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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello anybody that has taken the time to read this post.

I havent been on here too long but I'm really struggling to find a meet, and believe me I have been trying.

I was just wondering if you could take a look at my profile, or just advise me in general on what I may be doing wrong?

If any of you are intrested in me don't hessistate to message me.

Male

22 years old

Live in West Midlands

Can drive

Single

Straight

Open minded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just need patience and a lot of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You just need patience and a lot of it."

I have, i just never seem to get anywhere. Majority of the time they say I'm too young, is that really a big issue?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd lose the legal warning.....cos you won't, will ya?

Also, do you think the original 1977 star wars film looks.....dated?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd lose the legal warning.....cos you won't, will ya?

Also, do you think the original 1977 star wars film looks.....dated? "

I'm confused?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You just need patience and a lot of it.

I have, i just never seem to get anywhere. Majority of the time they say I'm too young, is that really a big issue? "

It's a big issue for the people who don't want to meet you, use advanced search and concentrate on people who's criteria you fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried Tinder? You might have more luck on there xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time, thats all I think you need. Your pictures are fine, your profile reads far better than many on here. Likes and dislikes mentioned.

Keep plugging. Have u ever considered going to a club? There's loads in your area, Chams and liberty elite are both really good. Get yourself out there, you have a lovely smile

Mrs

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'd lose the legal warning.....cos you won't, will ya?

Also, do you think the original 1977 star wars film looks.....dated?

I'm confused? "

Which bit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember you from yesterday.

Good to see you're still here and cherpy!

When I was your age I was out in bars and clubs.

My honest answer is you have been on here for 11 months.

Hmm you know ....I think you might have better luck in bars and clubs.

That was me when I was your age.

I'm just thinking maybe try that and come back.

The internet will always be here.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If all else fails ...... buy a frock and shave your legs...

Hey it worked for me......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If all else fails ...... buy a frock and shave your legs...

Hey it worked for me...... "

Ahahaha I like that, made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

great profile sam you read like a educated 27yr old but look like your 16!

i'm not a club goer but personally sam? i'd highly reccomend you attend one this wknd lad .

if you go with JUST the intention of meeting some fab members and watching what goes on, it will be the making of you boy! once the "mature" ladies see your for real, think you might get busy sammy

best of luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I remember you from yesterday.

Good to see you're still here and cherpy!

When I was your age I was out in bars and clubs.

My honest answer is you have been on here for 11 months.

Hmm you know ....I think you might have better luck in bars and clubs.

That was me when I was your age.

I'm just thinking maybe try that and come back.

The internet will always be here.

Good luck

"

Yep that's me still cracking on haha. Good advice mate, I do go clubbing and bars on a regular basis but there doesn't seem to be many older females. Normally always 18-19 year old and I'm not into that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello anybody that has taken the time to read this post.

I havent been on here too long but I'm really struggling to find a meet, and believe me I have been trying.

I was just wondering if you could take a look at my profile, or just advise me in general on what I may be doing wrong?

If any of you are intrested in me don't hessistate to message me.

Male

22 years old

Live in West Midlands

Can drive

Single

Straight

Open minded

"

Delete the legal warning it's pointless.

Then delete your account and make a renew one 11 months no meets = time waster/fantasist to most people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find out when the W.I in your area meet & hang around outside their meeting place. You're sure to meet a mature woman there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not too sure if there's anything else you can add to be honest. What's the average age on here I have no idea but if most of your rejections mention how young you are you've probably got your answer.

Have you tried a club/ party/ social ~ I assume you're old enough for them, that may help you widen your next work of fab friends.

Don't rely on one place, go to bars use tinder to get yourself 'out there'.

x

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

Don't focus on finding a meet, focus on getting to know people and the meets will follow naturally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Delete the legal warning it's pointless.

Then delete your account and make a renew one 11 months no meets = time waster/fantasist to most people"

This is what I wanted to say but I didn't want to knock him out with it so to speak.

But THX is right and that was my thoughts too.

Delete your profile and start a new one.

11 months and no meets will put 90% off.

I'm not going to tell you to go to a club because I don't go to clubs myself but delete your profile and start a new one Sam.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

***....Star wars question reminder....***

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol you only look about 16.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol you only look about 16. "

Very tactile.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Lol you only look about 16.

Very tactile. "
tactful?

Op, the reason why I asked is cos I don't know any 22 years olds and thought it would be an ideal opportunity to get a bit of 'yoof' point of view. Actually, I did have sex with a 19 year old lady last year but forgot to ask her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol you only look about 16.

Very tactile. tactful?

"

Damn phone!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol you only look about 16.

Very tactile. tactful?

Damn phone!! "

Well OP seems fine with it as he's just message ME.

So I wouldn't worry about what I say to much. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess it's back to the drawing board, and time to make a new profile :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol you only look about 16.

Very tactile. tactful?

Damn phone!!

Well OP seems fine with it as he's just message ME.

So I wouldn't worry about what I say to much. xx"

Stop confusing the straight boys it's mean.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Theres loads of threads offering generic profile advice... Search the archives they might help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You just need patience and a lot of it."

That lasted then

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"You just need patience and a lot of it.

That lasted then "

Ah, but he might be back like he said. He's acting on advice.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"You just need patience and a lot of it.

That lasted then

Ah, but he might be back like he said. He's acting on advice. "

Adding 5 yrs onto his age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems his patience ran out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If all else fails ...... buy a frock and shave your legs...

Hey it worked for me...... "

Wins post of the day award

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