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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am new and looking for my 1st meet off this site as part of start enjoying sex life abit more and try things I've always wanting to try I know what I want and want to try but no body seems to be interested in single males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Search the forums for profile advice and meet advice........so many threads out there to help you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you have only been here a couple of weeks,it might take months lol,but the advice above my head is very good/sound advice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Truth is most males are not single and it shows in the numbers of male v single females and couples.

We are two a penny mate but pay for the site via sheer numbers.

Go to a swing club even though it's daunting. If you can't walk into a club on your own you are NOT going to do well here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May I suggest you contact local clubs and attend social nights these are plentiful and a regular way to meet singles and couples alike and get yourself known a bit on the scene as a lot of meets come from people being comfortable with and around you

I was part of a couple for years and we used socials quite a bit not only to find other couples but single guys too but remember the ratio of single guys is like 10/1 so be patient and non pushy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Throw in the fact you're 21. Your options for potential suitors are fairly limited as there aren't a great deal of members who'd choose someone so young and inexperienced. Use the vibrant club and social scene on offer here to network with other members and get yourself known.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your profile text. You say you will put up more pics and that is an absolute priority. my advice is to do that and move the willy pic to private. One other thing, you do not need to go to a club to get meets. If you want to go to a club then do so. Just dont feel you have too. I've had 3 meets and turned down 2 others due to short notice, and I've never been to a club. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look at the meets/parties events forum, see if there are any parties or socials you can attend, pop your name down and get out there and chat to people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are near Blackpool which has some great clubs. If you are serious about swinging that's where you will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am new and looking for my 1st meet off this site as part of start enjoying sex life abit more and try things I've always wanting to try I know what I want and want to try but no body seems to be interested in single males "

It's because there are so many guys her that you can't shake a stick at them all

Get verified in chat room go to clubs etc

If you put in the effort you will succeed

One guy we know has over 400 verification

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for advice guys. I'll take note. I know my age is a down fall but I am more mature than most my age. I am going to have a sort through on my profile and gunna try a club next week. Hopefully meet some of yous guys there

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By *sontopMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Hi try removing your age limit and some of the crap in your profile

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