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why so hard to get a meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm a average guy looking to meet a nice couple or ladie. Why is it so hard to get a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem to be doing ok mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 meets? Stop your whining buddy that's way above average on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 meets in 9 months is better than many single males buddy.

For improved chances I'll give you the standard answer: get yourself along to a club or social.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

5 in 9 months that was a lot of trying. So much crap on here men saying they are lady's. Some want money. Others sent me to wrong address etc

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"5 in 9 months that was a lot of trying."

No one said it was easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a average guy looking to meet a nice couple or ladie. Why is it so hard to get a meet."

6 meets in 9 months is very good going so I wouldn't really complain your doing a lot better than most single men who have been on here longer than you have...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What were your expectations on joining? As so far you seem to be doing fine as others have pointed out.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the above....I like the forums for the banter, flirting and when I'm lucky, naughty friendships ...however..for a truly erotic, sexually energised experience, you can't beat a club. Even if you don't have any fun, you leave buzzing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"5 in 9 months that was a lot of trying. So much crap on here men saying they are lady's. Some want money. Others sent me to wrong address etc"

Were you expecting it to be like a porno?

"hey baby, how's this look?"

Suddenly wah wah soaked guitars start playing and all the ladies clothes fall off!

Doesn't quite work like that I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well considering you are on my block list I could imagine why.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"5 in 9 months that was a lot of trying. So much crap on here men saying they are lady's. Some want money. Others sent me to wrong address etc

Were you expecting it to be like a porno?

"hey baby, how's this look?"

Suddenly wah wah soaked guitars start playing and all the ladies clothes fall off!

Doesn't quite work like that I'm afraid."

You forgot about the pizza boy Tom!

OP - if you think the site is too much hard work and that you're not getting a suitable return on the huge investment you've made in creating a profile and typing a few messages.............you could always go back to the traditional route of meeting women down the pub.

There are no guarantees. No quotas. No service provision. No right to responses, views, interest and definitely not meets.

It's not meant to be easy. It's not hard work either. The site is simply a contact tool giving you various options to promote yourself and engage with others.

Nothing more.

Nothing less.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a shame you had to try hard dude!!!

Your doing well so don't jinx it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You forgot about the pizza boy Tom"

Extra large with pepperoni..

Oh yeah!

(bow chakka wakka chakka)

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

complaining when as others have said you have actually done well shows to two red flags straight away....

1) unrealistic expectations

2) not exactly to greatest amount of patience on show......

the site gives you the tools and oppotunities to make it work... use all, some or none of those... but that is on you...

the site cant spoonfeed you everything... some of it take a modicom of basic common sense....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"complaining when as others have said you have actually done well shows to two red flags straight away....

1) unrealistic expectations

2) not exactly to greatest amount of patience on show......

the site gives you the tools and oppotunities to make it work... use all, some or none of those... but that is on you...

the site cant spoonfeed you everything... some of it take a modicom of basic common sense...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to clubs and make contacts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just joined. And only started getting interests and messaging people. But whats the rush take it easy and enjoy the ride. All good things comes to those who wait. Besides you have done better than most blokes on here.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Were you expecting pussy every night?

I cant believe you had to try hard....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need help with my profile,been on here a while now and not much interest,can anyone offer any help or advice

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its easy, the market aint there for us men, the ratio is about 100 men to 1 woman lol, fab is a womans world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need help with my profile,been on here a while now and not much interest,can anyone offer any help or advice

Thanks"

So many posts about profiles go look through the old posts. Also check out other peoples... A good profile takes lot of bloody work for a single m.

I been here a few months and only now have i started to build up contacts and find people with mutual attraction... So to the OP - you have nothing to worry about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need help with my profile,been on here a while now and not much interest,can anyone offer any help or advice

Thanks"

Wow man, this is the second thread you hijacked in 3 minutes.

You will get a better response if you start your own fresh thread.

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