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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been on here for a long time now, no luck at all! Can't even get a reply to a message never mind a meet.

Just don't know where I'm going wrong

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

hmm dunno .. maybe revamp the profile update the pictures say what you like .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 pictures and not one smile...............suggest you start there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile wording needs some work/imagination and smile!

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By *unkysoulWoman
over a year ago

Mitcham, Surrey


"Your profile wording needs some work/imagination and smile! "

Agreed!

When you take your selfie, think you're looking at a girl that you're hot for...give her one of your cheeky smiles or smouldering looks...if it doesn't look good to you...don't post it!

Completely new to swinging....remove! You can get in to that convo when you start chatting.

Why are you on the site needs a revamp! What are you hoping to find? Are you fun, naughty, playful? How will you make someone feel....

Just some thoughts for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6 pictures and not one smile...............suggest you start there"

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"I've been on here for a long time now, no luck at all! Can't even get a reply to a message never mind a meet.

Just don't know where I'm going wrong "

Find a woman who is into swinging.you can have a couples profile then,and you'll need a snorkel to swim through all the clunge on offer...if that cant happen then enjoy the mirage that is pussy for single guys on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try taking pics of your best bits and hide the rest like most onhere do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i suppose a few of us will say get out to the social events and meet a load of new people at once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i suppose a few of us will say get out to the social events and meet a load of new people at once "

I'd second this - try using the forums to get your personality out there too

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By *akemetobedeyesWoman
over a year ago

Knaresborough

Unusual photos always gain my interest, the words on your profile don't make you stand out at all.

What makes you different from everyone else? Get your personality across create a bit of intrigue and that will interest people in talking to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unusual photos always gain my interest, the words on your profile don't make you stand out at all.

What makes you different from everyone else? Get your personality across create a bit of intrigue and that will interest people in talking to you x"

mine arent the norm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take it the wrong way, lose the face pic on your av. Save it for friends and PM's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing that you haven't made any alterations to your profile since you first created it.

Clue? The opening line about being new to the scene.

That's fine on a brand new profile, but on a profile that's over a year old....

Dozens upon dozens of threads asking for profile advice so why not start by searching the forum and seeing if any of the advice given to others is helpful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the help guys gonna have a look at sorting my profile today, try and spice it up a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the help guys gonna have a look at sorting my profile today, try and spice it up a bit "

Just delete this one and start fresh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take out the bit about liking a good drink ...

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

One of your pictures is dated 2011. If I had been on a site like this for 4 years and never met a single person I would just give up.

If you are really into swinging and other forms of sexual non-monogamy then try listening to things like the Life on the Swing Set podcasts and going to swingers clubs.

If you are just trying to get laid then I think they have an app for that these days.

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