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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been on and off this site for nearly 3 years now. Why is it so difficult to find a fuck buddy from this site...its like looking for a needle in a haystack

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"I have been on and off this site for nearly 3 years now. Why is it so difficult to find a fuck buddy from this site...its like looking for a needle in a haystack "

I do not believe you can't find one.....!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You probably need a map.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I been looking for 7 years lol, next to impossible lol

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"I been looking for 7 years lol, next to impossible lol "

The OP is female, wherein lies the problem??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I been looking for 7 years lol, next to impossible lol

The OP is female, wherein lies the problem??"
Yes that's right, its usually about distance you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would still.have one but he had to move because of his job. Can't seem to get another at the moment

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Seek them here seek them there yet you will never find one ......

Keep trying - I am !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try not looking for one x it worked for us x

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Hmm now there is a thought, sit back and wait for someone to message me .... I think I will try it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it'd be easier to find a unicorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it'd be easier to find a unicorn "

You know don't you, a Rhino is just a fat unicorn!!! Hope that helps - you're welcome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it'd be easier to find a unicorn "

A herd of unicorns were sighted North East heading direction Bury/Manchester....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a FB! Unfortunately, all the chaps I've met from this site just don't get it. Ho hum!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Don't say that OP I'm on the lookout for a new one since being 'fab dumped' lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a bf and tell him what your into and tell him what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm beginning to think I have more chance of winning the lottery than finding the oh so elusive genuine friend with benefits....ho hum a girl can dream lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on and off this site for nearly 3 years now. Why is it so difficult to find a fuck buddy from this site...its like looking for a needle in a haystack "

I thought I had one, so he kept saying. Haven't heard from him for two weeks so it's over. Not worth it unless they can do what I was promised and never got

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on and off this site for nearly 3 years now. Why is it so difficult to find a fuck buddy from this site...its like looking for a needle in a haystack "

I would love to be your fuck buddy x

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I think anyone 'you' actually would select as a FB just doesn't live in the right area...

Just the way it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on and off this site for nearly 3 years now. Why is it so difficult to find a fuck buddy from this site...its like looking for a needle in a haystack "

Invest in a magnet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't say that OP I'm on the lookout for a new one since being 'fab dumped' lol "

You have got one or two irons in the fire though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm it's delicious when you do find one x

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"I would still.have one but he had to move because of his job. Can't seem to get another at the moment "

I would happily be your FB if we was not so far apart x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've had a fb request on my profile for about a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on and off this site for nearly 3 years now. Why is it so difficult to find a fuck buddy from this site...its like looking for a needle in a haystack "

Because they are a myth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not difficult for a woman

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I have been on and off this site for nearly 3 years now. Why is it so difficult to find a fuck buddy from this site...its like looking for a needle in a haystack

Because they are a myth "

No they're not, it might take a while but when you find one that's just right it's great

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It's not difficult for a woman "

Then it shouldn't be difficult for a guy otherwise who is she being a fuckbuddy with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not difficult for a woman

Then it shouldn't be difficult for a guy otherwise who is she being a fuckbuddy with? "

I had one once, and yes, it was amazing, but it ended badly. I guess that was my only chance because I've never found another in more than two years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a regular one. Found out he was meeting others and not telling me. A pact we made to be honest. Think I found d another one who just asked if I was still free at 1pm Sunday... He never asked me so who did he ask???

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover

I've not found one yet, buts it is harder then just finding a one off meet as youre looking for more of a connection.

So you need the physical and mental compatibility.

However I live in hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not difficult for a woman "

It blooming is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a fb but they need to have at least some intelligence. I think im asking too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done ok, you just haven't met the right people, one of my fb's has been going for 2 years now. Hang in there, it'll happen

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"I have been on and off this site for nearly 3 years now. Why is it so difficult to find a fuck buddy from this site...its like looking for a needle in a haystack "

your looking in the wrong place ,,, i am over here ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not difficult for a woman

It blooming is!"

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By *urvybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

tidworth

I can't find one either!

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

A friend of mine says it took her 4 years to find one.I may have found one after only 14 months.Early days but I'm optimistic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not difficult for a woman

It blooming is! "
it's mission impossible for a dude like me lol !

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd like a friend with benefits as I already have a regular-ish fuckbuddy. Though that's not a good description really as she is more a lady I've met several times.

Same I suppose.

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By *ragon n julesCouple
over a year ago

nr swadlincote


"I have been on and off this site for nearly 3 years now. Why is it so difficult to find a fuck buddy from this site...its like looking for a needle in a haystack "

I recently found one .. been searching nearly 5 years . And im female ..

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I am still waiting to be found,,,, me thinks i got lost ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not impossible. I have the most gorgeous fb. Took me a while to find him though. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies finding it hard, Whatever next....?

If it helps for any ladies in Worcestershire needing FB..... I am offering my services lol!

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"I can't find one either! "

Offer to take them out for the day on your yacht!

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

F B required apply in writing with cv ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep thinking I've found him and then something stops it. Wives appear, they shag anything that looks at them, they get secretive and lie to me. Men generally want the fuck and not the buddy and the ones who do are not normally available.

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By *urvybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

tidworth


"I can't find one either!

Offer to take them out for the day on your yacht! "

Oh gosh! Yes I shall!

Ahoy there!

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"I can't find one either!

Offer to take them out for the day on your yacht!

Oh gosh! Yes I shall!

Ahoy there! "

dont rock the boat .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't find one either! "

I can't find one either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not difficult for a woman

It blooming is!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't find one either!

I can't find one either "
iv give up luckin lol

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By *ordweaver2018Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Got three but it buy one was from here... I have more luck on other sites.

Depends what you are looking for and what you want.

I was lucky.

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By *ordweaver2018Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

But only*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one for almost two years. It was brilliant.

I have not been able to find another. Friends who might be free occasionally to pop over and 'enjoy my company' are easier to find as are guys who want one off meets or to chat but never meet.

I just want a bloke who enjoys having a social life and sex but is not wanting to introduce me to his family. Too much? Seems that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on and off this site for nearly 3 years now. Why is it so difficult to find a fuck buddy from this site...its like looking for a needle in a haystack "

Unfortunately most people just want the one off meet. Yes it is hard to have a regular FB as I am still looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had one for almost two years. It was brilliant.

I have not been able to find another. Friends who might be free occasionally to pop over and 'enjoy my company' are easier to find as are guys who want one off meets or to chat but never meet.

I just want a bloke who enjoys having a social life and sex but is not wanting to introduce me to his family. Too much? Seems that way."

I actually had one for a while.....she did introduce me to her mum...as her fuck buddy!

Also a number of her friends and the Lady Mayor of Droitwich. Talk about open?

She is now married, and still swinging, with someone she met at one of my parties.....takes all sorts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on and off this site for nearly 3 years now. Why is it so difficult to find a fuck buddy from this site...its like looking for a needle in a haystack "

I guess I got lucky, I've got two. However I didn't find them on here, you need to look elsewhere!

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"I have been on and off this site for nearly 3 years now. Why is it so difficult to find a fuck buddy from this site...its like looking for a needle in a haystack

I guess I got lucky, I've got two. However I didn't find them on here, you need to look elsewhere! "

Great shout... This is not really the tool for finding an FB.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am amazed, all these gorgeous women who struggle to find FB's

Surely by frequenting this site alone there's an abundance of willing guys!?

Where is the line drawn on a FB, between someone you share regular sex with (plus others) and a boyfriend?

Could that be the issue?

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By *urvybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

tidworth


"I am amazed, all these gorgeous women who struggle to find FB's

Surely by frequenting this site alone there's an abundance of willing guys!?

Where is the line drawn on a FB, between someone you share regular sex with (plus others) and a boyfriend?

Could that be the issue?"

Actually yeh, could someone just throw a boyfriend at me, without all the commitment crap, that doesn't mind me fucking other men?! That'd be great!

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"I'm beginning to think I have more chance of winning the lottery than finding the oh so elusive genuine friend with benefits....ho hum a girl can dream lol "

Yep...me too....bloody impossible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am amazed, all these gorgeous women who struggle to find FB's

Surely by frequenting this site alone there's an abundance of willing guys!?

Where is the line drawn on a FB, between someone you share regular sex with (plus others) and a boyfriend?

Could that be the issue?"

Many women probably do want a borderline boyfriend and yes I'm probably guilty of that. But I have an amazing husband who would know all about it and share experiences too. I always thought that would be an ideal situation for lots of men.

I won't want to move in with them or meet their families. I just want regular filth and to know they'd want to meet socially occasionally if the sex bit wasn't possible for whatever reason.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

If they want me they will find me , its not as if i am lost , just misplaced , waveing from the back of the row ,

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"I am amazed, all these gorgeous women who struggle to find FB's

Surely by frequenting this site alone there's an abundance of willing guys!?

Where is the line drawn on a FB, between someone you share regular sex with (plus others) and a boyfriend?

Could that be the issue?

Many women probably do want a borderline boyfriend and yes I'm probably guilty of that. But I have an amazing husband who would know all about it and share experiences too. I always thought that would be an ideal situation for lots of men.

I won't want to move in with them or meet their families. I just want regular filth and to know they'd want to meet socially occasionally if the sex bit wasn't possible for whatever reason. "

I think your right there...

I get talking to quite a few who want someone they trust, who they can do things with they would never with a one off...

And the problem is, it has to be managed, because in that situation feelings come into play.

We say they won't, but they do and guys feel this happening early on.

If you get it right, you can engage in real fantasy fulfilment, but never think that your heart won't get involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to find a fuck buddy too or a friends with benefits. No idea why because I'm an absolute fucking delight.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"I struggle to find a fuck buddy too or a friends with benefits. No idea why because I'm an absolute fucking delight. "

I wish I lived closer that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I struggle to find a fuck buddy too or a friends with benefits. No idea why because I'm an absolute fucking delight.

I wish I lived closer that's for sure "

You and me both!

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over a year ago

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

A friend of mine had a fuck buddy for a couple of years.

She would meet him quite regularly.

Then one day he said he had a job offer in Dubai.

Of cause he went, but she missed him terribly.

Of cause she knew he had to go, but she was still connected to him.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Ladylick I would love to help you out with your search for a fb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am amazed, all these gorgeous women who struggle to find FB's

Surely by frequenting this site alone there's an abundance of willing guys!?

Where is the line drawn on a FB, between someone you share regular sex with (plus others) and a boyfriend?

Could that be the issue?

Many women probably do want a borderline boyfriend and yes I'm probably guilty of that. But I have an amazing husband who would know all about it and share experiences too. I always thought that would be an ideal situation for lots of men.

I won't want to move in with them or meet their families. I just want regular filth and to know they'd want to meet socially occasionally if the sex bit wasn't possible for whatever reason.

I think your right there...

I get talking to quite a few who want someone they trust, who they can do things with they would never with a one off...

And the problem is, it has to be managed, because in that situation feelings come into play.

We say they won't, but they do and guys feel this happening early on.

If you get it right, you can engage in real fantasy fulfilment, but never think that your heart won't get involved."

I partly agree that there will be some form of involvement especially exploring the levels that you are talking about, but for me I have everything to satisfy my emotional needs from my husband so that side of things doesn't interest me. It's hard to explain but i think you can have involvement without emotional attachment. ..It's just finding those that are able to have that type of relationship that is the tricky bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am amazed, all these gorgeous women who struggle to find FB's

Surely by frequenting this site alone there's an abundance of willing guys!?

Where is the line drawn on a FB, between someone you share regular sex with (plus others) and a boyfriend?

Could that be the issue?

Many women probably do want a borderline boyfriend and yes I'm probably guilty of that. But I have an amazing husband who would know all about it and share experiences too. I always thought that would be an ideal situation for lots of men.

I won't want to move in with them or meet their families. I just want regular filth and to know they'd want to meet socially occasionally if the sex bit wasn't possible for whatever reason.

I think your right there...

I get talking to quite a few who want someone they trust, who they can do things with they would never with a one off...

And the problem is, it has to be managed, because in that situation feelings come into play.

We say they won't, but they do and guys feel this happening early on.

If you get it right, you can engage in real fantasy fulfilment, but never think that your heart won't get involved.

I partly agree that there will be some form of involvement especially exploring the levels that you are talking about, but for me I have everything to satisfy my emotional needs from my husband so that side of things doesn't interest me. It's hard to explain but i think you can have involvement without emotional attachment. ..It's just finding those that are able to have that type of relationship that is the tricky bit."

My husband gets a lot out of me being with someone else and if there's some connection and mutual respect he enjoys it even more. I think someone like that we could call on regularly is a complete dream. I have enjoyed a couple of year long 'relationships' that just lost their spark and am willing to keep looking but it's exhausting.

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By *ireball321Man
over a year ago

hayle

Hi

have had a male FB for about 20+ years and for most of that time its been good dirty fun. But it seems to have become a bit dull and one sided I take some of the blame for this and its got to the point that as long as he can use my internet conection and look at porn while wanking himself off thats all he wants apert from me sucking him off and a big fat zero in return.I have just about had enouth of this so im thinking of getteing shot of him . However Although I have met a few new people and had some fun nothing is as regular as my FB ,I have been looking for sure for years but nothing tbh so do I get rid or think somthing is better than nothing. Yes a lot of this is my fault for letting it get this way . But I think I will get rid even if there is nothing to replace it with on a regular baisis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on and off this site for nearly 3 years now. Why is it so difficult to find a fuck buddy from this site...its like looking for a needle in a haystack "

Basically your asking for someone who is good enough to fuck but not good enough to be seen in public with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on and off this site for nearly 3 years now. Why is it so difficult to find a fuck buddy from this site...its like looking for a needle in a haystack

Basically your asking for someone who is good enough to fuck but not good enough to be seen in public with

"
I would agree with that as its just about having sex not someone to go out with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am amazed, all these gorgeous women who struggle to find FB's

Surely by frequenting this site alone there's an abundance of willing guys!?

Where is the line drawn on a FB, between someone you share regular sex with (plus others) and a boyfriend?

Could that be the issue?"

I think the issue is finding someone that ticks all the boxes! If it's someone I'm going to see regularly I need good chemistry, banter, friendship as well as good sex tbh if I just wanted a fuck I have a drawer full of toys to sort that issue out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

..I regularly travel to kent and would love a FB...fem preferred. xx

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"I am amazed, all these gorgeous women who struggle to find FB's

Surely by frequenting this site alone there's an abundance of willing guys!?

Where is the line drawn on a FB, between someone you share regular sex with (plus others) and a boyfriend?

Could that be the issue?

I think the issue is finding someone that ticks all the boxes! If it's someone I'm going to see regularly I need good chemistry, banter, friendship as well as good sex tbh if I just wanted a fuck I have a drawer full of toys to sort that issue out! "

A drawer full eh?! Not that I'm surprised at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am amazed, all these gorgeous women who struggle to find FB's

Surely by frequenting this site alone there's an abundance of willing guys!?

Where is the line drawn on a FB, between someone you share regular sex with (plus others) and a boyfriend?

Could that be the issue?

I think the issue is finding someone that ticks all the boxes! If it's someone I'm going to see regularly I need good chemistry, banter, friendship as well as good sex tbh if I just wanted a fuck I have a drawer full of toys to sort that issue out!

A drawer full eh?! Not that I'm surprised at all! "

Don't know what you mean H

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By *eavensent78Couple
over a year ago

west mids

we been looking for a female f/b for like ever just not happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a female fb , now that is hard to find x

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"I have been on and off this site for nearly 3 years now. Why is it so difficult to find a fuck buddy from this site...its like looking for a needle in a haystack "

Becuase we dont want to shag anyone and have our preferences, its tough to find someone who ticks all the boxes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it'd be easier to find a unicorn "

Love to be your unicorn x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it'd be easier to find a unicorn "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Question for the ladies. Are the men you meet only interested in a one off? I like to get to know my friends, then I learn how to really drive them wild, one offs are fine, but I'd rather have a regular thing going, just curious really

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By *ordweaver2018Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

you have a lot of men on here - some are interested in just bedpost notches, or they don't tick your boxes...

Where is the line between fb and boyfriend? You want someone you connect with emotionally, can hang out with socially and have hot sex with???

This isn't the site for fuck buddies really - either it is a couple swinging (possibly what you are looking for but most people I know who want a fuck buddy Are looking for a single guy) or you have a variety of men who are all looking to stroke their egos and as a result tend to be quite possessive - if you get that connection a lot of them would struggle to share (a problem a few of my female friends have found on here).

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Question for the ladies. Are the men you meet only interested in a one off? I like to get to know my friends, then I learn how to really drive them wild, one offs are fine, but I'd rather have a regular thing going, just curious really"

I think most of the younger men I chat to are just looking for one offs. The guys similar age or older than me aren't tho. Maybe they just don't read my profile properly

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

We are surprised by how many people have said they struggle to find fuck buddies, especially the ladies. I (Mrs spicy) must be very lucky because I have a few.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Question for the ladies. Are the men you meet only interested in a one off? I like to get to know my friends, then I learn how to really drive them wild, one offs are fine, but I'd rather have a regular thing going, just curious really"

Trying to find a regular which seems virtually impossible on this site. I would just be happy with one friend with benefits if I could find him

Thanks everyone for the response

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"I think it'd be easier to find a unicorn "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"Question for the ladies. Are the men you meet only interested in a one off? I like to get to know my friends, then I learn how to really drive them wild, one offs are fine, but I'd rather have a regular thing going, just curious really

Trying to find a regular which seems virtually impossible on this site. I would just be happy with one friend with benefits if I could find him

Thanks everyone for the response "

maybe it is because your profiles states you are not looking for single men, we single males read profiles and respect preferences...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with earlier poster, I don't think some men get the whole FB thing, I have a few that do, but more that don't, but hey ho, always looking, you never know what's gonna pop round the corner

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"I have been on and off this site for nearly 3 years now. Why is it so difficult to find a fuck buddy from this site...its like looking for a needle in a haystack

Basically your asking for someone who is good enough to fuck but not good enough to be seen in public with

"

To be fair, that is not what the OP wrote or implied, her profile clearly states she is looking for a "partner in crime" the crime is inclusive of social meets...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Question for the ladies. Are the men you meet only interested in a one off? I like to get to know my friends, then I learn how to really drive them wild, one offs are fine, but I'd rather have a regular thing going, just curious really

Trying to find a regular which seems virtually impossible on this site. I would just be happy with one friend with benefits if I could find him

Thanks everyone for the response

maybe it is because your profiles states you are not looking for single men, we single males read profiles and respect preferences... "

True just change settings

If you read verfiy update it's states how many men and couples I've met

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"Question for the ladies. Are the men you meet only interested in a one off? I like to get to know my friends, then I learn how to really drive them wild, one offs are fine, but I'd rather have a regular thing going, just curious really

Trying to find a regular which seems virtually impossible on this site. I would just be happy with one friend with benefits if I could find him

Thanks everyone for the response

maybe it is because your profiles states you are not looking for single men, we single males read profiles and respect preferences...

True just change settings

If you read verfiy update it's states how many men and couples I've met "

You will be amazed by how many profiles I have come across that state the ubiquitous No single males, them read the verifications, and behold, 25 verifications from single males... I then ask myself, did these single men who verified put her off meeting single men, or am I in the twilight zone??

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

I've got an amazing FB. It wasn't meant to be a regular thing but our worlds collided and a year later it's our delicious secret. I met him on here. I also met 40+ other guys. I didn't click with any of them. It is a needle in a haystack.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I actually met a lady off here, we clicked in all the right ways and I thought she would be a regular meet, but her hubby (who initially said he wanted her to have a regular) then changed his mind.... Such a shame, but the search goes on for a less complicated scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've finally found an amazing fuckbuddy however I'm well aware it's not forever or even beyond when we become incompatible time/commitment wise.

I've pretty much stopped meeting apart from when I can't have him. The sex is phenomenonal and we really do get on. I'm glad he's committed elsewhere as this way I know that I can remain detached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The difficulty I have found with having a main fuck buddy/friend with benefits, whatever you want to call it, is jealousy. To me, if it is NSA, then it is, just that. So I expect to be able to meet a couple on my own, another woman or even another guy. I am open and honest, about what I am doing - don't hide it! I am more than happy for them to do the same - I expect it! So it is not that I have one rule for me and another for them. But then I have had issues in the past when I have been told, they don't want me to meet anyone else. They want to control who I meet etc etc. So it all falls down, as I end up feeling suffocated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im looking for a FB too but keep finding AHs

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"am I in the twilight zone?? "

I'll have you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taken me 3 years but I've finally hit the jackpot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im quiet surprised the amount of women who are looking for fuk buddies,plus the fact they cant find one... but then feelings always become part of sex.. that's always been my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The difficulty I have found with having a main fuck buddy/friend with benefits, whatever you want to call it, is jealousy. To me, if it is NSA, then it is, just that. So I expect to be able to meet a couple on my own, another woman or even another guy. I am open and honest, about what I am doing - don't hide it! I am more than happy for them to do the same - I expect it! So it is not that I have one rule for me and another for them. But then I have had issues in the past when I have been told, they don't want me to meet anyone else. They want to control who I meet etc etc. So it all falls down, as I end up feeling suffocated. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one but she turned out to be nutz! Still looking. No luck so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually yeh, could someone just throw a boyfriend at me, without all the commitment crap, that doesn't mind me fucking other men?! That'd be great! "

I have two, you're welcome to share.

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK

I find it hard to comprehend the fact that the gorgeous women in this thread can't find FB

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By *urvybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

tidworth


"Actually yeh, could someone just throw a boyfriend at me, without all the commitment crap, that doesn't mind me fucking other men?! That'd be great!

I have two, you're welcome to share. "

Yes please! Tuesdays and Fridays are good for me...

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

I would love to find a fb but being married is the big turn off for most women on here.

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By *ait88Man
over a year ago

Plymouth

You must mean "Fabulous" - the "F" word isn't allowed here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to have a fb but I'm not having any luck either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it hard to comprehend the fact that the gorgeous women in this thread can't find FB "

I'm not. You don't make friends every day on the internet, do you? And the word 'buddy' in 'fuck buddy' implies a friendship and a certain degree of 'would be seen outside the bedroom with them'

I don't know about you, but I don't come across people that often that I want to share both my social life and my bed with.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"I find it hard to comprehend the fact that the gorgeous women in this thread can't find FB

I'm not. You don't make friends every day on the internet, do you? And the word 'buddy' in 'fuck buddy' implies a friendship and a certain degree of 'would be seen outside the bedroom with them'

I don't know about you, but I don't come across people that often that I want to share both my social life and my bed with."

That's exactly it one or the other, both is rare.

Even if most guys look at it, how many of the girls they fuck would they spend any time outside the bedroom with?

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I find it hard to comprehend the fact that the gorgeous women in this thread can't find FB

I'm not. You don't make friends every day on the internet, do you? And the word 'buddy' in 'fuck buddy' implies a friendship and a certain degree of 'would be seen outside the bedroom with them'

I don't know about you, but I don't come across people that often that I want to share both my social life and my bed with."

Completely agree. I've yet to find anyone who can manage to meet more than once without hyperventilating about "feeling" that might develop.

I'd love to find someone who would fit this bill but sadly still looking for someone who can talk the talk and walk the walk.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"I find it hard to comprehend the fact that the gorgeous women in this thread can't find FB

I'm not. You don't make friends every day on the internet, do you? And the word 'buddy' in 'fuck buddy' implies a friendship and a certain degree of 'would be seen outside the bedroom with them'

I don't know about you, but I don't come across people that often that I want to share both my social life and my bed with.

Completely agree. I've yet to find anyone who can manage to meet more than once without hyperventilating about "feeling" that might develop.

I'd love to find someone who would fit this bill but sadly still looking for someone who can talk the talk and walk the walk."

Or they live too far away or are too short

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I find it hard to comprehend the fact that the gorgeous women in this thread can't find FB

I'm not. You don't make friends every day on the internet, do you? And the word 'buddy' in 'fuck buddy' implies a friendship and a certain degree of 'would be seen outside the bedroom with them'

I don't know about you, but I don't come across people that often that I want to share both my social life and my bed with.

Completely agree. I've yet to find anyone who can manage to meet more than once without hyperventilating about "feeling" that might develop.

I'd love to find someone who would fit this bill but sadly still looking for someone who can talk the talk and walk the walk.

Or they live too far away or are too short"

Or they are geographically out of reach & I am literally out of reach (sorry x)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it hard to comprehend the fact that the gorgeous women in this thread can't find FB

I'm not. You don't make friends every day on the internet, do you? And the word 'buddy' in 'fuck buddy' implies a friendship and a certain degree of 'would be seen outside the bedroom with them'

I don't know about you, but I don't come across people that often that I want to share both my social life and my bed with.

Completely agree. I've yet to find anyone who can manage to meet more than once without hyperventilating about "feeling" that might develop.

I'd love to find someone who would fit this bill but sadly still looking for someone who can talk the talk and walk the walk.

Or they live too far away or are too short

Or they are geographically out of reach & I am literally out of reach (sorry x)"

What you apologising for? I'm the perfect height.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have almost given up looking now

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I find it hard to comprehend the fact that the gorgeous women in this thread can't find FB

I'm not. You don't make friends every day on the internet, do you? And the word 'buddy' in 'fuck buddy' implies a friendship and a certain degree of 'would be seen outside the bedroom with them'

I don't know about you, but I don't come across people that often that I want to share both my social life and my bed with.

Completely agree. I've yet to find anyone who can manage to meet more than once without hyperventilating about "feeling" that might develop.

I'd love to find someone who would fit this bill but sadly still looking for someone who can talk the talk and walk the walk.

Or they live too far away or are too short

Or they are geographically out of reach & I am literally out of reach (sorry x)

What you apologising for? I'm the perfect height."

One door closes another door opens

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"i have almost given up looking now"

You are near me but I am outside your age range and can't accommodate for the same reasons as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im feeling a bit guilty now, I did 2 years ago on a shag site within a week and we had great fun for a about a year, unfortunately I just couldn't be free at weekends at the point when she wanted to start meeting other girls as a 3 some...my loss, she found someone else and did! Lol

Fair play for her and I didn't mind other than I missed out on some fun. We met up again but it went a bit wrong one day (I was in a weird slightly pushy mood and she was determined to get fucked in the middle of this open field on a sunny afternoon - fair play but there was a lot of people on the track lol...she seemed to want to get caught!) since then we are just distant mates on fb and caught up for beers a few weeks ago. We are now just mates but are happy to act as 'banks' for each other now but we are both really respectful of each others relationships when we are in them and would never compromise them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I'm in a bit of a rebound phase this would be really good for me. Think location helps but funnily enough my last fb was from Brum, 2.5hr drive (actually maybe that makes it clear and easy??)...just make a weekend of it! Message me if your interested, it would be fb, mates, a laugh and drinks only as thats all I'm up for at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would still.have one but he had to move because of his job. Can't seem to get another at the moment "

Similar here along with working too much

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"am I in the twilight zone??

I'll have you "

I will start a new thread, Can I be your Fuck Buddy/ friend with benefits?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"am I in the twilight zone??

I'll have you

I will start a new thread, Can I be your Fuck Buddy/ friend with benefits? "

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found the most perfect, amazing one unfortunately I was too old for him in the end and exchanged for a nubile 23 year old! What's that old saying ... Life's a bitch.... Pmsl ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im hoping there are some out there i think you just have to look really hard and hopefully patience will pay off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard work for me too! But got a couple of meets lined up so hopefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm beginning to think I have more chance of winning the lottery than finding the oh so elusive genuine friend with benefits....ho hum a girl can dream lol "

looks like I joined just at the right time. 2 NE women looking for FB's. Happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I struggle to find a fuck buddy too or a friends with benefits. No idea why because I'm an absolute fucking delight. "

I wish I was 2 yrs younger;-)

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

I have 2 fbs and a few messages in my inbox saying they want a fb?! I can send them your way if you like lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have almost given up looking now

You are near me but I am outside your age range and can't accommodate for the same reasons as you. "

cheating on other halfs then....you two obviously belong together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have 2 fbs and a few messages in my inbox saying they want a fb?! I can send them your way if you like lol "

same lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just moved to Sheffield and on the look out for a FB.

Apply within.

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By *bblueWoman
over a year ago

corby northants

I agree

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

London.


"I have been on and off this site for nearly 3 years now. Why is it so difficult to find a fuck buddy from this site...its like looking for a needle in a haystack "

Snap! A lot of chaff & not enough wheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one for two years but its gone now he's blocked me, think I got to close and it wasn't returned, ah well stopped looking now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm still looking

Good things come to those who wait

Devour me

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By *ummersun99Woman
over a year ago

North Yorkshire by the Sea


"I am amazed, all these gorgeous women who struggle to find FB's

Surely by frequenting this site alone there's an abundance of willing guys!?

Where is the line drawn on a FB, between someone you share regular sex with (plus others) and a boyfriend?

Could that be the issue?

Many women probably do want a borderline boyfriend and yes I'm probably guilty of that. But I have an amazing husband who would know all about it and share experiences too. I always thought that would be an ideal situation for lots of men.

I won't want to move in with them or meet their families. I just want regular filth and to know they'd want to meet socially occasionally if the sex bit wasn't possible for whatever reason.

I think your right there...

I get talking to quite a few who want someone they trust, who they can do things with they would never with a one off...

And the problem is, it has to be managed, because in that situation feelings come into play.

We say they won't, but they do and guys feel this happening early on.

If you get it right, you can engage in real fantasy fulfilment, but never think that your heart won't get involved."

But you can get attached as friends? It doesn't have to be anything more? FWBs have the trust/respect/familiarity elements to explore fantasies and meet regularly while it's good, with or without sex, though 99.9% time with...

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover

Maybe everyone is just a bit to picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my hubby wants me to find a fb or fwb (guy) for us to see together as a 3way and also just me on my own. He likes to hear about me with other guys and sometimes watch! I understand what people mean about most guys looking for one off hook ups but Id rather not meet a bunch of different men. and I use the term "buddy" not because I want a boyfriend but I just like to feel comfortable with someone and actually like someone I play with and at least be able to have a giggle and a conversation with a guy as well. I find that hard to accomplish with a bunch of one offs. But thats just me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im quiet surprised the amount of women who are looking for fuk buddies,plus the fact they cant find one... but then feelings always become part of sex.. that's always been my experience "

Sex without feelings is a wank, if you can switch them off when the time comes, I'd highly recommend sex with feelings, especially if those feelings are lust

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"I am amazed, all these gorgeous women who struggle to find FB's

Surely by frequenting this site alone there's an abundance of willing guys!?

Where is the line drawn on a FB, between someone you share regular sex with (plus others) and a boyfriend?

Could that be the issue?

Many women probably do want a borderline boyfriend and yes I'm probably guilty of that. But I have an amazing husband who would know all about it and share experiences too. I always thought that would be an ideal situation for lots of men.

I won't want to move in with them or meet their families. I just want regular filth and to know they'd want to meet socially occasionally if the sex bit wasn't possible for whatever reason.

I think your right there...

I get talking to quite a few who want someone they trust, who they can do things with they would never with a one off...

And the problem is, it has to be managed, because in that situation feelings come into play.

We say they won't, but they do and guys feel this happening early on.

If you get it right, you can engage in real fantasy fulfilment, but never think that your heart won't get involved.

But you can get attached as friends? It doesn't have to be anything more? FWBs have the trust/respect/familiarity elements to explore fantasies and meet regularly while it's good, with or without sex, though 99.9% time with... "

Totally agree...

What's with people "looking"?

In my experiance its best not to "look"...

Eventually the universe just throws something in your ahem!!.... Lap.

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"my hubby wants me to find a fb or fwb (guy) for us to see together as a 3way and also just me on my own. He likes to hear about me with other guys and sometimes watch! I understand what people mean about most guys looking for one off hook ups but Id rather not meet a bunch of different men. and I use the term "buddy" not because I want a boyfriend but I just like to feel comfortable with someone and actually like someone I play with and at least be able to have a giggle and a conversation with a guy as well. I find that hard to accomplish with a bunch of one offs. But thats just me!"

I'd love to help, being close as well, but you won't meet married men. Shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am amazed, all these gorgeous women who struggle to find FB's

Surely by frequenting this site alone there's an abundance of willing guys!?

Where is the line drawn on a FB, between someone you share regular sex with (plus others) and a boyfriend?

Could that be the issue?

Many women probably do want a borderline boyfriend and yes I'm probably guilty of that. But I have an amazing husband who would know all about it and share experiences too. I always thought that would be an ideal situation for lots of men.

I won't want to move in with them or meet their families. I just want regular filth and to know they'd want to meet socially occasionally if the sex bit wasn't possible for whatever reason.

I think your right there...

I get talking to quite a few who want someone they trust, who they can do things with they would never with a one off...

And the problem is, it has to be managed, because in that situation feelings come into play.

We say they won't, but they do and guys feel this happening early on.

If you get it right, you can engage in real fantasy fulfilment, but never think that your heart won't get involved.

But you can get attached as friends? It doesn't have to be anything more? FWBs have the trust/respect/familiarity elements to explore fantasies and meet regularly while it's good, with or without sex, though 99.9% time with...

Totally agree...

What's with people "looking"?

In my experiance its best not to "look"...

Eventually the universe just throws something in your ahem!!.... Lap."

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for the ladies. Are the men you meet only interested in a one off? I like to get to know my friends, then I learn how to really drive them wild, one offs are fine, but I'd rather have a regular thing going, just curious really

I think most of the younger men I chat to are just looking for one offs. The guys similar age or older than me aren't tho. Maybe they just don't read my profile properly "

I definitely prefer more than one offs (sadly I appear too young)

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