FabSwingers.com forum: Why doesn't anyone reply to me

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been on here a while now and haven't met anyone, just wondering weather to give up or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll give the same advice I give to many.

SMILE!

Redo your pictures to look a lot more friendly, at the moment you look like a crime watch participant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look good naked, i fabbed the pic i was on about.

Your area might be quiet for meets maybe? Up to you if you give up or not, you could always take a break and come back when feeling more positive?

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By *rSwaggerMan
over a year ago

Northants

"I've been on here a while now and haven't met anyone, just wondering weather to give up or not"

It can be a killer put off when you don't practice safe sex... something to consider

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loose that first paragraph about relationships and love.

This is a swingers site not match.com, its a given we not here for love.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Loose that first paragraph about relationships and love.

This is a swingers site not match.com, its a given we not here for love. "

It actually isn't a given, plenty are on here looking for something serious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you try going to an organised social. And for me , personally , I generally dislike cock pic avatars. Good luck though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aside from the pathetic 2 line profile which shows no effort, you seem to have quite a few friends, how about actually meeting them?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

At the moment I only looked at the status and that was enough for me to turn away

Negativity is a turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock profile pic will probably have many just deleting your message before its even read, sorry to be harsh.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"At the moment I only looked at the status and that was enough for me to turn away

Negativity is a turn off"

This: plus the cock pic avatar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both the last posts are so true. Profile is very poor, and desparation isn't very attractive.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I've been on here a while now and haven't met anyone, just wondering weather to give up or not"

Lovely whether down here in Brighton. Bright and sunny. You might get to meet someone by having a better profile. Some people might think that if you can't be bothered to put some effort in to your profile, why should people bother meeting you? A poster above mentioned you had unsafe sex photos? They have gone.

Try reading some threads about profile advice and your chances of meeting might improve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone finds being "fucking desperate" a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prob best if you leave mate...leave them all to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look like everyone's teenage son.

Whilst a young attractive face is an asset in later life, it may be a teeny hindrance here. Consider moving your face pics to your friends folder and adding some more tasteful body shots to public? That way you can develop rapport with folk based on your age and personality without running the risk of potential fabbers being reminded of their kids when looking at your profile.

Clearly ignore all of the above advice for fabbers without teens. Just smile more.

Finally, add more to your profile about what you're interested in exploring here (yours essentially says I'll fuck anyone except MM couples), as it will give you more personality.

Good luck.

Hope this is of use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on here a while now and haven't met anyone, just wondering weather to give up or not"

The total lack of effort in your profile could have something to do with it

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Wow fantastic profile, booking helicopter now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest but brutal....

Short negative profile.

Very negative status.

Dull miserable looking pictures

No effort.

If you were a woman would you look twice at your profile? Thought not....now go away and start again.

There are hundreds of similar threads on these forums. Loads of advice....mostly ignored!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

You're young and good looking...go out...talk to people...I know it's a bit old fashioned but it works.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"At the moment I only looked at the status and that was enough for me to turn away

Negativity is a turn off

This: plus the cock pic avatar."

I didn't notice that?

OMG I have gone cock blind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on here a while now and haven't met anyone, just wondering weather to give up or not"

Your desperation is clear to all. Your profile status makes it crystal clear.

If you are that desperate and you clearly haven't met anyone in everyday life, you always have the option of paying for it.

Nobody gives sympathy fucks on here as far as we know.

Enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At the moment I only looked at the status and that was enough for me to turn away

Negativity is a turn off

This: plus the cock pic avatar.

I didn't notice that?

OMG I have gone cock blind

You've seen too many..... You're now immune to the male member.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"I've been on here a while now and haven't met anyone, just wondering weather to give up or not"
. It might help if your profile told us a little about you . You have no hobbies or interests listed ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the site is saturated with men, you need patience lol.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Because the site is saturated with men, you need patience lol."

He also needs to make an effort on his profile etc. Patience alone probably won't help much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because the site is saturated with men, you need patience lol.

He also needs to make an effort on his profile etc. Patience alone probably won't help much."

Much what I was thinking.

Clearly his current approach isn't working.

As the saying goes, change your approach or change your expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because the site is saturated with men, you need patience lol.

He also needs to make an effort on his profile etc. Patience alone probably won't help much."
Yes thats right, a good profile helps to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because the site is saturated with men, you need patience lol.

He also needs to make an effort on his profile etc. Patience alone probably won't help much.Yes thats right, a good profile helps to."

And a 6 pack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because the site is saturated with men, you need patience lol.

He also needs to make an effort on his profile etc. Patience alone probably won't help much.Yes thats right, a good profile helps to.

And a 6 pack

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lol yes, who can forget the 6pack

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Your profile is crap, did you really need me to say that? Are you sure you couldn't work it out for yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd pose the question - why should anyone reply or message? What are you doing that is different, whilst maintaining your true personality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on here a while now and haven't met anyone, just wondering weather to give up or not"

Yeah I would give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you look like you're about to burst into tears in your profile pic, try smiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give up - maybe rewrite your profile a bit and get along to a social. There must be one in Hull somewhere.

Also put effort into writing a nice message that speaks to the person you want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No1 replys to me it's ok

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