FabSwingers.com forum: advice on profile and fabs

By *ottscpl2014 OP Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/derby

were just a bit confused. Were having fun on here and had a few meets but we are good friends with announce on here who seem very popular. They get around 100 messages a day where we get a couple.

We have done an experiment today and got our wives to send us a pic of them both together. We both put the same pic on to see who got the most fabs. Weve got 7 so far and they've got over 60. Just can't understand what's different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you got filters in place?

Our inbox drastically changed once we added those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If their profile in general attracts more lookers....then pics will get more fabs.......simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might have more people on their friendslist?

Their interests are different and people looking for theirs find them?

Anything on your profile that comes up in search can affect who can find you, age, location etc.

Being on here more often will put you at the top of search results as well.

Their profile might be worded more attractively than yours and seem more approachable/sexy?

Idk probably other stuff as well.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"were just a bit confused. Were having fun on here and had a few meets but we are good friends with announce on here who seem very popular. They get around 100 messages a day where we get a couple.

Good rule for fab and life in general, don't compare yourself to others it brings nothing but dissatisfaction. This isnt a popularity contest

There are loads of reasons why they get a different reaction to you, of the hundreds of messages how many are actually useful leading to a meet?

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"Have you got filters in place?

Our inbox drastically changed once we added those."

when I have filters off so men can message me I get quite a few, put a new pic up it goes crazy. With them blocked currently I can go a couple of days without a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because your are not the same persons, so your pics wont be the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because your are not the same persons, so your pics wont be the same

They put the exact same pic up of the both of them together. Both the different people people being fabbed are in the same pic together. And then they uploaded that pic to each of their pages.

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