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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you tell your partner you want a 3 sum or mmf

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By *museme69Woman
over a year ago

leicester

I think you just need to be honest, ask them how they feel about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wel just don't know wat wat she react at me bein bi

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Wel just don't know wat wat she react at me bein bi"

How could she not know? Not having a go, just interested and sort of amazed really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea wel that's true I suppose. Do u like watchin 2 guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start by showing them your fab profile....take it from there.?

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"Yea wel that's true I suppose. Do u like watchin 2 guys"

Not sure if that question was meant for me, but Mr meets a fair few guys in tube club situation and I love it. I do not often play with anyone apart from him, although have recently been having some stirrings. It is great to see him in action with another guy or indeed another woman.

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By *ssex couple 4uCouple
over a year ago

witham

I used to put 3some porn films on, then asked the wife if she liked the idea of it.. The rest is history..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you tell your partner you want a 3 sum or mmf"

I think that's the least of your problems does she know you have been meeting men from the Internet

I think thAt will be harder for her to come to terms with

It's a funny old world but as a general rule when your in a relationship you don't have sex with others it's s trust thing

Bi people as well as straight gay or any of t's can still be faithful to one partner and saying your Bi is not going to make the cheating any better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was yea thanks. Wel hopefully she s the same as you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wel I don't plan on tellin her I have been meetin men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wel I don't plan on tellin her I have been meetin men"

So how do reckon if you cAnt be honest that this lifestyle is for you

This is all based on trust between partners which you clearly don't have

My advice is delete your profile work on your relationship when it is strong enough for you to be truthful tell her

Other than that pack your bags as you will be living with mummy when she finds out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good way to test the water would be too say something like. Hey I had a dream last night that we had a threesome,do you want me to tell you about it? , and see how it goes from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wel just don't know wat wat she react at me bein bi

How could she not know? Not having a go, just interested and sort of amazed really"

No one knew I was until I told my then GF at the ripe old age of 42.

Even my mother didn't have a clue.

It's not always obvious to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to her about your fantasies find out hers maybe a little alcohol. Really get her to open up about what she is keeping hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you tell your partner you want a 3 sum or mmf"

"So I've got this profile on a swingers site...

...no... I've totally not been looking to meet people without you babe..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wel just don't know wat wat she react at me bein bi"

Probably a lot better than to the news you've been cheating on her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talk to her about your fantasies find out hers maybe a little alcohol. Really get her to open up about what she is keeping hidden. "

Well that's not creepy as fuck at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wel I don't plan on tellin her I have been meetin men

So how do reckon if you cAnt be honest that this lifestyle is for you

This is all based on trust between partners which you clearly don't have

My advice is delete your profile work on your relationship when it is strong enough for you to be truthful tell her

Other than that pack your bags as you will be living with mummy when she finds out "

So manipulate the poor girl till she's too invested to leave when she finds out he's a cheat?

Place is fully of classy advice tonight.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You make your own moral code, as we all do. Start investing time in her. Communicate and progressively become more open. Respect her boundaries, as she may never want to discuss, let alone experience, any such thing.

You may or may not be compatible, depending on whether either of you is willing to change the structure of your relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start by showing them your fab profile....take it from there.?"

then see the expression

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