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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay, so I've just been refused a meet due to not being verified in over 3 months, which is fine.. each to ones own and we move on..

I'm just wondering how many people would think along the same lines and why? How recent is okay/not okay? or maybe you have you been turned down for the same reason? Love to hear your thoughts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would use it as part of our decision making but not a reason in itself, I would go with my instinct personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bugger. Single guys have a hard time as it is. Then if you don't get a meet that goes against you as well. Talk about a double edged sword....

I spend time in here and post as much as I can to keep my name being looked at but i get very few messages or winks. Maybe I am that box of frogs lol

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldnt rule a meet out due to them not being verified.If i liked them i'd meet,we were all unverified once and i was let down by someone well verified.

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...


"Okay, so I've just been refused a meet due to not being verified in over 3 months, which is fine.. each to ones own and we move on..

I'm just wondering how many people would think along the same lines and why? How recent is okay/not okay? or maybe you have you been turned down for the same reason? Love to hear your thoughts! "

I don't show all my veris due to stalkers (urgh) so how would anyone know you've not had a meet in 3 months? Some folk have regular fbs who obviously don't verify each time they meet. Seems a nonsense to me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show my veris

And I don't expect people to either

I like the person to be verified but it's not all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did you stop being a real person in last 3 months?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've got about 39 veris and hid all but the most recent today. I have repeat meets where we don't bother leaving more veris.

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I don't show mine either..I chat with nice people and things happen from there. Despite the whole notion of the veri/pics thing and the legion of single men not having any real contact with people, it's not how I have found the site at all.

Good luck with it all though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"did you stop being a real person in last 3 months? "

No but some of mine have. They are under my patio

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"did you stop being a real person in last 3 months?

No but some of mine have. They are under my patio "

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"did you stop being a real person in last 3 months?

No but some of mine have. They are under my patio "

Brilliant! Love it...

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I only tend to show my most recent veri and don't often ask to get verified anyway so I'll often go months without a new veri but not months without a meet. I'll also gladly meet unverified people; if we click we click and everyone has to start somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry about it, its their loss basically

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

If anyone used that criteria for me I would never get a meet, all my verifications are over 3 months old; as i rarely get chance to meet and if i have a second meet i rarely ask for or display repeat veris....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone that had a veri from the last 12 hours. That's just greedy.

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