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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would like some advice for changing my profile or what I am doing wrong

No1 wants me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being attached will decrease your chances a huge amount. Kudos for you for being honest about it though. All you can do is 'sell' yourself to those that will meet attached men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being attached will decrease your chances a huge amount. Kudos for you for being honest about it though. All you can do is 'sell' yourself to those that will meet attached men."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing about your profile is appealing to the swinging community. Maybe a camera club? Or someone interested in shift patterns? Burn it. Start again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being attached will decrease your chances a huge amount. Kudos for you for being honest about it though. All you can do is 'sell' yourself to those that will meet attached men."
Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing about your profile is appealing to the swinging community. Maybe a camera club? Or someone interested in shift patterns? Burn it. Start again."
Just took that bit out thanks mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No likes dislikes what you are looking for

Etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No likes dislikes what you are looking for

Etc. "
Thanks will update x

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Lol, the forums have corrupted meet every time I see a post likely thus I check their other posts.... I was not disappointed

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Wisbech and A47 corridor


"Would like some advice for changing my profile or what I am doing wrong

No1 wants me "
. You have a face picture which is a good start and have the advantage of being young . However the profile tells the reader nothing about you apart from the fact that you are looking for sex . What are you hobbies and interests . On fab you really have to sell yourself just to get to the starting line .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You ask this question every day!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would like some advice for changing my profile or what I am doing wrong

No1 wants me . You have a face picture which is a good start and have the advantage of being young . However the profile tells the reader nothing about you apart from the fact that you are looking for sex . What are you hobbies and interests . On fab you really have to sell yourself just to get to the starting line ."
Thanks mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You ask this question every day!"
Not quite maby every other day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You ask this question every day!"

I think he thinks people will change there minds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You ask this question every day! Not quite maby every other day"

Why though?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You ask this question every day! Not quite maby every other day

Why though? "
I don't I was being sarcastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Correct the typos. There's a few of them. I think the filming thing will put more people off than the fact your attached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You ask this question every day! Not quite maby every other day

Why though? I don't I was being sarcastic "

But you do. The green arrow tells all...

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford


"Would like some advice for changing my profile or what I am doing wrong

No1 wants me . You have a face picture which is a good start and have the advantage of being young . However the profile tells the reader nothing about you apart from the fact that you are looking for sex . What are you hobbies and interests . On fab you really have to sell yourself just to get to the starting line ."

no ones interested in someones hobbies and interests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would like some advice for changing my profile or what I am doing wrong

No1 wants me . You have a face picture which is a good start and have the advantage of being young . However the profile tells the reader nothing about you apart from the fact that you are looking for sex . What are you hobbies and interests . On fab you really have to sell yourself just to get to the starting line .

no ones interested in someones hobbies and interests "

I am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cons:

-You are attached (this is a straight NO for us)

-You seem like you are more interested in taking pics than in what each party can get out of a meet

-You don't distinguish yourself from any of the other million single (although, that is being generous to you) guys on here

-Not much about you or what you can bring to a meet.

-And, as I usually say, I personally like some humour from a guy's profile. Yours doesn't have any.

Sorry, but that is how I see your profile.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask yourself these questions:

Why should we meet you?

What makes you different from all the other guys on fab?

What have you got to offer me as a woman?

Answer these questions and you might be half way to understanding why your profile isn't working in your favour.

Swinging isn't just fucking, and constant validation seeking threads on the forums are not really helping your cause.

You're young enough to be a son to the vast majority on fab, you are cheating, presumably you cant accomodate, and you have to keep asking for advice when you've already had tons on other thread.

Possibly fab isn't for you, but you do have to work to get results here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

upload a few more public pics.

sort your profile text out ~ don't oversell yourself but don't under sell yourself either which is how I'm seeing it. A confident man is a sexy man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would like some advice for changing my profile or what I am doing wrong

No1 wants me "

People tend to steer clear of cheaters.

But we guess you know that by now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would like some advice for changing my profile or what I am doing wrong

No1 wants me

People tend to steer clear of cheaters.

But we guess you know that by now."

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"Correct the typos. There's a few of them. I think the filming thing will put more people off than the fact your attached."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would like some advice for changing my profile or what I am doing wrong

No1 wants me

People tend to steer clear of cheaters.

But we guess you know that by now."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your username snails are slimy n horrible

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Would like some advice for changing my profile or what I am doing wrong

No1 wants me "

Ok, let's change this around a bit. What do you think the problem is?

You seem to be looking for a particular answer and are going to keep asking until you get it. What is it you're wanting to hear?

You're sounding desperate now and as if you're angling for sympathy shags. That'll put even more people off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would like some advice for changing my profile or what I am doing wrong

No1 wants me

Ok, let's change this around a bit. What do you think the problem is?

You seem to be looking for a particular answer and are going to keep asking until you get it. What is it you're wanting to hear?

You're sounding desperate now and as if you're angling for sympathy shags. That'll put even more people off."

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