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Well, for anyone who remembers me asking advice on rejection...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did it.

Just sorted out 100+ messages and politely replied to reject people. I am well proud of myself, can't believe i did it lol.

Got a few guys i wanna chat with when i'm more awake so not replied to them yet. But everyone else is done and it wasn't too hard once i got into it, and despite me chatting at the same time.

Taking a break helped me not get so stressy about my inbox as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When people take the time to write a long personalised message to us we always reply even if it is a 'thanks but no thanks', if we're simply not interested we just say no or delete as get so many

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just replied to those who were in my ranges and had pics or sent them, which is all i asked for. Everyone else yeah i deleted them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I just replied to those who were in my ranges and had pics or sent them, which is all i asked for. Everyone else yeah i deleted them."

I think that's what most people do to be fair. The problem arises when people ignore your profile requirements and send long messages. They then feel entitled to a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for sharing this with us...my world certainly changed a little since

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just replied to those who were in my ranges and had pics or sent them, which is all i asked for. Everyone else yeah i deleted them.

I think that's what most people do to be fair. The problem arises when people ignore your profile requirements and send long messages. They then feel entitled to a reply."

Yeah it makes sense to do that. Think one guy didn't know why i'd replied to him haha.

Actually enjoyed my inbox last night, for the first time in ages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for sharing this with us...my world certainly changed a little since "

I'm proud of myself. Tackled something i felt was impossible a few weeks ago.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I returned to fab I've taken the same stance... I try to reply.. if it's a completely inappropriate message (for example, a long what I would do to you message when I'm clearly not looking for men..) then perhaps I'll get a little sarcastic but overall I'm polite. :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for sharing this with us...my world certainly changed a little since

I'm proud of myself. Tackled something i felt was impossible a few weeks ago. "

I remember. Are you getting your mojo back?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for sharing this with us...my world certainly changed a little since

I'm proud of myself. Tackled something i felt was impossible a few weeks ago.

I remember. Are you getting your mojo back? "

Yeah, it's not as greedy as it was before but i'm happy with that too. it's good to take a break. Half my regulars have left though and i was only 'gone' for 5 weeks.

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