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By *ort123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tredegar

I have a promblem, At 41 years of age i have never experienced a happy ending from a blow job. Many have tried (and tried and tried), but i cannot release my load.

However the bigger problem is the 'unhappy' ending i sometimes get....... i have been known to be on the edge only to accidentally (and i genuinely mean accidentally) pee in the recipients mouth.

im interested to know if its just me or are there any other guys out there that have experienced this problem, and if so how have you over come it????

Interested to hear from ladies too if they have been on the receiving end ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems you need to see a proffesional ie gp and see what they say initially in case a blockage etc.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Are you able to orgasm without this problem in vaginal sex? Hand jobs? Anal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you emptied your bladder for playing

Some guys can't come due to the need to urinate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here neither a happy ending with a bj but with a twist do, if I gag her I will cum, I recon cos of the intensity of it.

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By *arbieMan
over a year ago

county durham

I have had loads ov lasses try make me cum with a blow job and can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy the bj, finish off yourself if you have too. Show consideration for your partner

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Seems you need to see a proffesional ie gp and see what they say initially in case a blockage etc."

his GP isnt going to give him a blow job ,

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Seems you need to see a proffesional ie gp and see what they say initially in case a blockage etc.

his GP isnt going to give him a blow job , "

it's hard enough to get an appointment as it is, can you imagine if they started handing out blow jobs!

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By *ort123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tredegar


"Seems you need to see a proffesional ie gp and see what they say initially in case a blockage etc.

his GP isnt going to give him a blow job ,

it's hard enough to get an appointment as it is, can you imagine if they started handing out blow jobs! "

lol

cheers guys. i can finish off normally by hand & full sex. but not from bjs.

i can empty my bladder fully before and still no luck.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same here neither a happy ending with a bj but with a twist do, if I gag her I will cum, I recon cos of the intensity of it."

How does that work?

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I think most bjs include some hand action to.

Even in porn most finish with there hand included.

There are no prizes for technique. It's not performance art. Just do what works. I'm sure the lady will not miNDA helping hand.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Seems you need to see a proffesional ie gp and see what they say initially in case a blockage etc.

his GP isnt going to give him a blow job , "

he might if he asks nicely lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was similar when I was younger.I encourage the woman to use her hand at the same time and that does the trick.

I'm guessing now that some sort of anxiety about it means a severe lack of enjoyment and a happy ending...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems you need to see a proffesional ie gp and see what they say initially in case a blockage etc.

his GP isnt going to give him a blow job ,

he might if he asks nicely lol "
what about bupa?

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By *ort123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tredegar


"Seems you need to see a proffesional ie gp and see what they say initially in case a blockage etc.

his GP isnt going to give him a blow job ,

he might if he asks nicely lol what about bupa?"

bupa lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Can you get blowjobs on bupa... I'd consider joining if that's true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have this problem/benefit too...well, without the watersports accident lol

I'm still trying to find a woman who can make me cum with her mouth.......

Still waiting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see the big deal if you can't, as long as you're enjoying yourself anyway.

At the end of the day, it's not porn 'money shot' time - it's real sex, with you and your chosen partner as real people, having a good time pleasuring each other. Enjoy what works for YOU and don't sweat what doesn't. Unlikely to happen while you're so conscious of it too.

That said, I'd get checked out re the accidental peeing by a gp, rule out anything sinister or malfunctioning..

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

There is a big secret about bj that most never say and I'll tell you what it is.

The best thing about a bj is more often the fact that she's willing to give you one rather than the bj itself.

I often don't cum while having the bj but it always gets me more aroused and always feels pretty good to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will happen. Wow when it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems you need to see a proffesional ie gp and see what they say initially in case a blockage etc.

his GP isnt going to give him a blow job ,

it's hard enough to get an appointment as it is, can you imagine if they started handing out blow jobs! "

Pmsl

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By *p4u77Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Pee on me anytime

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I was similar when I was younger.I encourage the woman to use her hand at the same time and that does the trick.

I'm guessing now that some sort of anxiety about it means a severe lack of enjoyment and a happy ending..."

I've never experienced orgasm from just a BJ without manual assistance, no matter how minimal..this is quite normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had blow jobs from many different partners before I could cum.

I thought I was the odd one out but it seems to be common. My issue was purely physiological and it took a long term partner to make me realise that.

I suppose it's the 'not being in control' element, as soon as I let go and relaxed there was no problem. Just enjoy it and don't think/make it an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a woman to finger your ass why sucking your cock, usually works for guys I play with.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

To be honest in my experience many women think they give good blow jobs but they don't.

While there's no such thing as a bad one because they all feel good, feeling good and having the sperm sucked out of you is very different

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Seems you need to see a proffesional ie gp and see what they say initially in case a blockage etc.

his GP isnt going to give him a blow job ,

it's hard enough to get an appointment as it is, can you imagine if they started handing out blow jobs!

Pmsl "

Sounds like you need to see a gp to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you tell the woman beforehand that you don't come from a bj? Are they doing it to try to make you come? If you're both trying to make it happen you're putting pressure on yourselves. Use oral as foreplay and don't expect to or try to come. Enjoy it for what it is. A mouth,willingly sucking on your cock

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By *ort123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tredegar


"Pee on me anytime "

next time im in blackpool then......

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By *p4u77Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Pee on me anytime

next time im in blackpool then......"
u r on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never cum during a blow job. Never accidently peed on anyone either tho that's a good thing. I've tryed to cum during a blow job and the "chosen partner" always complains of a saw jaw and stops can Finnish manually or during sex just not oraly even with the assistance of a hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never cum during a blow job. Never accidently peed on anyone either tho that's a good thing. I've tryed to cum during a blow job and the "chosen partner" always complains of a saw jaw and stops can Finnish manually or during sex just not oraly even with the assistance of a hand."

If anyone would like to try there more than welcome too. And they can veryfy me at the same time

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