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Best way of 1st meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

for all the newbees whats the best tips in getting the 1st meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Email loads and hope for a reply and a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials at clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go to a club"

Im thinking of going to a club but in my head i keep thinking i be a lemon going by myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to a club

Im thinking of going to a club but in my head i keep thinking i be a lemon going by myself "

Only you can decide to go or not, its not for everyone but the a lot of people go and have a great time. If you decide to go, do your research and got to a club and a night that suits you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go to a club

Im thinking of going to a club but in my head i keep thinking i be a lemon going by myself

Only you can decide to go or not, its not for everyone but the a lot of people go and have a great time. If you decide to go, do your research and got to a club and a night that suits you "

Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club, get your face out there.

Get out to social events, there's loads out there to go to and network, get yourself on the guest lists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for all the newbees whats the best tips in getting the 1st meet"

Maybe spend some time improving your profile?

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Here's the secrets they're not telling you...

Clubs are pointless, just filled with single men every now and then a female goes and sits in a paddling pool which is full by the end.

Send lots of cock pictures and you definitely do not want to send more than one line or they lose attention.

For every word in the message send another cock picture.

Don't accommodate, You wanna be in and out before she gets your name.

Hope this helps.

Information courtesy of every guy on fab who fails.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Here's the secrets they're not telling you...

Clubs are pointless, just filled with single men every now and then a female goes and sits in a paddling pool which is full by the end.

Send lots of cock pictures and you definitely do not want to send more than one line or they lose attention.

For every word in the message send another cock picture.

Don't accommodate, You wanna be in and out before she gets your name.

Hope this helps.

Information courtesy of every guy on fab who fails. "

Thanks for the advice

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"Here's the secrets they're not telling you...

Clubs are pointless, just filled with single men every now and then a female goes and sits in a paddling pool which is full by the end.

Send lots of cock pictures and you definitely do not want to send more than one line or they lose attention.

For every word in the message send another cock picture.

Don't accommodate, You wanna be in and out before she gets your name.

Hope this helps.

Information courtesy of every guy on fab who fails.

Thanks for the advice"

All true.... Honest...

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

You need to improve your profile, it doesn't give any information or personality

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need to improve your profile, it doesn't give any information or personality "

Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to improve your profile, it doesn't give any information or personality "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need to improve your profile, it doesn't give any information or personality "

Isit that bad

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Yes, it is minimal and says nothing. Using words like 'liberated','experimental' are not informative. By what standards?

Are you an adult baby or just like to wear tight boxers on a Thursday.

Similarly, the fact you can delineate between passionate and non-passionate meets is going to put some off. I mean, who on earth wants one of the latter?

Be more specific and try to appeal to the senses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to improve your profile, it doesn't give any information or personality

Isit that bad "

Yes. All three sentences are uninformative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need help also mate so don't worry :P just got back on here and ready to get verified

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"You need to improve your profile, it doesn't give any information or personality

Isit that bad "

Yes, you're just using buzz words at the moment.

Kinky in what way? Do you want me to shit on your chest or tie you up and whip you?

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Here's the secrets they're not telling you...

Clubs are pointless, just filled with single men every now and then a female goes and sits in a paddling pool which is full by the end.

Send lots of cock pictures and you definitely do not want to send more than one line or they lose attention.

For every word in the message send another cock picture.

Don't accommodate, You wanna be in and out before she gets your name.

Hope this helps.

Information courtesy of every guy on fab who fails.

Thanks for the advice"

seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for all the newbees whats the best tips in getting the 1st meet"

Be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to improve your profile, it doesn't give any information or personality

Isit that bad

Yes, you're just using buzz words at the moment.

Kinky in what way? Do you want me to shit on your chest or tie you up and whip you? "
can i have both?

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"You need to improve your profile, it doesn't give any information or personality

Isit that bad

Yes, you're just using buzz words at the moment.

Kinky in what way? Do you want me to shit on your chest or tie you up and whip you? can i have both? "

Maybe off the OP??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to a club, get your face out there.

Get out to social events, there's loads out there to go to and network, get yourself on the guest lists."

Where do I find details of such socials ?

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh unless your comfy in the situation already a club isn't going to get you your first meet its just going to be an expensive and awkward night out.

Message people who's requirements you meet and who meet your requirements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having just looked at your profile.

Ditch the status and actually write a profile.

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By *he Hobbit And MeCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Club or a party

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Go to a social of some kind and dont just sit in the corner!!

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Find profile[s] that would seem possible in terms of match - write a nice message that shows you are sane. Chat a while if you get a reply. Don't go ballistic if you don't. Take time and be nice. Be yourself as well of course.

Enjoy being here whatever happens...

Good luck

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