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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi staying in a hotel with a female friend soon and we are wondering on any tips to flashing a room service person in a hotel?

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Perhaps consider if they want to be flashed at by some randoms while working, and then don't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

service work is bad enough without the customers also making it awkward. please don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it I say. Having worked in a hotel when younger I was delighted whenever something like that happened.

I know the other guys were as well.

A possible way to do it is have your female friend "accidentally" walk naked into the bedroom from the bathroom not realising room service is delivering drinks.

Have fun

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Some people will say go for it, some will say don't.

I am one of those boring, fun police types who thinks that all sexual activity should be consensual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend five months a year in hotels - it's never once occurred to me to "flash" room service. I can't imagine a time when this would ever be appropriate or well received! That porn you saw on line, where they did that after fucking the pizza delivery guy - it wasn't real!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I spend five months a year in hotels - it's never once occurred to me to "flash" room service. I can't imagine a time when this would ever be appropriate or well received! That porn you saw on line, where they did that after fucking the pizza delivery guy - it wasn't real!"

The common misconception is that.if a woman does it it's ok because all men want to see her.

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I would say this is a complete no-no... the staff are working hard there, just getting through endless shifts dealing with all sorts of people...mainly lovely, some not so, and some complete arseholes...

Life isn't like those porn scenarios where the clothes magically fall off when the plumber is under the sink...

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Generally speaking, it is rarely acceptable for a man to flash. On the other hand, a little 'accidental' flashing by a woman to a man is likely to be met with a positive response. In my life I have been flashed a total of four times, and never thought to complain.

However, I struggle to see a scenario in this case where it would work out, surely most room service people will be poorly paid women, extremely overworked, not necessarily bisexual, and too in fear of losing their job?

Why not advertise for a meet on here instead? You could choose the person you want, plan the scenario in detail, control what happens and everyone has time to have fun - win/win!

Either way, good luck.

(Though if you choose to waggle your willy at a Czech chambermaid bringing coffee, the luck you require is likely to be more barrister than barista )

Mr ddc

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Generally speaking, it is rarely acceptable for a man to flash. On the other hand, a little 'accidental' flashing by a woman to a man is likely to be met with a positive response. In my life I have been flashed a total of four times, and never thought to complain.

However, I struggle to see a scenario in this case where it would work out, surely most room service people will be poorly paid women, extremely overworked, not necessarily bisexual, and too in fear of losing their job?

Why not advertise for a meet on here instead? You could choose the person you want, plan the scenario in detail, control what happens and everyone has time to have fun - win/win!

Either way, good luck.

(Though if you choose to waggle your willy at a Czech chambermaid bringing coffee, the luck you require is likely to be more barrister than barista )

Mr ddc"

The summer before last we were in a cafe a woman sat opposite us and opened her legs to reveal that she wasn't wearing any knickers. She ensured that only Mr N and I could see which was good since her partner and a boy of about ten were with her. Mr N didn't want to see it, he was enjoying a cappuccino so he turned slightly to avoid her so she shifted to give him a better view.....he had no choice but to turn his back on her. She took herself and her entourage off to flash a guy sitting outside. In our case it was not met with a positive response.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Generally speaking, it is rarely acceptable for a man to flash. On the other hand, a little 'accidental' flashing by a woman to a man is likely to be met with a positive response. In my life I have been flashed a total of four times, and never thought to complain.

However, I struggle to see a scenario in this case where it would work out, surely most room service people will be poorly paid women, extremely overworked, not necessarily bisexual, and too in fear of losing their job?

Why not advertise for a meet on here instead? You could choose the person you want, plan the scenario in detail, control what happens and everyone has time to have fun - win/win!

Either way, good luck.

(Though if you choose to waggle your willy at a Czech chambermaid bringing coffee, the luck you require is likely to be more barrister than barista )

Mr ddc

The summer before last we were in a cafe a woman sat opposite us and opened her legs to reveal that she wasn't wearing any knickers. She ensured that only Mr N and I could see which was good since her partner and a boy of about ten were with her. Mr N didn't want to see it, he was enjoying a cappuccino so he turned slightly to avoid her so she shifted to give him a better view.....he had no choice but to turn his back on her. She took herself and her entourage off to flash a guy sitting outside. In our case it was not met with a positive response."

That is why I said 'generally speaking'.

I suspect if a man flashed 100 women, probably 100 would find it distasteful, even if it were that Poldark fella. Whereas if the OPs wife were to flash 100 men, more than half would smile.

No judgement either way. Just stating an opinion.

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By *litlicker77Man
over a year ago

Dirty old town

Got caught on the job by hotel maid a few years ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Generally speaking, it is rarely acceptable for a man to flash. On the other hand, a little 'accidental' flashing by a woman to a man is likely to be met with a positive response. In my life I have been flashed a total of four times, and never thought to complain.

However, I struggle to see a scenario in this case where it would work out, surely most room service people will be poorly paid women, extremely overworked, not necessarily bisexual, and too in fear of losing their job?

Why not advertise for a meet on here instead? You could choose the person you want, plan the scenario in detail, control what happens and everyone has time to have fun - win/win!

Either way, good luck.

(Though if you choose to waggle your willy at a Czech chambermaid bringing coffee, the luck you require is likely to be more barrister than barista )

Mr ddc

The summer before last we were in a cafe a woman sat opposite us and opened her legs to reveal that she wasn't wearing any knickers. She ensured that only Mr N and I could see which was good since her partner and a boy of about ten were with her. Mr N didn't want to see it, he was enjoying a cappuccino so he turned slightly to avoid her so she shifted to give him a better view.....he had no choice but to turn his back on her. She took herself and her entourage off to flash a guy sitting outside. In our case it was not met with a positive response.

That is why I said 'generally speaking'.

I suspect if a man flashed 100 women, probably 100 would find it distasteful, even if it were that Poldark fella. Whereas if the OPs wife were to flash 100 men, more than half would smile.

No judgement either way. Just stating an opinion."

you're right in one respect we did smile, we laughed about it actually but felt a bit sad for the young boy who was with them.

That Poldark fella can do very little wrong in my opinion

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By *ueenandworkerbeeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

For the love of God, do not do this. I've worked in room service and honestly it's unnerving enough going into a man's (or anyone's) room alone without any safety nets. The last thing I would want is to be sexual lying assaulted/flashed on my shift.

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By *tep121Man
over a year ago

manchester

I work nights in a hotel. I'd love it. Even more so if I could join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please don't. Working in a hotel as service is so demeaning. Coming away from the shift feeling like you're a sex object as well really doesn't make it any nicer.

I personally think most people enjoy consensual sex now anyway. To enjoy unconsensual sex is a little dinosaur-like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally speaking, it is rarely acceptable for a man to flash. On the other hand, a little 'accidental' flashing by a woman to a man is likely to be met with a positive response. In my life I have been flashed a total of four times, and never thought to complain.

However, I struggle to see a scenario in this case where it would work out, surely most room service people will be poorly paid women, extremely overworked, not necessarily bisexual, and too in fear of losing their job?

Why not advertise for a meet on here instead? You could choose the person you want, plan the scenario in detail, control what happens and everyone has time to have fun - win/win!

Either way, good luck.

(Though if you choose to waggle your willy at a Czech chambermaid bringing coffee, the luck you require is likely to be more barrister than barista )

Mr ddc

The summer before last we were in a cafe a woman sat opposite us and opened her legs to reveal that she wasn't wearing any knickers. She ensured that only Mr N and I could see which was good since her partner and a boy of about ten were with her. Mr N didn't want to see it, he was enjoying a cappuccino so he turned slightly to avoid her so she shifted to give him a better view.....he had no choice but to turn his back on her. She took herself and her entourage off to flash a guy sitting outside. In our case it was not met with a positive response.

That is why I said 'generally speaking'.

I suspect if a man flashed 100 women, probably 100 would find it distasteful, even if it were that Poldark fella. Whereas if the OPs wife were to flash 100 men, more than half would smile.

No judgement either way. Just stating an opinion.

you're right in one respect we did smile, we laughed about it actually but felt a bit sad for the young boy who was with them.

That Poldark fella can do very little wrong in my opinion "

One of my partners and I had a similar thing with a woman and her partner. When we were sure she was flashing us (because she moved as we adjusted) my partner walked over to their table and said "excuse me, do you realise I can see your vulva? I'd prefer not to while I'm eating my lunch." Clearly her partner wasn't in on it because they then had a blazing row and he stormed off leaving her in tears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please don't. Working in a hotel as service is so demeaning. Coming away from the shift feeling like you're a sex object as well really doesn't make it any nicer.

I personally think most people enjoy consensual sex now anyway. To enjoy unconsensual sex is a little dinosaur-like."

This

OP: have some respect for the people around you. Not everybody wants to be used is this way. A prearranged flashing to an unsuspecting member of the public like that is liable to get you kicked out of the hotel and banned!

Totally different senaro: I work with the public behind a counter only to have a male say to his female partner: 'watch this, I'm going to tickle her!'' then he preceded to lean over and tried to do it! He failed, but I came back with a retort that embarrassed him. His partner wasn't pleased at it all.

People in the service industry in any shape or form are not playthings!!

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area


"One of my partners and I had a similar thing with a woman and her partner. When we were sure she was flashing us (because she moved as we adjusted) my partner walked over to their table and said "excuse me, do you realise I can see your vulva? I'd prefer not to while I'm eating my lunch." Clearly her partner wasn't in on it because they then had a blazing row and he stormed off leaving her in tears."

Caesar salad / vulva.....caesar salad / vulva..... caesar salad / vulva.....decisions decisions

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By *unkydesignCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Would it be okay for a man to expose his penis outside a school? Obviously not... Same goes for the hotel plan.

It's indecent exposure and illegal. You may get a sexual kick from it but the poor person on the receiving end certainly won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe this is one of those things that should stay a fantasy (and not a reality)...

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Go for it.

If the person takes offense and reports you to the authorities it's only 5 to 10 years on the sex offenders register. What could possibly go wrong?

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