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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys. I've only been here for a week, so I'm not expecting miracles. But I feel like an outcast on this site. Is it simply about getting verified and then people see you? Or is there more to it? I always read profiles, never one liner and send a face pic. But rarely get anything back. Am I just not attractive/witty enough? Thanks in advance guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys. I've only been here for a week, so I'm not expecting miracles. But I feel like an outcast on this site. Is it simply about getting verified and then people see you? Or is there more to it? I always read profiles, never one liner and send a face pic. But rarely get anything back. Am I just not attractive/witty enough? Thanks in advance guys "

Nope, it is not about showing a verification. That might increase you chances slightly but only slightly. Who knows whether you are attractive or witty? Your profile does not supply information enough for anyone to assess that.

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By *arlock69Man
over a year ago

Batley... (near Leeds)

Its hard work for all guys on here...doesn't matter how long you've been on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The popular guys are the ones you least expect. Just get yourself out there to be noticed in the first place. Take part in the forums and the clubs and social scene. The rest comes naturally.

Albeit it takes time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your profile. I'd like more pics. Not cock ones. Ones of your torso, bum, half dressed, say with a shirt unbuttoned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like your profile. I'd like more pics. Not cock ones. Ones of your torso, bum, half dressed, say with a shirt unbuttoned."

Or your mouth round his cock

Would be a good one.

(Hides)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey, inst that what we're all after on here :p

Seriously guys, thanks for the feedback. When I get the chance I;ll make some amendments and let you know how I get on.

Don't suppose anyone else has any comments?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just guy's who struggle.

Us couples struggle also, if it wasn't for you single guy's our meets would be very few and far between.

Get in chatroom, talk to people.

Post sensible stuff on forums, don't be stereo typical (is my cock big enough blah blah blah) type

Get to some social events, and clubs, maybe a party if you can get an invite.

Put in some groundwork.

Like building a house, you need to build the foundations first.

Far too many people join expecting instant meets.

Patience, respect, politeness, good sense of humour and usually just being in the right place at right time.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

welcome to the forums alex hope to see more of your opinions and dnt be shy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not just guy's who struggle.

Us couples struggle also, if it wasn't for you single guy's our meets would be very few and far between.

"

Really? For me a it's about meeting couples. Maybe I'm just unusual, but that's what I'm here for. I won't lie, I've approached a couple of single females, but there's a whole dynamic about being with a couple I find so exhilarating!

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Really? For me a it's about meeting couples. Maybe I'm just unusual, but that's what I'm here for. I won't lie, I've approached a couple of single females, but there's a whole dynamic about being with a couple I find so exhilarating!"

If you are looking for couples and really interested in swinging itself, then I would highly recommend you try listening to some of the Life on the Swing Set podcasts. You can't get a better education when you are just starting out than having a listen to a few.

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