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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just been told I have got a meet pregnant. I used protection. And advice how I should handle this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe talk with the said meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Tried, they ok about it! Said they had 3 meets that week so could be any of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you seem confident that its not yours then just go for a DNA test with her im sure that'll clear things up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"just been told I have got a meet pregnant. I used protection. And advice how I should handle this"

I got pregnant while using condoms. Speak to the lady, arrange for appropriate tests if necessary then act accordingly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ty x other two were black. So not worrying about tests lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Ty x other two were black. So not worrying about tests lol"

Just sit back and wait then. How will support through her pregnancy be arranged, all three of you going to go along to the appointments?

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By *redieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Surely not yours if you used protection

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

God knows! I'm waiting for proof of pregnancy first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that looks like a good story for the Jeremy Kyle show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good chance it could be the milkman's by the sound of it

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"Surely not yours if you used protection "

depends if it was used correctly, and even then its still got a failure rate for pregnancy and STIs

My best friend fell pregnant with her 3rd on the pill and using condoms...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Surely not yours if you used protection "

Condoms fail, see my post above, there was no split or slippage but i still became pregnant, fortunately with my husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely not yours if you used protection "

Didn't you know.. not all protection is 100% for all he knows he could have played with himself gotten precum on his fingers then played with her.. this is why women need to be on contraceptives As well as using condoms Poor 'child'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can have a DNA test while pregnant... It would mean that you could find out a lot earlier. Its done at the same time as other testing that may or may not need doing. There is a risk to the baby though.

Don't part with any money just yet.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Gentlemen! You need to educate yourselves on the efficacy of prophylactics

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By *redieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Ha well I guess that's me told

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm aware of the risks. Waiting game I suppose

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Ha well I guess that's me told "

look on it as potentially saving you from becoming a father when you least expect it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ty x other two were black. So not worrying about tests lol"

So if the baby comes out white then there's no possible way on earth it can be anyone else's? For your sake and the baby's, you would still need to do a dna test to be sure.

These things happen unplanned sometimes, all you can do is take responsibility, stay in touch with her and get a dna test when it's born then you can go from there.

Good luck. Juicy x

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

Think there is a story section in here somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friend fell pregnant with her 3rd on the pill and using condoms... "

So she claims....

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

My best friend fell pregnant with her 3rd on the pill and using condoms...

So she claims...."

Claims? I trust her. She is a very close friend. I know she was taking the pill, and I know her husband too.

Don't judge everyone badly, there are some trustworthy people out there.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

My best friend fell pregnant with her 3rd on the pill and using condoms...

So she claims...."

I conceived at 46 using condoms. It's not as unlikely as you think.

Complacency and cynicism where this is concerned isn't a great idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the condom has 'not worked' for whatever reason, you may also want to have a full screening at the GUM clinic

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I hope you just had anal with her. This may help your defence.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I hope you just had anal with her. This may help your defence.

never heard of a backdoor baby Tina?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it probably should not have but this post has cracked me up!!

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

"If the condom has 'not worked' for whatever reason, you may also want to have a full screening at the GUM clinic"

I was thinking the exact same thing. I'm not saying this about this about the OP but if you're one of three then sorry but bare fun occurred at some point.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I hope you just had anal with her. This may help your defence.

never heard of a backdoor baby Tina?

Oooh, if a condom breaks, some lucky guy might have to make an honest tranny out of me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I hope you just had anal with her. This may help your defence.

never heard of a backdoor baby Tina?

Oooh, if a condom breaks, some lucky guy might have to make an honest tranny out of me

now there's a wedding I'd buy a hat for

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I hope you just had anal with her. This may help your defence.

never heard of a backdoor baby Tina?

Oooh, if a condom breaks, some lucky guy might have to make an honest tranny out of me

now there's a wedding I'd buy a hat for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry, she might be just one of those money grabber, milking every opportunity she gets, ignore her, always us a fake name and don't use your real name, for safety. You never known who you will end up meeting lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry, she might be just one of those money grabber, milking every opportunity she gets, ignore her, always us a fake name and don't use your real name, for safety. You never known who you will end up meeting lol."

Wow, you sound like a really nice guy.....

OP, I hope for everybody's sake that there is no pregnancy. Like others have said, offering emotional support would be appropriate pending a Dna test being undertaken.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

congratulation daddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, you sound like a really nice guy.....

OP, I hope for everybody's sake that there is no pregnancy. Like others have said, offering emotional support would be appropriate pending a Dna test being undertaken. "
Yes ty I am, was just having my take on it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you really think that shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you really think that shag?

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No I don't, but there could always be them women who does it couldn't they?.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

True there are those that do it for money but if its a genuine accident then yes offer emotional support first until dna test result are done then if its yours do the right thing.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"just been told I have got a meet pregnant. I used protection. And advice how I should handle this"

i am so tempted to suggest the jeremy kyle show when they have given birth....

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Ty x other two were black. So not worrying about tests lol"

Was this a one off meet with someone you know fuck all about?

If so are you happy to trust her honesty in the claim that the other guys were black, the fact she didn't meet anyone else that week and the fact she's got her dates right and it wasn't a fourth (or fifth, sixth or so on) potential guy?

If when the time comes you're basing the fact that a baby is white on you being the dad then good luck!

You may find yourself paying for someone else's child. It happens a lot.

Be smart and get a test done ASAP.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you really think that shag?

No I don't, but there could always be them women who does it couldn't they?."

Yes there could. I think men should be careful which means being responsible as far as contraception goes but accidents happen.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you really think that shag?

No I don't, but there could always be them women who does it couldn't they?.

Yes there could. I think men should be careful which means being responsible as far as contraception goes but accidents happen."
Yes I gues men need to be more careful as you never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always go in rubber first,saves trouble afterwords...it could be worse she could have said she was hiv+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tried, they ok about it! Said they had 3 meets that week so could be any of us

Conception isn't that exact though is it, could be week before or week after

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