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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on here a bit now I try to talk first I don't send dick pictures first or talk about how I want to destroy there pussy or something but never get any response? Is it because my age how I look or should I be saying them things and sending a picture or my cock? Just wondering is all.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Because no one doesn't exist. Anyone know's that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because no one doesn't exist. Anyone know's that. "

cheeky fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't know what you're messaging and to whom so we can't answer the question.

Your age will be a limiting factor, most don't want to meet very young men although there will be someone for you.

You can't accomodate, that will raise alarm bells for some, assuming that you're attached.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

So many reasons as to why it might be, almost as many as the number of threads asking the same question

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"Been on here a bit now I try to talk first I don't send dick pictures first or talk about how I want to destroy there pussy or something but never get any response? Is it because my age how I look or should I be saying them things and sending a picture or my cock? Just wondering is all. "

You've been here 4 weeks, show some patience young grasshopper.

There are a LOT more men than women on the site and contrary to what you may believe those women have lives and a lot are not horny 24/7.

It's not instashag. Com it's fabswingers.

Don't try so hard, attend some social events get some contacts and don't be pushy and you'll start getting somewhere. Just go to make friends and be happy to leave alone if you have no expectations you can't be disappointed and you'll be more fun to talk to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just seen the updates in my area,a single fem has been on the site 4 hours and had a meet and got verified.Work that one out why fellas have it tough.Get down the pub you have more chance there as the site is a massive cock fest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seen the updates in my area,a single fem has been on the site 4 hours and had a meet and got verified.Work that one out why fellas have it tough.Get down the pub you have more chance there as the site is a massive cock fest."
lol I know, the quicker men realises the huge male ratio here to 1 woman, they know a getting a reply is like a lottery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seen the updates in my area,a single fem has been on the site 4 hours and had a meet and got verified.Work that one out why fellas have it tough.Get down the pub you have more chance there as the site is a massive cock fest.lol I know, the quicker men realises the huge male ratio here to 1 woman, they know a getting a reply is like a lottery."
And we would love to know the real ratio of men to women,all the meets and updates are off men in our area

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By *ylonSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

If you do a search of meets in your area for each group you will get an idea of the ratios of each group. A rough estimate I would guess around 60-80 single men for every 2-3 couples for every 1-2 tv/ts for every 1 single female.

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By *ylonSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

If you do a search of meets in your area for each group you will get an idea of the ratios of each group. A rough estimate I would guess around 60-80 single men for every 2-3 couples for every 1-2 tv/ts for every 1 single female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seen the updates in my area,a single fem has been on the site 4 hours and had a meet and got verified.Work that one out why fellas have it tough.Get down the pub you have more chance there as the site is a massive cock fest.lol I know, the quicker men realises the huge male ratio here to 1 woman, they know a getting a reply is like a lottery.And we would love to know the real ratio of men to women,all the meets and updates are off men in our area"
YE=es same here, would be fun to know the real ratios, my area is mostly couples and one or 2 women lol on the status updates.

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By *ylonSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

If you do a search of meets in your area for each group you will get an idea of the ratios of each group. A rough estimate I would guess around 60-80 single men for every 2-3 couples for every 1-2 tv/ts for every 1 single female.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Women get inundated with messages its not physically possible for them to look at all messages

My advice would be to hot list them and then reply when they are online. Those that you have sent messages to but have not opened them. Then give them another message. Persistence but not pushyness is the key.

Also clubmeets and socials arnt an a gatenteed measure to get varis as i have found out.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you do a search of meets in your area for each group you will get an idea of the ratios of each group. A rough estimate I would guess around 60-80 single men for every 2-3 couples for every 1-2 tv/ts for every 1 single female."
Yes and I searched and this is who wanna meet today in London where I live:

3 women

83 males (including me) lol

19 couples

5 TV/TS

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Wow quite alarming ratios for the London area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow quite alarming ratios for the London area."
YEs, you would of thought it would be more with a population over 8million lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you do a search of meets in your area for each group you will get an idea of the ratios of each group. A rough estimate I would guess around 60-80 single men for every 2-3 couples for every 1-2 tv/ts for every 1 single female.Yes and I searched and this is who wanna meet today in London where I live:

3 women

83 males (including me) lol

19 couples

5 TV/TS "

Sounds like you might need a bigger venue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you do a search of meets in your area for each group you will get an idea of the ratios of each group. A rough estimate I would guess around 60-80 single men for every 2-3 couples for every 1-2 tv/ts for every 1 single female.Yes and I searched and this is who wanna meet today in London where I live:

3 women

83 males (including me) lol

19 couples

5 TV/TS

Sounds like you might need a bigger venue"
Yes it seems so, or travel further x.

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By *ylonSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you do a search of meets in your area for each group you will get an idea of the ratios of each group. A rough estimate I would guess around 60-80 single men for every 2-3 couples for every 1-2 tv/ts for every 1 single female."

So you keep saying......

Technology eh?

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Wow quite alarming ratios for the London area.YEs, you would of thought it would be more with a population over 8million lol."

Yeah, but that Boris Johnson reduces the number of available women!

(Allegedly )

OP: there is nothing wrong, you are just new.

When we first joined we spent time on our profile, put up some pics, carefully searched and read everyone's profiles in detail. Eventually we chose just five people who stood out and sent carefully worded PMs.

We didn't get a single reply.

But we stuck with it, carried on with new pics, got involved with the forums and had a laugh.

Subsequently all five people we mailed have separately contacted us, along with others, and we seldom even post meets now.

Be patient, enjoy the site for what it is, and don't try too hard.

Good luck

Mr ddc

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By *ylonSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

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By *ylonSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham


"If you do a search of meets in your area for each group you will get an idea of the ratios of each group. A rough estimate I would guess around 60-80 single men for every 2-3 couples for every 1-2 tv/ts for every 1 single female.

So you keep saying......

Technology eh?"

phone reception glitch sorry about that folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here a bit now I try to talk first I don't send dick pictures first or talk about how I want to destroy there pussy or something but never get any response? Is it because my age how I look or should I be saying them things and sending a picture or my cock? Just wondering is all. "
you ain't alone mate don't worry . Sometimes a fuck off would be nice lol

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

Gave it time dont happen straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op

A good profile and ok photos.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will, just email those looking for people like you and keep your fingers crossed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple answer, OP, is that no-one HAS to reply to you. Nobody owes you a reply.

Check out the site FAQ's.

You will find that there is a FAQ which specifically addresses the matter of non-responses. You are to take it as a 'not interested'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they are fucked off with the moaning

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of rude lazy people I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of rude lazy people I'm afraid "

Why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they are fucked off with the moaning

Her"

Very good point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of rude lazy people I'm afraid "

No it isn't, according to site rules.

I refer you to site FAQ's and I quote

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

Has anyone tried applying for a job lately?

Do you consider it rude if you don't receive a response to your application?

Maybe you do, or maybe you understand that many vacancies are over subscribed and it is simply not practicable to respond to each and every unsuccessful applicant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of rude lazy people I'm afraid

Why

"
hi

If I say hello to someone I expect to be answered , if verbally or otherwise .. Just good manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of rude lazy people I'm afraid

Why

hi

If I say hello to someone I expect to be answered , if verbally or otherwise .. Just good manners "

Agree totally it is good manners, however if that same person being contwcted has specifically asked not to be contacted by certain types then that makes things different don't you think?

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