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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Struggling abit, because you're new nobody wants to know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great feedback thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem always Happy to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you are struggling because of the mixed message you are giving on your profile regarding your sexual orientation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you've only been here 2 weeks mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've fucked unverifieds. Never more than once though coz i think i was being generous enough fucking them already.

Jk about the more than once thing but some people do fuck unverifieds, i do. If you look there are people moaning about time wasters, so yeah they are wary of unverifieds, and the longer you're on here not verified the more suspicious you tend to look to some people.

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

It takes time.... Lots of it.

Go to a club, a social, chat to people, then they'll verify you are who you say you are.

Also, look at your profile again. Tell us about yourself and what you have to offer.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I thought it was quite clear.

I prefer woman but I've had a dabble with men. But I have to be in the mood.

How would you phrase it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it was quite clear.

I prefer woman but I've had a dabble with men. But I have to be in the mood.

How would you phrase it?

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I would phrase it as bisexual or maybe bi-curious. Sounds more honest and straightforward and people will not get any nasty surprises!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can take a bit of time. Luckily not everyone avoids unverified guys. For women it seems to be different. They can get a tit out on cam and get 10 veris that they are genuine, the sexiest person on earth and not a timewasting liar. I know that sounds grumpy. I don't mean to come across like that. It's just how it is. It's a numbers game and the boys can't win. So. Relax, sooner or later you'll get verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it was quite clear.

I prefer woman but I've had a dabble with men. But I have to be in the mood.

How would you phrase it?

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Bisexual ? You Dabble so you like, Not rocket Science really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your right it isn't. Thankyou you've been very helpful yet hostile at the same time.

I hope everyone's as friendly as you on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your right it isn't. Thankyou you've been very helpful yet hostile at the same time.

I hope everyone's as friendly as you on here "

Welcome. I take it after this you'll have a clearer idea of how it goes on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well this next question will probably annoy my new friend. Tried googling it but nothing came up.

What does the OP stand for ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Original post (er). As in. The person who started the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tread carefully grasshopper

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks been bugging me for 2 weeks ha

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Good luck and yes it does take a bit of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best bet for you would be add some pics and pad your profile out a bit more with what you like/what you're looking for. Try going in chat room as some people will verify you by cam if you've chatted to them. Failing that try visiting a local club or social and speak to people face to face it's not as intimidating as you might think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it was quite clear.

I prefer woman but I've had a dabble with men. But I have to be in the mood.

How would you phrase it?

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by not having straight on your profile

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I would change your heading on your profile cos the first thing you see when you go on your page is "Bored.."

Then get rid of the bit at the bottom about needing to be verified. If I see that on someone who contacts me I think they just want a meet ANY meet to get started!

Oh and you look like you have a good body so more pics please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate,

That is such a below average profile.

Do you have any idea how many single men there are on this site?

A single female would easily get away with a profile like that, but when your out numbered 250-1 (probably more) you gotta make your self seen, stand our from the crowd.

Pictures help for a start, you have not got the best have you, lets be honest.

That being said it looks like your in quite good shape, take some shots, put your self out there.

You have been a member for 2 weeks, Jesus even for us it took over 4 months for our first veri, That was on a previous profile.

put a few funny's in your profile text, keep people interested in reading it, get some nice shots of yourself, face body torso and dare I say it cock.

But must importantly get out and about, go to socials, clubs ect ect, failing that get in the chat room with your cam on, speak to people, if your chatting away and having a laugh then ask them to very you.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the above poster. You need more pics, you should remove the bit about needing a verification (no one wants to have a meet purely so the other person can get verified, or even to feel that way),and get rid of "straight" on your profile. We personally don't mind meeting with people who are bi, but we won't meet with people are don't seem honest on their profile.

And we have met single guys who were not verified...you just need a bit of a different approach. Good luck!!

-Courtney

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By *edonistic needsWoman
over a year ago

sexton

hi there to be fair I got bored reading your profile sorry but there are hundreds of single guys on here and as a single fem I get a lot of messages each day so you need to stand out from the crowd Be honest but also witty have some charisma it might be an idea for you to read some of the guys who ve had success on here profiles to get some ideas and yes more pics Happy Swinging Zana

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is absolutely no way that I would fuck an unverified make

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a couple of things from your profile.

1. What are these 'hardsports' that you don't like ?

2. I'm assuming your real name isn't Michael since you've spelt in wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes years. Hang in there. U will find fab is a womans world lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look, I've been a single guy on here for a while now and only had 3 meets. It's not the end of the world be patient, read what people are looking for, be polite, confident and never pushy and I'm sure something will come along.

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By *ust ms lovinWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"It takes time.... Lots of it.

Go to a club, a social, chat to people, then they'll verify you are who you say you are.

Also, look at your profile again. Tell us about yourself and what you have to offer.

Good luck. "

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