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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question for all

"How long would you wait for a party to turn up for a social"

This bearing in mind the meet place is a bar or pub unknown to yourself and the locals see that you are waiting for some one...

Would love to hear how long you would wait

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

For one drink if I've not had any contact telling me they're running late

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

One drink for me also, with/without a packet of salt and vinegar

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

One drink or half an hour, whichever is the longer.

But I always take my Kindle with me so even if the venue is full of locals I don't look too concerned or worried while waiting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wait in the car lol

Half hour would be the most I'd hang around for!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for the kind replies, so 30min's is the max... or any other opinions ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all for the kind replies, so 30min's is the max... or any other opinions ? "

If I felt comfortable in the venue a maximum of 30 minutes. If I didn't, then I'd wait outside for 5 as there would little excuse for not getting a message to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However long you feel comfortable waiting for. It's your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for all

"How long would you wait for a party to turn up for a social"

This bearing in mind the meet place is a bar or pub unknown to yourself and the locals see that you are waiting for some one...

Would love to hear how long you would wait "

if i didnt hear nothing on the day of the meet i wouldnt go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for all

"How long would you wait for a party to turn up for a social"

This bearing in mind the meet place is a bar or pub unknown to yourself and the locals see that you are waiting for some one...

Would love to hear how long you would wait

if i didnt hear nothing on the day of the meet i wouldnt go"

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I think i'd agree with half an hour and if no show/message leave.

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex

I wouldn't go if I didn't hear anything within 10 minutes of the time I needed to leave telling me to do so lol

I am the sort of person, I don't do "it's pre-arranged so just get there at the agreed time" I understand that time is fluid and never works out exactly how I want it to so I would expect regular updates on where we stand (I will text before i leave the house to ask if they will be ready before I get there if I leave at (x) time lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I text them on the day to make sure we're still ok. I let them know if I'm running late and expect the same. I wouldn't stay long if we weren't texting about running late.

I'm not bothered about sitting on my own in a pub though. Especially if they are all strangers. They can think whatever they like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probs an hour max if not heard. If it's a play date your urges would keep you there longer. Let's face it sitting there on your own isn't very social.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Question for all

"How long would you wait for a party to turn up for a social"

This bearing in mind the meet place is a bar or pub unknown to yourself and the locals see that you are waiting for some one...

Would love to hear how long you would wait

if i didnt hear nothing on the day of the meet i wouldnt go"

I read that quickly and thought you said you'd wait all day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all xxxxxxxxx We did wait 1/2 hour being already too early there (hubby spent too long in Switzerland) and then left ... felt guilty but hugs for all the nice answers Naughty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all xxxxxxxxx We did wait 1/2 hour being already too early there (hubby spent too long in Switzerland) and then left ... felt guilty but hugs for all the nice answers Naughty x"

You felt guilty why? Half an hour is plenty. Suppose it depends if they had your phone number and could let you know. Chin up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they didn't turn up don't forget to report.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I'd wait half an hour. Once I waited 2 hours for a couple. They were texting saying they were on their way, then stuck in traffic, then just ten minutes away....they never showed. I got home to find my rabbit had died so was a crap day all in all. Half an hour is my limit now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1/2 an hour was plenty. What kind of idiot fails to turn up for a meet with a lady that must have made a huge effort to have the courage to be there. Horrible, stupid, silly, rude people that spoil it for all of us that are genuine.

Rant over

and breath..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all for the kind replies, so 30min's is the max... or any other opinions ? "

15 minutes for me and one drink or coffee. I once waited over a hour on one social and a half hour for another a week later. Not any more.

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

On my own? 30 mins max. With my fella? Depends who's buying lol

Mrs _d40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave someone the benefit of the doubt once and waited nearly an hour. I hadn't realised the tube network had gone into meltdown that evening. I was glad I had waited for her once I found out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all day i'd have a good drink and find the local slut if a no show

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If on own would wait 30 mins max, as a couple we would just have a few drinks as leave when we felt ready to have some fun at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really wouldn't go if I'd not heard from them that day ..but if I had heard and not heard they were running late I'd only wait half an hour for them

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

3o minutes sounds about right if you didn't have any contact saying they were late...after that it would seem unlikely

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