguys/forum

I had to go look, they don't have one

Yes they do you have to google it to find it

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Yes try fabguys/forum

I had to go look, they don't have one

Yes they do you have to google it to find it"

on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its not on the site you have to go on to google to find it I only found it a couple of weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a shame that the preference for being bi once again appears to be characterised by the need to be 'discrete' here.

We're a bicurious couple that are constantly having to address the mis-perception of many on here that all bi guys are engaged in some sort of active deceit. It's clear that many here aren't and I for one, would welcome a collective bi group where healthy and transparent dialogue about being bi takes place.

Simply having a bi space that is there to facilitate the indiscretions of married men (no judgement intended there) seems like a missed opportunity for something much more positive around adopting bi sexual/lifestyle choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I never!

Why on earth would they have forums and hide them?!

They're totally inactive because of this.

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By *andy57TV/TS
over a year ago

york

My wife knew all about my bi side as I knew off her,s she even helped me become the person I am today we just used to do that old fashioned thing like having an open conversation about our sexuality god I miss her xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am bi and love it. Married so have to be discrete

For us married guys discretion has to be paramount! Comes with the territory

It's a shame you aren't able to tell your wives that you would like to try other things...I don't mean that in a "have a go" way I genuinely mean it's a shame..."

It's an enormous shame. Unfortunately there are lots of tgirls who will tell of their broken relationships from when they told their wives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife knew all about my bi side as I knew off her,s she even helped me become the person I am today we just used to do that old fashioned thing like having an open conversation about our sexuality god I miss her xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"my advice would be change your setting to bi, straight may confuse

Thought I'd done that. Have now

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"my advice would be change your setting to bi, straight may confuse

Thought I'd done that. Have now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should include ur wifes in the fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes try fabguys/forum "

Weirdly I never even thought of that! ! I will now though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should include ur wifes in the fun"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fella is bit cur. Trying out some fantasies tonight

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Bi bloke 'ere...

But let's not ghettoize ourselves, eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all.

Is there a forum, here or elsewhere, for bi and curious (married) guys to physically meet up or even just chat? I know there's the bichat room but I mean discussion and advice etc .

It can all be a bit scary and as much as I love the cam chat room, I'm hoping there's a network of guys in a similar frame of mind?

Can we get a bi and gay forum that guys can't read at the same time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree

If your married and bi and she doesn't know it's good to chat to others

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By *laire tv for funTV/TS
over a year ago

Alfreton

me an my hubby are both fully bi an absolutely love it,feel really sorry for the guys who are that way inclined an arent able to be open with their partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"me an my hubby are both fully bi an absolutely love it,feel really sorry for the guys who are that way inclined an arent able to be open with their partners

That's fantastic you two, I'm sure you have a great time because of it x

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I think it s best to continue to be discreet; where would the thrill be otherwise; once all is disclosed, there's nothing you can keep to/for yourselves! Also, I think the OP has been misunderstood; he isn t saying he wishes to disclose to wife at all; on the contrary me thinks he/others much prefer the discretion cos they know deep down that wife will/can not understand that what they want is cock; wake up smell the coffee those of you are advising to be open and all that crap; it s NOT what the OP wants!!!! The bis want a forum for bi men(married or not)where they can meet for sex (mainly); they're not pining for more openness towards their partners; why is it so difficult for some of you to understand???

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By *laire tv for funTV/TS
over a year ago

Alfreton

yeah we deffo do lol soooo much more fun lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am bi and love it. Married so have to be discrete

For us married guys discretion has to be paramount! Comes with the territory

It's a shame you aren't able to tell your wives that you would like to try other things...I don't mean that in a "have a go" way I genuinely mean it's a shame..."

Yes once you've opened up things become very interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all.

Is there a forum, here or elsewhere, for bi and curious (married) guys to physically meet up or even just chat? I know there's the bichat room but I mean discussion and advice etc .

It can all be a bit scary and as much as I love the cam chat room, I'm hoping there's a network of guys in a similar frame of mind?

I think that would be great, especially for those of us that are bi-curious and wanting to try it. I would love to talk to a couple about it also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all.

Is there a forum, here or elsewhere, for bi and curious (married) guys to physically meet up or even just chat? I know there's the bichat room but I mean discussion and advice etc .

It can all be a bit scary and as much as I love the cam chat room, I'm hoping there's a network of guys in a similar frame of mind?

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not looked but isn't the sister site to this aimed at guys looking for guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No stories section, or forum.

They are probably worried about what they would write.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No stories section, or forum.

They are probably worried about what they would write."

Thanks. I've not looked just assumed it would be similar to this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My boyfriend is bi and I've known pretty much through all our relationship but until a few months ago he always denied it (until I caught him) so couldn't deny it lol but I fell in love with him for him and wouldn't change him for anything! Like to me I see it as I haven't got a dick to offer him hence why he is on here lol but I respect his decisions and would never leave him over it! if you need to talk feel free to message me or him biguyuk

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By *amina T-girlTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

It should be kept secret. Some wifes wont be able to live with the thought of hubby being bi x and possibly make things worse. Just not worth risking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Faggy.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"me an my hubby are both fully bi an absolutely love it,feel really sorry for the guys who are that way inclined an arent able to be open with their partners

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My boyfriend is bi and I've known pretty much through all our relationship but until a few months ago he always denied it (until I caught him) so couldn't deny it lol but I fell in love with him for him and wouldn't change him for anything! Like to me I see it as I haven't got a dick to offer him hence why he is on here lol but I respect his decisions and would never leave him over it! if you need to talk feel free to message me or him biguyuk

Thank you. I will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It should be kept secret. Some wifes wont be able to live with the thought of hubby being bi x and possibly make things worse. Just not worth risking x"

Your sexuality "should" be kept secret?

Really?

Best not tell my fella I'm bisexual then... whoops!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like meeting with bi/married guys as you know its just fun no strings and nothing to intense.

I live alone and have had some great times with bi and gay guys discreet some friendly and good chats (couple of strange ones but hey I am sure it happens in every circle) what happens in my bedroom stays there.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have sucked cock in front of my wife during a 3 some. She said it does nothing for her so it's something I'll do without her. I'll feel more relaxed and comfortable then. After all it is only sex and she still gets hers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It should be kept secret. Some wifes wont be able to live with the thought of hubby being bi x and possibly make things worse. Just not worth risking x"

So deceit is better than an open and honest relationship?

It's sad for guys that don't feel they can discuss it with their partners but I'm guessing most would prefer to be open about it rather than go behind their partners back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It should be kept secret. Some wifes wont be able to live with the thought of hubby being bi x and possibly make things worse. Just not worth risking x

So deceit is better than an open and honest relationship?

It's sad for guys that don't feel they can discuss it with their partners but I'm guessing most would prefer to be open about it rather than go behind their partners back. "

I think for some guys, the fact their other halves are in the dark about their bisexuality, adds to the thrill of bi meets.

I wonder how bi some of them would actually be if everything was out in the open.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently found out my hubby was registered in a bi/gay site. It wasn't that bit that bothered or hurt me, it was the fact that he had hidden it from me. Maybe give your wives more credit, I know it's scary though xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel sorry for the wives

But as far as we are concerned cheating is cheating and should be outed as such

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a shame that the preference for being bi once again appears to be characterised by the need to be 'discrete' here. "

No they're "discrete" because they're cheating on there partners not because they're bi.

I think the bigger shame is once again bi guys are getting portrayed as people who can't be in a relationship without cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you. I will.

No worries! People deal with things differently but always better to talk to someone in the same place as you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It should be kept secret. Some wifes wont be able to live with the thought of hubby being bi x and possibly make things worse. Just not worth risking x

So deceit is better than an open and honest relationship?

It's sad for guys that don't feel they can discuss it with their partners but I'm guessing most would prefer to be open about it rather than go behind their partners back. "

I know my partner hid it from me for 2years and hated it everytime he met someone I know now he felt dirty and soo guilty and since I've found out he can have people round the house and we can both enjoy it so think it depends on lifestyle and individual person x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still in a curious stage.. not sure how far I would want things to go. Would be nice to have a forum or something to chat with people (without judgement) about things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi curious and married.

Take the gamble or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It should be kept secret. Some wifes wont be able to live with the thought of hubby being bi x and possibly make things worse. Just not worth risking x

So deceit is better than an open and honest relationship?

It's sad for guys that don't feel they can discuss it with their partners but I'm guessing most would prefer to be open about it rather than go behind their partners back.

If he hated it why did he keep meeting them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a shame that the preference for being bi once again appears to be characterised by the need to be 'discrete' here.

No they're "discrete" because they're cheating on there partners not because they're bi.

I think the bigger shame is once again bi

guys are getting portrayed as people

who can't be in a relationship without

cheating."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've probably told this story a few times on here but being Bi and Married is pretty tortuous. The trouble is you've got that chromosome switch that makes want it both ways rather than just homosexuality or hetrosexuality. It is just what it is, You are Bi sexual.

Unfortunately Bi-sexuals marry hetro-sexuals or homosexuals by mistake it leads to a lot of unhappiness that eventually I decided to end because I was torturing my ex wife as well as myself. I didn't feel it was right to expose her to my Bi-sexuality. It developed as I got older.

Thankfully Mrs N, my confident and soul mate partner enjoys her Bi-sexuality too, she wishes she could get more LOL, but is happy for me to enjoy mine now and again.

Being discrete about it is not really the answer in my opinion but each to their own way of dealing with it. It's not a black or white issue in my mind. No one knows what goes on in marriage behind closed doors.

Good luck all if married and Bi, but not able to tell your partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi and married here.

Finally took action on my bi side in December 2014 and have had a few more meets since. I enjoy it and the predicted surge of guilt never came.

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By *inCity BluesMan
over a year ago

London

" Being discrete about it is not really the answer in my opinion but each to their own way of dealing with it. It's not a black or white issue in my mind. No one knows what goes on in marriage behind closed doors.

Good luck all if married and Bi, but not able to tell your partner."

Mr N you're right about the difficulties it produces. The bi cam room on here is frequently populated by the male halves of straight MF couples who clearly enjoy watching, showing and playing on cam with other guys, but keep this secret from their partners. And they're not fakes either - some of them have lots of veris from straight MF meets.

I used to feel negative about them, going behind their partners backs for kicks, but came to realise how difficult it must be for them, in much the same way you as you describe your own experience above.

And yes, my profile still says straight. As we spoke about in another thread a while back, putting bi-cur does put some straight cpls off. I look at it as just another arrow in my quiver - it's their if a cpl needs it, and we all want it.

There should be a bi-optional category I reckon

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

"my advice would be change your setting to bi, straight may confuse

Does Fab have the bandwidth to accommodate this change in profile? I wouldnt like to see it crash as a result

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've probably told this story a few times on here but being Bi and Married is pretty tortuous. "

It's no different to being straight and married.

There are people you fancy and want to fuck who aren't your partner.

Their gender has nothing to do with that and isn't an excuse to just go and do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A girl I meet off fab suspected I was bi after we meet up. I'm so glad that she did as she encouraged me to explore my bi side and I'm glad that she did.

Love meeting guys and girls for fun now

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"There are people you fancy and want to fuck who aren't your partner.

Their gender has nothing to do with that and isn't an excuse to just go and do it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see your point of _iew and you picked up on some of my words and took them out of context. It's quite harsh and I'm not saying you are right or wrong. At end of day I decided that cheating on her wasn't right so I guess I reluctantly agreed that we had to get a divorce. So glad I did. She is now happily married. I have nothing to do with her and I still see my kids loads because she agreed it was never going to work and we were thrashing a dead horse.

Other people deal with it how they see fit. However I agree with you that cheating is probably not the answer.

"I've probably told this story a few times on here but being Bi and Married is pretty tortuous.

It's no different to being straight and married.

There are people you fancy and want to fuck who aren't your partner.

Their gender has nothing to do with that and isn't an excuse to just go and do it."

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm married and bi. Oddly though, I was straight for a long time. Not even curious. Strange how life turns out sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how many bi guys are in a realtionship/married and keep it a secret and are happy and who's partners know and are unhappy? I think if someone loves you then they should understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simon is just starting to play with guys. It was after a chat we had after a guy we had over. As Simon was underneath me as the guy slid in and at sum point he slid out as Simon was licking me and he licked the guys shaft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife finding out I am bi curious is probably one of the best things ever, we can both have fun together and she enjoys watching as well as joining in. Next for us is to meet a bi couple and see how much fun that turns out to be x

It was so difficult and embarrassing telling her and talking about it but I could honestly say I literally felt the weight lift off my shoulders.

The worry of what would happen after I told her was immense but worth it so I understand how hard it can be. So good luck and hopefully everything works out for you guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It should be kept secret. Some wifes wont be able to live with the thought of hubby being bi x and possibly make things worse. Just not worth risking x

So deceit is better than an open and honest relationship?

It's sad for guys that don't feel they can discuss it with their partners but I'm guessing most would prefer to be open about it rather than go behind their partners back.

If he hated it why did he keep meeting them ?"

Well he hated keeping it from me and being unfaithful, why do people have to be so picky about it everybody goes through it in their own way and it's probably one of the hardest things you could say to the person you love and hope they understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It should be kept secret. Some wifes wont be able to live with the thought of hubby being bi x and possibly make things worse. Just not worth risking x

So deceit is better than an open and honest relationship?

It's sad for guys that don't feel they can discuss it with their partners but I'm guessing most would prefer to be open about it rather than go behind their partners back.

If he hated it why did he keep meeting them ?

So he hated cheating on you but kept doing it because well he liked the sex?

If he'd been shagging women would it have bothered you more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It should be kept secret. Some wifes wont be able to live with the thought of hubby being bi x and possibly make things worse. Just not worth risking x

So deceit is better than an open and honest relationship?

It's sad for guys that don't feel they can discuss it with their partners but I'm guessing most would prefer to be open about it rather than go behind their partners back.

If he hated it why did he keep meeting them ?

So he hated cheating on you but kept doing it because well he liked the sex?

If he'd been shagging women would it have bothered you more?"

Yes if it was a woman it would have hurt a lot more because what can he get from her he can't from me but I don't have a cock and if he is bi then he will need to get it from somewhere why you being so small minded about it? yes he cheated but only because he was embarrassed about it and felt at the time he had to keep it from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am bi and love it. Married so have to be discrete

For us married guys discretion has to be paramount! Comes with the territory

That's a shame!

If I ever have another long term relationship it wouldn't bother me at all if the guy was bi!

Shame you are so far away, really wanting a fully bi mmf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am bi and love it. Married so have to be discrete

For us married guys discretion has to be paramount! Comes with the territory

Quite sad to see you say this. I've always had a bit of a bi-fantasy side but Blondie was never keen.

That all changed recently when we met a nice chap at the club and enjoyed a rather long and exciting session together.

The most exciting part was when we both went down and double teamed his cocktail until her came in both our faces.

So glad we spent time talking it through and getting use to the idea because when it eventually happened we both found it an amazing experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am bi and love it. Married so have to be discrete

For us married guys discretion has to be paramount! Comes with the territory

Quite sad to see you say this. I've always had a bit of a bi-fantasy side but Blondie was never keen.

That all changed recently when we met a nice chap at the club and enjoyed a rather long and exciting session together.

The most exciting part was when we both went down and double teamed his cocktail until her came in both our faces.

So glad we spent time talking it through and getting use to the idea because when it eventually happened we both found it an amazing experience. "

My phone autocorrects 'cock' to 'cocktail' all the time lol.. should of learnt by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am bi and love it. Married so have to be discrete

For us married guys discretion has to be paramount! Comes with the territory

Quite sad to see you say this. I've always had a bit of a bi-fantasy side but Blondie was never keen.all

That all changed recently when we met a nice chap at the club and enjoyed a rather long and exciting session together.

The most exciting part was when we both went down and double teamed his cocktail until her came in both our faces.

So glad we spent time talking it through and getting use to the idea because when it eventually happened we both found it an amazing experience.

My phone autocorrects 'cock' to 'cocktail' all the time lol.. should of learnt by now

Ha ha cocktail's rather a fitting descriptive anyhow

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By *ipswingCouple
over a year ago

portrush

relationships are a strange beast ..... too many lads we know are just so afraid of their wives finding out.. d i v o r c e .... not everyone is open minded i fear ... and its either deception or ..... put it another way ...

people are strange

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By *antonkid1955Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Im orally bi and my wife loves to take part in my fun,she absolutely loves to watch two men sucking each other then we both pleasure her.best of both worlds.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Crikey! As the OP here I seem to have opened up a right old box of cocks

So much good advice - Thanks all.

The thing I'm picking up is honesty and that's the biggest challenge for me.

Discuss it and be open. Yes. Should be able to but it could, as has been commented on in this post, go totally balls up from that point. Equally it could work out for the best.

There's too much at risk just yo flip a coin

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Crikey! As the OP here I seem to have opened up a right old box of cocks

So much good advice - Thanks all.

The thing I'm picking up is honesty and that's the biggest challenge for me.

Discuss it and be open. Yes. Should be

able to but it could, as has been

commented on in this post, go totally

balls up from that point. Equally it could

work out for the best.

There's too much at risk just yo flip a

coin

Couldn't you have guessed?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Crikey! As the OP here I seem to have opened up a right old box of cocks

So much good advice - Thanks all.

The thing I'm picking up is honesty and that's the biggest challenge for me.

Discuss it and be open. Yes. Should be

able to but it could, as has been

commented on in this post, go totally

balls up from that point. Equally it could

work out for the best.

There's too much at risk just yo flip a

coin

Couldn't you have guessed?

Yes Steve.

What I was looking for if we go back go the original post was a place to chat etc regardless of any baggage. The hangup of having these feelings is enough of a burden in itself!

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

"Crikey! As the OP here I seem to have opened up a right old box of cocks

So much good advice - Thanks all.

The thing I'm picking up is honesty and that's the biggest challenge for me.

Discuss it and be open. Yes. Should be

able to but it could, as has been

commented on in this post, go totally

balls up from that point. Equally it could

work out for the best.

There's too much at risk just yo flip a

coin

Couldn't you have guessed?

Yes Steve.

What I was looking for if we go back go the original post was a place to chat etc regardless of any baggage. The hangup of having these feelings is enough of a burden in itself!

It would be nice to have an area bi guys can chat (married or not) without the constant negative feedback the forums bring. The politically correct police could just not look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im orally bi and my wife loves to take part in my fun,she absolutely loves to watch two men sucking each other then we both pleasure her.best of both worlds."

Love joining couples to do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have your own website to do this on....!

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im bi and my wife knows we used to share a guys and have great fun but now shes not interested in play any.more so thats my fun gone too love to have a bi friend to just chat about it it gets very frustrating

any offer of friendly chat ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"im bi and my wife knows we used to share a guys and have great fun but now shes not interested in play any.more so thats my fun gone too love to have a bi friend to just chat about it it gets very frustrating

any offer of friendly chat ?"

yes Hotrod - contact me if you want to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have your own website to do this on....!"

Thanks for commenting Nobby but this is just the sort of discrimination we are trying to avoid. There is clearly a bichat room here. Clearly sexual orientation options of bi and curious (applies to both males and females) so your "You have your own website to do this on....!" is neither helpful nor productive when someone is asking for help!

one of those times when saying nothing is the better option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any offer of friendly chat ?"

Always happy to chat..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What he said ^

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