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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd like to appeal more to couples does anyone have any advice please? Thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a female swing partner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get a female swing partner "
thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get a female swing partner "
am I less likely to appeal on my own?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile seems okay... Just have patience.

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By *ea and SugarCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Get a female swing partner am I less likely to appeal on my own?"

Yes less likely, but your profile is better than many single guys, and you've already had a couple of meets so you're doing ok so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get a female swing partner am I less likely to appeal on my own?"

You will appeal to some couples I'm sure, but statistically you will always do better as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile seems okay... Just have patience. "

I agree with this. I'm not sure there is much more you can do to appeal to couples specifically except to have patience and write messages that show you read their profile. Good luck!

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How could I make my profile better if it's ok? That's not being funny it's being genuine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it better not to have a cock pic?

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By *ea and SugarCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"How could I make my profile better if it's ok? That's not being funny it's being genuine "

Maybe a little more about specifically what you can offer a couple in a meet, and then get out there, maybe attend a social at a club or an arranged Fab social, they are held regularly in Manchester, Leeds, Sheffield, Newcastle and various other places, good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How could I make my profile better if it's ok? That's not being funny it's being genuine

Maybe a little more about specifically what you can offer a couple in a meet, and then get out there, maybe attend a social at a club or an arranged Fab social, they are held regularly in Manchester, Leeds, Sheffield, Newcastle and various other places, good luck"
thank you very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile & pics are great, lots of info.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile & pics are great, lots of info.

Good luck"
thank you one love

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We're no experts by a long way however....

There's a few grammar and spelling errors in your profile which can make a difference to some. But the content isn't bad.

Pics look ok and tasteful. We'd say take the plunge and visit a club or two or socials going on.

Maybe look for friendly couples or females to meet at a club. If you go for it don't hang with the crowd put yourself out there, approach people you are interested in and address both of the couple. If I don't get on with a guy he stands no chance with my Mrs

There's a couple of festivals going on soon. Swingfields and the Vanilla alternative's festival of fun. Both worth a look.

From what we have seen those that get involved in the social side of things get known and are much more successful.

Hope that helps you out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're no experts by a long way however....

There's a few grammar and spelling errors in your profile which can make a difference to some. But the content isn't bad.

Pics look ok and tasteful. We'd say take the plunge and visit a club or two or socials going on.

Maybe look for friendly couples or females to meet at a club. If you go for it don't hang with the crowd put yourself out there, approach people you are interested in and address both of the couple. If I don't get on with a guy he stands no chance with my Mrs

There's a couple of festivals going on soon. Swingfields and the Vanilla alternative's festival of fun. Both worth a look.

From what we have seen those that get involved in the social side of things get known and are much more successful.

Hope that helps you out"
thanks mate I'll check my profile now for the spelling mistakes

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By *isalikesitWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Boooooo you've hidden the cock pics I always like to see one, just so you have a idea of size etc (don't believe those that say "if you seen one, you've seen them all"!!! It's so not true!!)

I'd also perhaps lose a few of the body builder pics, as they might make a male in the couple feel intimidated by how good your six pack is or think that's all you care about.

Otherwise a really nice profile and if you want help at your next pud quiz, give me a shout, I love puddings

Lisa

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Keep an eye out for the York Social. There's just been one so next one will be in a couple of months. There's a fair few people from Leeds go, and I dragged a single guy along last time to introduce him to the scene.

Also, this might sound silly, but look for couples who are looking for single guys. You'd be surprised how many men get that wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks again pud quiz pmsl haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is that better I've tweaked the profile took some pics out and put others in.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

we're well out of your age range so you might want to ignore this but personally I don't think you need the bit about never being truly happy.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we're well out of your age range so you might want to ignore this but personally I don't think you need the bit about never being truly happy.

Good luck Thank I've taken it out x"
Thanks ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you to everyone who took the time to view my profile and offer advice, it has all been taken on board thanks again you lovely lot!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of men in couples will not want their woman being fucked by a big muscular man. We have had same problem when meeting other cpls. Pretend to be skinny, or target only those who actively advertise for muscular men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we went for white straight guys we would snap you up as i can't beta to guys who arn't built like an alpha! But we don't. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn boy, if I was in a couple you would certainly appeal!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lot of men in couples will not want their woman being fucked by a big muscular man. We have had same problem when meeting other cpls. Pretend to be skinny, or target only those who actively advertise for muscular men."
really I can't pretend to be something I'm not surely they'd be a surprise when I turned up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Damn boy, if I was in a couple you would certainly appeal!"
thanks pixie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of men in couples will not want their woman being fucked by a big muscular man. We have had same problem when meeting other cpls. Pretend to be skinny, or target only those who actively advertise for muscular men. really I can't pretend to be something I'm not surely they'd be a surprise when I turned up"

Was being faceitious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks clem

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"A lot of men in couples will not want their woman being fucked by a big muscular man. We have had same problem when meeting other cpls. Pretend to be skinny, or target only those who actively advertise for muscular men. really I can't pretend to be something I'm not surely they'd be a surprise when I turned up"

Oh I don't know we've had people claim to be a certain age and be quite another when they turn up

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

I would lose the cock shot and the dreadful silver thong pic...

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

I would also put your profile into paragraphs as it's easier to read.

I would lose the name "gymfit" as it sounds like you're a bit of a narcasist, which can put people off.

Check your spelling of Physical too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to appeal more to couples does anyone have any advice please? Thanks in advance "

Advice: move to south Wales

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By *rSwaggerMan
over a year ago

Northants


"Thanks clem"

You talk alot of your world ourside of fab.. alot of couples are in fact nervous and want to concentrate on the job in hand.. alot of outside personal life quotes..

Hope it helps...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to appeal more to couples does anyone have any advice please? Thanks in advance

Advice: move to south Wales "

Or better still Gloucester

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys any advice on a user name then?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks guys any advice on a user name then?"

If you like it stick with it. Don't try and change too much or try to make yourself appeal to all couples.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Seems to be a lot about what you want rather than what you offer on your profile.

Also most people are not interested in being used as guinea pigs so that you can find out what you want or like.

They prefer to meet people who enjoy what they enjoy not be experiment number 27A in the quest for a perfect partner.

Forget what you want think about what you can offer.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Is that better I've tweaked the profile took some pics out and put others in."

much better now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seems to be a lot about what you want rather than what you offer on your profile.

Also most people are not interested in being used as guinea pigs so that you can find out what you want or like.

They prefer to meet people who enjoy what they enjoy not be experiment number 27A in the quest for a perfect partner.

Forget what you want think about what you can offer.

"
didn't mean it to sound this way just being honest

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Thanks guys any advice on a user name then?"

Thought your current one was pretty accurate to be honest.

You're never going to be a fit for everyone. Just got to be who you are and be brave enough to put yourself out there.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Your profile text and pics look fine to me.

Patience is often needed on here and a bit of luck. I think its often a case of messaging the right people at the right time, not just what you say in a message.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Great profile pity we don't go up North often. Not sure about the just getting out a relationship thing but that's just me. Good luck but think you'll do just fine.

Him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone for the advice much appreciated and I wish you all the very best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you'll do relitively well just in general, profile is well written, pictures are good if anything a little pose-ish but you have a beautiful body and by the looks of it a great personality, just be patient, read profiles and email those that either suit your profile or vise versa and the main thing.. Have lots of fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you'll do relitively well just in general, profile is well written, pictures are good if anything a little pose-ish but you have a beautiful body and by the looks of it a great personality, just be patient, read profiles and email those that either suit your profile or vise versa and the main thing.. Have lots of fun! "
thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it better not to have a cock pic?"

yes as a single male its better to have a cock yes

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