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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

Idk how to git what we won't and y is it so hard to play and what can we do to improve our profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profile isn't great

And sounds rather selfish. What does the woman get out of it.

Oh and your message on here try English not text talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The profile isn't great

And sounds rather selfish. What does the woman get out of it.

Oh and your message on here try English not text talk "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus change the silly picture you have as your avatar with the one I have fabbed, only so you know which one as that is quite a nice one of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above and lose some of the silly pics. You have some nicer ones which people will notice more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its easy y not. Single women are the hardest to meet and fuck here lol

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

Ok well We change the pic and me and my hubby tryed three ways befor with just guys and just girls I did not like the outher man and it made me fill weard and pulse I have a man and a dick I love I just won't pussy to and he better be lucky iam like that

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

Can every one re look at our profile and tell us what you think pleas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I give up!"

Pmsl ()

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile text needs punctuation and there's loads of bits that don't make sense. Read it again to yourselfs out loud. Cut a few pics out and swap them for some sexier ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Idk? Git? Wtf?

Try language as your favoured form of communication.

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By *aul_the_nudistMan
over a year ago

WREXHAM

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By *aul_the_nudistMan
over a year ago

WREXHAM


"Idk? Git? Wtf?

Try language as your favoured form of communication. "

This....

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Idk? Git? Wtf?

Try language as your favoured form of communication. "

Play nicely fellas.

You have no idea if there is a reason behind her poor spelling, you could be making yourself look a twat if there is!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The 420 bit of your user name might put some off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, the drug reference in your user name would be a big no quite apart from how badly written it is. There is absolutely nothing appealing about it whatsoever if we were in your demographic, what would be in it for anyone considering it?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I just read your profile text again, it doesn't seem too bad. You say what you would like to do with another woman, could you change that a bit so it showed that you would like it to be the two of you women enjoying the experience? At the moment it sounds like you just want her there for you to touch. Would your partner be joining in or watching make that clear too and as I said consider losing the 420 bit of your username.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to agree with what others have said. Your profile seems to set out what you are looking for, photos show both of you, so from that point of view, all well and good.

However spelling and punctuation would put a lot of people off, as does text talk. Should be easy enough with spell checker etc.

I also think you are looking for someone that seems to be fairly illusive. Not called unicorns for nothing. Think of yourself as the person you are looking for and look again at your profile. Does it stand out from others? Because it needs to, to attract the unicorn you need very good bait! Ask yourselves if yours is good enough? And take notice of the advice you have already been given.

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By *unknSoulCouple
over a year ago

dumfries-ish

Have not looked at your profile. Put who you are and what you want see how it goes.

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

Ok my wife re did our profile look at it now and we are going to take nicer pics

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster


"I have to agree with what others have said. Your profile seems to set out what you are looking for, photos show both of you, so from that point of view, all well and good.

However spelling and punctuation would put a lot of people off, as does text talk. Should be easy enough with spell checker etc.

I also think you are looking for someone that seems to be fairly illusive. Not called unicorns for nothing. Think of yourself as the person you are looking for and look again at your profile. Does it stand out from others? Because it needs to, to attract the unicorn you need very good bait! Ask yourselves if yours is good enough? And take notice of the advice you have already been given."
Ok I will do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's to short to be honest, it only tells people a short description of what "you" want.

Try making it a bit longer, maybe a bit about what you seek, what you can offer, a bit about yourselfs and also good if a bit of humour in there.

You have to try to sell yourselfs

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

Ok look at it bow it real and what we won't

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ok look at it bow it real and what we won't "

Change the spelling of board to "bored" and I don't understand what "hafe" is. Apart from that it's a bit better. Hope you find what you're after, good luck.

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By *ill4cherMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Ok look at it bow it real and what we won't "

Huh? I have no idea what you meant to say!!

I didn't see your previous version, so this applies to what you have on your profile now.

Change "board" to "bored". Change "were" to either "we are" or "we're". Put a full stop at the end of each sentence and start the next with a capital letter. It is very hard to read otherwise. And what do you mean by "hafe swing".

Plus what others have said.

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By *rs TootyWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

It looks like you have raided your Facebook profile for pictures.

As other say you need to check your grammar.

You don't look as tho you're offering very much to prospective 'partners'.

You need to know what you're looking for and are willing to offer before people will take you seriously.

Good luck

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I can only agree with what others have already said. I would also suggest that you look at the profiles of those who have responded, this might help to explain what we all mean.

Best of luck.

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By *ebedee2009Man
over a year ago

South Croydon

Does your carer allow you Internet access?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Does your carer allow you Internet access?"

Rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remind me not to send my kids to the school you went to, if you went at all

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

Wow I did go to school I just can't spell my wife can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit better but like others said you still need to use paragraphs, punctuation and spellchecker. Also still need to change your pics. the pulling of faces isn't really good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does your carer allow you Internet access?

Rude. "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remind me not to send my kids to the school you went to, if you went at all "

Rude and unnecessary.

Also not providing the help the OP was asking for.

If I'm asked for help I tend to help. If I'm asked to be sarcastic and rude......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Idk? Git? Wtf?

Try language as your favoured form of communication. "

This

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Does your carer allow you Internet access?"

Simply: wow!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Op, communication is key. Your profile text and op is poorly written/unintelligible and that will put some people off. Some of the pictures ie visible toilet, are not appealing.

Bottom line: you have to sell you in a crowded market. As it stands you'll struggle: good luck.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Op you are both very young, much younger than most of us who have answered you. It occurred to me this morning that it could be that we aren't the best people to advise you, we aren't familiar with a lot of the phrases and vernacular that you use and someone of your age might be.

You will have learned though that rudeness, sarcasm and bitterness have no age limits and that I am sorry for.

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

Ok thank you I'll just have my wife write for me I suck at spelling I text to much thanks for all the help

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By *urvybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

tidworth


"Op you are both very young, much younger than most of us who have answered you. It occurred to me this morning that it could be that we aren't the best people to advise you, we aren't familiar with a lot of the phrases and vernacular that you use and someone of your age might be.

You will have learned though that rudeness, sarcasm and bitterness have no age limits and that I am sorry for."

I am young-ish - I don't understand their profile, I can't read it because there's no punctuation... (Well that's a lie, yes I can, but I can't be bothered to attempt to separate sentences, try and work out what the words are supposed to be... Etc etc).

You could use a dictionary? If you are struggling with punctuation, read your profile out loud, put a comma every time you feel the need to pause or breath. This might help a little. Put a full stop once you feel you've communicated to message you want. Then move on to your next sentence.

Your pictures aren't massively appealing, and are very 'samey'. Pick the best ones, and have those, then take some sexier ones?

Hope this helps. But at the end of the day, you won't be everyones cup of tea.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Op you are both very young, much younger than most of us who have answered you. It occurred to me this morning that it could be that we aren't the best people to advise you, we aren't familiar with a lot of the phrases and vernacular that you use and someone of your age might be.

You will have learned though that rudeness, sarcasm and bitterness have no age limits and that I am sorry for.

I am young-ish - I don't understand their profile, I can't read it because there's no punctuation... (Well that's a lie, yes I can, but I can't be bothered to attempt to separate sentences, try and work out what the words are supposed to be... Etc etc).

You could use a dictionary? If you are struggling with punctuation, read your profile out loud, put a comma every time you feel the need to pause or breath. This might help a little. Put a full stop once you feel you've communicated to message you want. Then move on to your next sentence.

Your pictures aren't massively appealing, and are very 'samey'. Pick the best ones, and have those, then take some sexier ones?

Hope this helps. But at the end of the day, you won't be everyones cup of tea. "

oh right, I'm very aware that I wont know what's current in "yoofspeak" it took me months to work out afaik

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By *urvybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

tidworth


"Op you are both very young, much younger than most of us who have answered you. It occurred to me this morning that it could be that we aren't the best people to advise you, we aren't familiar with a lot of the phrases and vernacular that you use and someone of your age might be.

You will have learned though that rudeness, sarcasm and bitterness have no age limits and that I am sorry for.

I am young-ish - I don't understand their profile, I can't read it because there's no punctuation... (Well that's a lie, yes I can, but I can't be bothered to attempt to separate sentences, try and work out what the words are supposed to be... Etc etc).

You could use a dictionary? If you are struggling with punctuation, read your profile out loud, put a comma every time you feel the need to pause or breath. This might help a little. Put a full stop once you feel you've communicated to message you want. Then move on to your next sentence.

Your pictures aren't massively appealing, and are very 'samey'. Pick the best ones, and have those, then take some sexier ones?

Hope this helps. But at the end of the day, you won't be everyones cup of tea.

oh right, I'm very aware that I wont know what's current in "yoofspeak" it took me months to work out afaik "

Uhhh ... What's afaik ?!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Op you are both very young, much younger than most of us who have answered you. It occurred to me this morning that it could be that we aren't the best people to advise you, we aren't familiar with a lot of the phrases and vernacular that you use and someone of your age might be.

You will have learned though that rudeness, sarcasm and bitterness have no age limits and that I am sorry for.

I am young-ish - I don't understand their profile, I can't read it because there's no punctuation... (Well that's a lie, yes I can, but I can't be bothered to attempt to separate sentences, try and work out what the words are supposed to be... Etc etc).

You could use a dictionary? If you are struggling with punctuation, read your profile out loud, put a comma every time you feel the need to pause or breath. This might help a little. Put a full stop once you feel you've communicated to message you want. Then move on to your next sentence.

Your pictures aren't massively appealing, and are very 'samey'. Pick the best ones, and have those, then take some sexier ones?

Hope this helps. But at the end of the day, you won't be everyones cup of tea.

oh right, I'm very aware that I wont know what's current in "yoofspeak" it took me months to work out afaik

Uhhh ... What's afaik ?! "

as far as I know

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm feeling very current just about now

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"Op you are both very young, much younger than most of us who have answered you. It occurred to me this morning that it could be that we aren't the best people to advise you, we aren't familiar with a lot of the phrases and vernacular that you use and someone of your age might be.

You will have learned though that rudeness, sarcasm and bitterness have no age limits and that I am sorry for.

I am young-ish - I don't understand their profile, I can't read it because there's no punctuation... (Well that's a lie, yes I can, but I can't be bothered to attempt to separate sentences, try and work out what the words are supposed to be... Etc etc).

You could use a dictionary? If you are struggling with punctuation, read your profile out loud, put a comma every time you feel the need to pause or breath. This might help a little. Put a full stop once you feel you've communicated to message you want. Then move on to your next sentence.

Your pictures aren't massively appealing, and are very 'samey'. Pick the best ones, and have those, then take some sexier ones?

Hope this helps. But at the end of the day, you won't be everyones cup of tea.

oh right, I'm very aware that I wont know what's current in "yoofspeak" it took me months to work out afaik

Uhhh ... What's afaik ?! "

As Far As I know

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By *urvybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

tidworth


"I'm feeling very current just about now "

Good! Ha ha! Never heard that one before! At work we have - JFDI (just f*cking do it)!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm feeling very current just about now

Good! Ha ha! Never heard that one before! At work we have - JFDI (just f*cking do it)! "

Ooo I am appropriating that one.

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By *urvybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

tidworth


"I'm feeling very current just about now

Good! Ha ha! Never heard that one before! At work we have - JFDI (just f*cking do it)!

Ooo I am appropriating that one. "

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

Ok will do

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just noticed the 420 in ur username too

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

I'm sorry but for me everything about your profile screams immaturity which is something nobody can teach you to overcome, for that reason alone I wouldn't want to talk to either of you.

Remove all of your pictures and start again. If you only remove one remove the one of you smoking a joint.

420 plus you both being smokers tells me you both smoke which for a LOT of people will be off putting.

Go back to Facebook, you're way over your heads here guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sorry but for me everything about your profile screams immaturity which is something nobody can teach you to overcome, for that reason alone I wouldn't want to talk to either of you.

Remove all of your pictures and start again. If you only remove one remove the one of you smoking a joint.

420 plus you both being smokers tells me you both smoke which for a LOT of people will be off putting.

Go back to Facebook, you're way over your heads here guys."

pmsl

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

We it new pics up Idk what to say on my wall and don't give a fuck but hop yall like the pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have I missed something here, it say's you're in California???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I noticed location changed to there lol.

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

Yea it been sed I live in the US

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

Yea it been sed I live in the US

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And that, like just about everything else you've written, makes no sense at all!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"And that, like just about everything else you've written, makes no sense at all!"

I understood it.

Yes it's been said. I live in the USA.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"We it new pics up Idk what to say on my wall and don't give a fuck but hop yall like the pics "

By not giving a fuck you won't get a fuck.

This site has real people, most of which are at the minimum semi-intelligent.

Swinging isn't just "I've got a dick let's fuck" it's (from what I've seen) more about the social aspect and having fun, I don't mean "fun" I mean having a good time, sex is the by-product.

If you don't seem like you could hold a conversation and make for pleasant company (you don't by the way) then you're probably limited to horny single guys who don't care what happens as long as they get to fuck someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And that, like just about everything else you've written, makes no sense at all!

I understood it.

Yes it's been said. I live in the USA. "

I'm not saying that I didn't understand the written words, I'm saying that I didn't understand the reasoning behind them. I haven't seen too many profiles where their location has been another continent because it's been said they live there!

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Oh yeah nearly forgot, on your profile you state you only want to meet single bi women for threesomes.

That's like trying to catch a unicorn with a diamond encrusted golden fishing rod using rocking horse shit as bait.

I'll dumb it down for you, very unlikely.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"And that, like just about everything else you've written, makes no sense at all!

I understood it.

Yes it's been said. I live in the USA.

I'm not saying that I didn't understand the written words, I'm saying that I didn't understand the reasoning behind them. I haven't seen too many profiles where their location has been another continent because it's been said they live there!"

Now it's my turn to not understand.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

get someone that can write basic English to help u right a new one ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op you are both very young, much younger than most of us who have answered you. It occurred to me this morning that it could be that we aren't the best people to advise you, we aren't familiar with a lot of the phrases and vernacular that you use and someone of your age might be.

You will have learned though that rudeness, sarcasm and bitterness have no age limits and that I am sorry for."

Whilst I know people get sick of seeing the same mistakes again and again I have to agree with this post.

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

Ok thank u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does your carer allow you Internet access?"
have to agree

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

What is the significance of 420 in the username?

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Does your carer allow you Internet access? have to agree"

well I don't no need to be nasty or rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the significance of 420 in the username? "

C

Generally 420 refers to cannabis.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"What is the significance of 420 in the username?

C

Generally 420 refers to cannabis. "

silly me! I thinking it was just a number

learn something new everyday as they say thanks for the reply

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By *essysteveCouple
over a year ago

ALICANTE AREA SPAIN


"Idk how to git what we won't and y is it so hard to play and what can we do to improve our profile "
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you really need to let us understand what you are looking for - we cannot understand many of the words that you use - so perhaps get a friend who is a little better at spelling to write it for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the significance of 420 in the username?

C

Generally 420 refers to cannabis.

silly me! I thinking it was just a number

learn something new everyday as they say thanks for the reply"

I'm glad someone else asked, I didn't know either.

I also learnt AFAIK.

Every day's a school day here isn't it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok well We change the pic and me and my hubby tryed three ways befor with just guys and just girls I did not like the outher man and it made me fill weard and pulse I have a man and a dick I love I just won't pussy to and he better be lucky iam like that "

Not to be funny but is English the first language for either of you?

Try a spell checker English is not a language that you can spell phonetically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op you are both very young, much younger than most of us who have answered you. It occurred to me this morning that it could be that we aren't the best people to advise you, we aren't familiar with a lot of the phrases and vernacular that you use and someone of your age might be.

"

It's nothing to do with age lol.

What they've written makes perfect sense (aside from typos) if you sound it out phonetically.

You mostly see this with recent African immigrants who are trying to write English as it sounds but English is a weird language where that doesn't work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the significance of 420 in the username?

C

Generally 420 refers to cannabis.

silly me! I thinking it was just a number

learn something new everyday as they say thanks for the reply"

No problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow! Just Wow! For some people here who are part of a scene, where outside people could be incredibly critical and judgemental of what you do for a past time, you are quite critical, judgemental, and down right rude yourselves! (This is aimed at that fraction of those who have responded to the OP on here in what can only be described as shockingly poor!)

It's quite clear that for those people, the sense of community and the real essence of swinging is quite lost!

For sure, we all have our likes, dislikes and preferences, but to be completely and openly critical and judgemental towards people who are only seeking support, help and guidance, you should be bloody ashamed of yourselves, because quite frankly it's nothing less than bullying.

For those who responded with non judgemental constructive criticism, we applaud you and YOUR sense of community and simple decency!

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster


"Wow! Just Wow! For some people here who are part of a scene, where outside people could be incredibly critical and judgemental of what you do for a past time, you are quite critical, judgemental, and down right rude yourselves! (This is aimed at that fraction of those who have responded to the OP on here in what can only be described as shockingly poor!)

It's quite clear that for those people, the sense of community and the real essence of swinging is quite lost!

For sure, we all have our likes, dislikes and preferences, but to be completely and openly critical and judgemental towards people who are only seeking support, help and guidance, you should be bloody ashamed of yourselves, because quite frankly it's nothing less than bullying.

For those who responded with non judgemental constructive criticism, we applaud you and YOUR sense of community and simple decency!

"
Thank you

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster


"Ok well We change the pic and me and my hubby tryed three ways befor with just guys and just girls I did not like the outher man and it made me fill weard and pulse I have a man and a dick I love I just won't pussy to and he better be lucky iam like that

Not to be funny but is English the first language for either of you?

Try a spell checker English is not a language that you can spell phonetically."
yes born and raised in the USA we both wher

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster


"What is the significance of 420 in the username? "
it's just somthing we like to do like people drinking and smoking cigs its what we like to do

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By *ill4cherMan
over a year ago

Bristol

They've updated it now and the text MUCH MUCH better, and the pics now pretty good, at least the public ones, don't know what's in the friends-only ones.

Well done you two for taking on board the advice, and hope you now get some good meets over there in the US of A.

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By *ill4cherMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Wow! Just Wow! For some people here who are part of a scene, where outside people could be incredibly critical and judgemental of what you do for a past time, you are quite critical, judgemental, and down right rude yourselves! (This is aimed at that fraction of those who have responded to the OP on here in what can only be described as shockingly poor!)

It's quite clear that for those people, the sense of community and the real essence of swinging is quite lost!

For sure, we all have our likes, dislikes and preferences, but to be completely and openly critical and judgemental towards people who are only seeking support, help and guidance, you should be bloody ashamed of yourselves, because quite frankly it's nothing less than bullying.

For those who responded with non judgemental constructive criticism, we applaud you and YOUR sense of community and simple decency!

"

This

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Yeah, try to ignore the horrible comments. Although Fab covers America, it does appear to be very UK focused, so as well as having a Fab profile, you might want to think about using more than 1 site.

You have added a couple of photos over the last few days, but the one on the bed doesn't even have a sheet or bedding on it so it might be off putting to some people. Try to prepare a little before taking some sexy photos.

I hope that helps, good luck

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster


"Yeah, try to ignore the horrible comments. Although Fab covers America, it does appear to be very UK focused, so as well as having a Fab profile, you might want to think about using more than 1 site.

You have added a couple of photos over the last few days, but the one on the bed doesn't even have a sheet or bedding on it so it might be off putting to some people. Try to prepare a little before taking some sexy photos.

I hope that helps, good luck "
Ok we will and if u won't to see what's in the friends only just send a request any one can and thanks for all the positive advice

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

I cant add to it because I'm not you so I don't know you personally but how about something like this?

"WE ARE LOOKING FOR WOMEN ONLY, WE DO NOT SWAP.

My wife and I are looking for 3 ways. My wife is bisexual so we are looking for ladies to join us.

We are down to earth and want to try new things. We are fun and outgoing and we know how to please others. Yes, we are young, but we do have a lot to offer. We can't travel but we are happy to accommodate.

If your looking for that get in touch."

You may want to add what it is you have to offer though.

Hope that helps

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

I've just looked through your photos. Please don't take offence at this but your bedroom pictures need to be a *lot* better as they look like you're squatters! That will put people off immediately!

If you want people to come to you and have fun then you are going to need to offer better than what look like filthy pillows and an unmade bed! Your photos don't say sexy they scream dirty, and not in a good way. If that attracts you to someone's home to have sex then great for you but I can assure you that it will turn pretty much everyone else away

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

Sorry for that we have all that we are giting new things we just are in the process of moving and are bed is most of the time made but I'm moving tommrow and every thing is packed up we will post new pics and no offense token

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster


"I cant add to it because I'm not you so I don't know you personally but how about something like this?

"WE ARE LOOKING FOR WOMEN ONLY, WE DO NOT SWAP.

My wife and I are looking for 3 ways. My wife is bisexual so we are looking for ladies to join us.

We are down to earth and want to try new things. We are fun and outgoing and we know how to please others. Yes, we are young, but we do have a lot to offer. We can't travel but we are happy to accommodate.

If your looking for that get in touch."

You may want to add what it is you have to offer though.

Hope that helps "
I will just copy and paste lol but true

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Sorry for that we have all that we are giting new things we just are in the process of moving and are bed is most of the time made but I'm moving tommrow and every thing is packed up we will post new pics and no offense token "

I would remove the photos and just wait till you have some better ones. Take a look at the site's most fabbed photos for inspiration as to what people think looks good and see if it works for you too?

You'll get there, it just takes a bit of work to sell yourself when you have loads of competition on sites as big as this

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

We fell like online hookers

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

Dam this is a lot of work but who knows it might be worthwhile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow! Just Wow! For some people here who are part of a scene, where outside people could be incredibly critical and judgemental of what you do for a past time, you are quite critical, judgemental, and down right rude yourselves! (This is aimed at that fraction of those who have responded to the OP on here in what can only be described as shockingly poor!)

It's quite clear that for those people, the sense of community and the real essence of swinging is quite lost!

For sure, we all have our likes, dislikes and preferences, but to be completely and openly critical and judgemental towards people who are only seeking support, help and guidance, you should be bloody ashamed of yourselves, because quite frankly it's nothing less than bullying.

For those who responded with non judgemental constructive criticism, we applaud you and YOUR sense of community and simple decency!

"

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By *ill4cherMan
over a year ago

Bristol


""we are looking to play any one won't to play with us""

Put WANT instead of WON'T.

WON'T is short for "WILL NOT", so it reads as if you're looking for someone who WILL NOT play with you duh!

WANT means you REQUIRE something.

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By *ill4cherMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Ok we will and if u won't (*WANT*) to see what's in the friends only just send a request any one can and thanks for all the positive advice "

Tried to take up your offer to view your friends only pics, but I'm blocked from asking you by your preferences.

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

We will in block u

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster


"Ok we will and if u won't (*WANT*) to see what's in the friends only just send a request any one can and thanks for all the positive advice

Tried to take up your offer to view your friends only pics, but I'm blocked from asking you by your preferences. "
u are in blocked

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By *ill4cherMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"u are in blocked"

You have males blocked, and the only way to unblock individually is for you to send me a message, then FabS unblocks so I can reply. To see your friends pics you'd have to invite me as a friend anyway.

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Regrdless of what has been said here, this couple have continuously been polite in thanking people for advice.

We should be wishing them well [and of course offering constructive criticism] but there is a fair amount of taking the piss going on, despite the mentioning that they agree they aren't good at spelling. It really is unnecessary.

Just my view.

Good luck to you both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take some pics with you in some sexy lingerie/stockings & heels try to relax while taking them. good lighting helps to enhance to quality of pic and smiling is good.. feel free to have a look at our profile pic. hope this helps & good luck..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smokers......can't travel....... Looking for the elusive bisexual woman......to indulge their fantasy.....

good luck !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op are there any sites like this one but based in America that mite be better for you both x

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster


"Regrdless of what has been said here, this couple have continuously been polite in thanking people for advice.

We should be wishing them well [and of course offering constructive criticism] but there is a fair amount of taking the piss going on, despite the mentioning that they agree they aren't good at spelling. It really is unnecessary.

Just my view.

Good luck to you both."
thank you

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster


"Take some pics with you in some sexy lingerie/stockings & heels try to relax while taking them. good lighting helps to enhance to quality of pic and smiling is good.. feel free to have a look at our profile pic. hope this helps & good luck..x "
Will do after we move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say get a better camera

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a bit of a poor profile, to be honest.

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

New up dates sens the last time look at our page pleas and pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try some punctuation, ie full stops, commas etc.

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Your pics are very samey, choose just a couple of your favourites.

Lose the one of the male flicking the bird, not attractive!

As others have said, punctuation and a spell checker...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this post is a wind up.....no-one is really that bad....surely!

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By *r. and mis.jay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lancaster

OK thank u guys

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