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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

so we're setting up our first hotel meet with a single guy later this month... What experiences have people had with 'sneaking' a third person into a double room? Has anyone been challenged, or kicked out, or do most simply turn a blind eye?

Any particular chains of hotels to watch out for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doubt you will ever get challenged unless you make so much noise you get complained about. Most receptionists couldn't care less who's going in and out of the hotel

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

You pay for the room. Its only holiday hotel that worry about bfast etc.

As long as you don't have an orgy there, an extra person or two is no issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had excellent fun getting a hooker couple in once. I forgot to give them my name so they weren't allowed through and the receptionist rang to ask if they should let through a couple who didn't know my name.

Slightly embarrassing, especially when I got a big wink as I checked out the next day. Didn't care though after the fun I had just had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weve done it loads,you book in text them the room number usualy works best. Added suprise of when that door will knock

Ps we are going to abfabs tomorrow night and have a hotel room booked near in heathrow so if any hot couples or singles wana cum give us room service in the morning on sat let us know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Book the room as double occupancy and get 2 room keys, saying your partner will be arriving later. Go to the hotel bar. Meet whoever it is there. Hand over 1 room key. Go to the room, wait for them to arrive. Easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Book the room as double occupancy and get 2 room keys, saying your partner will be arriving later. Go to the hotel bar. Meet whoever it is there. Hand over 1 room key. Go to the room, wait for them to arrive. Easy. "

This.

Also some hotels require your car registration, so don't forget to sign in both cars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone's done this before !!

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

If you are a couple and feeling nervous then you can leave one of you in the room and the other can go collect the guest but we have found that as long as you pay for the room no one there really looks at who is going in and out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone's done this before !!

We may have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check in and ask for two keys. Go to room, find the stationery set many hotels have and put room key inside with the name of the other "guest". Go to reception and leave the envelope and instruct your guest to ask for it when they arrive. I've done this many times. So many hotels now need a room key to use the lift, it's often the easiest way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have sneaked many people into a room... We always use a big chain where we wont be questioned.. Often meet in the bar and all walk up together.

I used to worry but have found the secret is to look like your meant to be there x

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"If you are a couple and feeling nervous then you can leave one of you in the room and the other can go collect the guest but we have found that as long as you pay for the room no one there really looks at who is going in and out

Pretty much this. We had a ffm last week in a hotel which had key card security doors, so I went downstairs to meet her. Walked right past reception and wasn't queried.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Someone's done this before !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have sneaked many people into a room... We always use a big chain where we wont be questioned.. Often meet in the bar and all walk up together.

I used to worry but have found the secret is to look like your meant to be there x"

Sounds like a good plan

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for the reassuring advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had no problems taking guys back to my hotel room

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By *leur de lisWoman
over a year ago

Buxton

"so we're setting up our first hotel meet with a single guy later this month... What experiences have people had with 'sneaking' a third person into a double room? Has anyone been challenged, or kicked out, or do most simply turn a blind eye?

Any particular chains of hotels to watch out for?"

Just walk in with them and leave your partner to follow a few minutes later if you are worried. In reality its unlikley you will be questioned anyway.

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By *anetandNickCouple
over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

We often do this and we've never had a problem. Usually have a drink at the hotel bar first, then just wander upstairs.

When we've got a big crowd, we've sometimes had a alibi. Once had 9 guys for a mini-bukkake in a room at the Travelodge in Acle. Someone told the receptionist it was a meeting of the Ipswich Town Supporters Club.

Janet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We often do this and we've never had a problem. Usually have a drink at the hotel bar first, then just wander upstairs.

Janet"

Okay that really did make me laugh out loud

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

my parents often stay in a hotel and we join them for dinner, I often go up to the room with my father and the receptionist doesn't turn a hair. I know its not quite the same but they don't know why you're all going up there

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Use Campanile hotels - you don't need to pass reception to get to the room... Simples...

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

How would they know that it's not two separate rooms that you're going up to anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never sneak, it draws attention...just all walk in as though you are absolutely entitled to be there and nobody bats an eyelid...

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

some really good tips here, thanks OP and everyone, we have a meet on 20th and will definitely be using some of these ideas then!

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

Any particular chains of hotels to watch out for?"
. You will just need to meet them at reception as most have swipe cards . I have never had any issues . I don't like knocking room doors just in case a mistake is made . I prefer to phone from outside the room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great advice already. Failing that, book to stay at an apartment - usually very similar price and receptionists always accept any additional guests, in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never sneak, it draws attention...just all walk in as though you are absolutely entitled to be there and nobody bats an eyelid..."

Yep that's the one, if you sneak around, staff might be suspicious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We told our meet we had left him a key card behind the desk told him the room number the girl behind the desk never questioned it and we had lots of fun!!

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

We arrived together then I nipped out and came back with another man.... No problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There were four of us in a room last night. Premier inn. No questions asked

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By *riendly FiresCouple
over a year ago

Beverley

We met few guys in a hotel and told them we had a Northampton Town FC AGM.

Hotel manager said that's Cobblers.

Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We met few guys in a hotel and told them we had a Northampton Town FC AGM.

Hotel manager said that's Cobblers.

Sorry. "

You should hang your head in shame...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a problem ourselves we just just walked straight past reception with a glint in our eyes and a spring in our steps xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reception staff rarely question you, all walk in together making small talk amongst yourselves and there's no issue, don't look furtive at any point lol good luck ??

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"I had excellent fun getting a hooker couple in once. I forgot to give them my name so they weren't allowed through and the receptionist rang to ask if they should let through a couple who didn't know my name.

Slightly embarrassing, especially when I got a big wink as I checked out the next day. Didn't care though after the fun I had just had."

A hooker?!!

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away

Have used hotels many times. Just check that you do not need an access card to use the lift or they have security men on the doors at night when you book. This has been the only times we have found it difficult and haven't been able to just walk straight in

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By *lligator3Man
over a year ago

Dundee

In addition to all the good advice above, remember you've probably stayed in a hotel with friends/ family and had more than one room booked.

The hotel staff wouldnt think it strange when a group walks past chatting as happens all the time. they'll have groups, families, hen party's, stags etc walking past all evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We often do this and we've never had a problem. Usually have a drink at the hotel bar first, then just wander upstairs.

Janet"

Have Ipswich got 9 fans?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my parents often stay in a hotel and we join them for dinner, I often go up to the room with my father and the receptionist doesn't turn a hair. I know its not quite the same but they don't know why you're all going up there

Precisely this, we have stayed in a room for 3 many a times with a family member and obviously think anything of it which is why I think confidence is the key! Act like its totally normal and nobody notices xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, go to a travel lodge or a hotel where you pay for the room not for the occupants, have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask the receptionist if they'd like to join you when they have their break

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"We have sneaked many people into a room... We always use a big chain where we wont be questioned.. Often meet in the bar and all walk up together.

I used to worry but have found the secret is to look like your meant to be there x"

Sometimes they raise an eyebrow when I've taken what is obviously a camera bag in with me and a (heavy) Tesco bag with the lights etc. They know it all goes on...

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

"ask the receptionist if they'd like to join you when they have their break

Funny you say that a few years ago my ex an I had arranged a meet with another couple,I met them at the bar on our way to the room,receptionist said hope all have fun but keep the noise down laughing,the guy replied you better come round to make sure we were.to cut a long story short,she did at the end of her shift an stay the night with us.

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By *bfoxxxMan
over a year ago

Crete or LANCASTER

Any particular chains of hotels to watch out for?"

What's the problem.

I just walk in.

Knowing where you're going helps.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Was at a social in Plymouth once and stayed at the Copthorn Hotel which is a bit more swish than the usual chains. I had gone to the room with a f.b. who lives locally so I could get changed. Meanwhile my roommate, another f.b. arrived and was on her phone asking what room we were in. She was on the phone shortly afterwards saying they hadn`t got a key as it`s already been issued! "Well that`s probably because we are in the room right now!" Didn`t notice any usual behaviour from the staff when I left shortly afterwards with two women!

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

When ur in d room just txt them d room no n ask them to cum up end of story . Don't go near d receptionist just walk straight up to d room . No one checks u .

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Never had problems in any chain, usually just wander out to meet people as they text or if mobile reception dodgy arrange to meet in bar/lobby

Never trouble getting second key cards either, even when only just me staying for breakfast.

Have seen the odd stare when ferrying in camera gear before now though

One best western used to put me at end of corridor after a while, not sure if just because bigger room and a regular or ensuring not disturbing anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We often do this and we've never had a problem. Usually have a drink at the hotel bar first, then just wander upstairs.

Janet"
must be massive lie that, Ipswich don't have that many fans;)

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By *riendly FiresCouple
over a year ago

Beverley

"We met few guys in a hotel and told them we had a Northampton Town FC AGM.

Hotel manager said that's Cobblers.

Sorry.

You should hang your head in shame...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When booking a double room, do you book as one occupancy or two ?

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Depends if you`re staying over! Some only book the room for the meet itself but I would say after the meet whoever is staying in the room overnight should be listed - one if it`s just you - two if it`s a couple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop panicking, all will be fine, only you know the truth !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thought I'd just come back and again say thanks for all the advice. You were all right, no issues at all. Helped in part by reception being unmanned most of the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good guys OP - hope you had a good time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thread this. This is an issue that's always put us of hotel meets for a threesome, never though to post on here and ask how other peeps got around it. Reading this has definitely opened up another possible avenue of play!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met friends at a hotel sometime ago. They threw their key out of the window to us and we walked in as if we were overnight guests. Although the key nearly ended up down a grid!!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I once 'snuck' 8 blokes into my room. Brazen? Moi?

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Doubt it would ever be a problem...Staff won't really noise or care, unless there is a load of noise and they have to come and knock...

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Thought I'd just come back and again say thanks for all the advice. You were all right, no issues at all. Helped in part by reception being unmanned most of the time! "

...pleased it went well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was staying in a budget hotel in London once and the receptionist tried to kick my meet out. I'd told her my room number and thought she'd come straight up but he stopped her. I went down and sorted it out but she wasn't allowed to stay the evening as I'd only registered one guest.

I think most larger hotels would be fine though.

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

You don't have to "sneak" people in to a hotel room. You're renting the room, you can have visitors, just as you can in your house.

Before swinging, I've stayed in many hotels on business, met colleagues/associates on numerous occasions, popped back to my room with them for a drink, chat, cuppa, and similarly visited other people in their rooms. It's perfectly normal.

It's the same when swinging, only you have sex too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a problem in any chain. Ones withoutbsecurity I give room number and let them come up. Once had 4 single guys and a couple in the future Inn in Plymouth lol. If it has card security I ask for and extra card on checking and hide it outside so people can get in. First who arrives has to.go down and let others in lol. Works for me and never had any issues.

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By *bfoxxxMan
over a year ago

Crete or LANCASTER

I have images of Dustin Hoffman, in The Graduate.

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By *WcplCouple
over a year ago

Tameside

Many have the room key swipe card to get through the diir at receotion niw (particulary premier inns). We meet our guest(s) in the bar, as you might any vanilla people staying over and then walk up together or in close proximity.

Have skso used Village Hotels which are ususlly busy with hotel guests and leisure guests. The staff wouldnt know if you you took a fooball team up the stairs ( you just wouldn't get them in the spa facilities with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone told the receptionist it was a meeting of the Ipswich Town Supporters Club.

Janet"

Dangerous ground. A switched on receptionist would know that no way be as many as nine turn up for that...

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

We've loved inventing "convincing stories" for reception and acting out the part when the guest arrives and departs - knowing that in the reality the staff couldn't give a proverbial ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once 'snuck' 8 blokes into my room. Brazen? Moi?

sounds like a fab party

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"Have used hotels many times. Just check that you do not need an access card to use the lift or they have security men on the doors at night when you book. This has been the only times we have found it difficult and haven't been able to just walk straight in

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This has tripped us up a couple of times, just get back before curfew and drink in the hotel bar to avoid the problem.

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