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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it that some females you send don't even read messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly look at pics and profile, if i don't fancy someone i won't look at their message and delete it. Might reply saying they aren't what i want if the message was polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that some females you send don't even read messages?"

I think it might be because they get a thousand a day :/

If it doesn't stand out I don't think you would get a reply...

I got a feeling that you wanted females to answer this but couldn't help to reply

No offence attended with the whole stand out thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they may have a 1000 messages to read,so they dont get time....

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Because they can

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Don't send any, avoid the disappointment

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why is it that some females you send don't even read messages?"

Too many boring messages so nothing stands out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a one word message saying hi from a black silhouette then they get deleted

If fancy a fuck or nice tits are in the first line that goes too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that some females you send don't even read messages?"

How do you know they haven't read the message? They might read,then mark as unread before deleting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's a one word message saying hi from a black silhouette then they get deleted

If fancy a fuck or nice tits are in the first line that goes too "

Pretty much this plus if from a cock pic avatar they go too.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Because they don't want to fuck you...there is no requirement saying they have to answer messages from men they cant be bothered with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly all woman on here get inundated with mail from men and most mail contains a cock pic. A friend of mine on here had over six hundred messages in her inbox.... how the hell are you going to get through all them?

If you want a response mate I recommend you have a good think about what you want then as best you can articulate yourself and put it into your profile. Also it is important to spend time writing a message, check your spelling and grammar and if your going to attach a pic use something suggestive instead of a usual cliche.

It can be frustrating, have you thought about going to a club?

G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your user name would be enough for us to know that we wouldn't be interested in you

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Why is it that some females you send don't even read messages?"

Because they don't have to, because they don't want to, because they are doing other stuff....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they want you to bend over backwards, do a hand stand and somersault through hoops of fire before your 'worthy' of a reply

You should already know this man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man isnt verified by a meet or cam I will delete the message straight away.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Sometimes they use the green arrow of truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many messages.

User names that make me go

Avatar pics that make me go

One liners.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes they use the green arrow of truth. "

Lol........then they see the desperation....then they delete?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has been discussed to death before. The single women on here can be extremely choosy - because they know guys will pretty much go with anyone.

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Because they want you to bend over backwards, do a hand stand and somersault through hoops of fire before your 'worthy' of a reply

You should already know this man! "

Haha

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Question pretty much answered then OP

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Because they want you to bend over backwards, do a hand stand and somersault through hoops of fire before your 'worthy' of a reply

You should already know this man! "

I don't ask for the hand stand bit,that's just taking it too far.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Because they want you to bend over backwards, do a hand stand and somersault through hoops of fire before your 'worthy' of a reply

You should already know this man! "

how very unfair considering mostr men want us to become a superhuman pretzal that says ooh and ahh in all the right places for him, when we meet..

howver you are obviously a man of very few words..you havent even bothered to write a profile at all..are we all supposed to swoon over your torso pic?

maybe i should bend you over and give you a good spanking....hehehe

the reason is too many messages and those that still msg after ive placed in my profile..please give me a break...cant be bothered to read..neither can i x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always look at a profile before I reply to a message. What puts me off..

pictures full of cock shots. one is good but I dont need to see ur penis from every angle and in colour then b&w. A penis is a penis and they all look the same.

no pictures at all

one liner profiles, saying things along the line of "well endowed looking for NSA"

"will fill this in later"

if the profile does nt interest me because the owner cant be bothered to even fill it in or be original, then I wont reply to a message.

thats just me everyones different

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"If it's a one word message saying hi from a black silhouette then they get deleted

If fancy a fuck or nice tits are in the first line that goes too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems the op has improved his profile! Well done.

Now all he needs is a willing lady to reply, just don't send one saying nice tits let me slide my cock between them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seems the op has improved his profile! Well done.

Now all he needs is a willing lady to reply, just don't send one saying nice tits let me slide my cock between them "

Thanks for the feedback on the profile update and no I won't follow that tact haha

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Why is it that some females you send don't even read messages?"

They look at your name, avatar, photos and profile and decide they aren't interested so there's no point in reading the message.

They may also be able to tell from the preview, first few words, that they're not interested.

If they don't fancy you, there's unlikely to be anything you can say that will change that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that some females you send don't even read messages?"

I read them but if no face pic is sent and its a hi how are you, I delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes they use the green arrow of truth. "

Gotta love that green arrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly look at pics and profile, if i don't fancy someone i won't look at their message and delete it. Might reply saying they aren't what i want if the message was polite."

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that some females you send don't even read messages?"

I look at the profile first and if it doesn't interest me, i delete the message. Also, if the beginning of the message is poorly written, i delete it. Or if it starts like a porno, i delete it. If a message you send is deleted or read or unanswered, take it as a no and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly look at pics and profile, if i don't fancy someone i won't look at their message and delete it. Might reply saying they aren't what i want if the message was polite."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nof just females and suppose most folk do same if a message say from as happens straight bloke wanting my cock i rarely open it.

Same if folk hundreds of mile away asking for meet etc it aint going to happen.

I do reply to some of the above though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that some females you send don't even read messages?"

I look at profiles before deciding on whether to read the message.

If the profile doesn't match what I'm looking for I delete the message.

If a face pic is sent that looks glum, again I'll delete.

Plenty reasons people don't read messages, and as far as I'm aware we aren't obliged to read them

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I might be wrong, yep it does happen..... The answer probably lies in the dozens of other threads asking the same qudstion.

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